Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 16 Location: West Virginia
Am I the Only One!!!! Posted: 03-22-06 00:50am
:x... Ok I was talking to this girl today
and she was telling me that she might be 2
1/2 months preg. Well I asked her who the
father was and she said "some guy from a
party and if I am it is a big accident" am
I the only one who thinks that that is the
dumbest thing anybody could ever say..To
me I think no pregnancy is a accident you
know that getting preg is one of the
chances if you have sex and an accident is
something you don't know is going to
happen..I don't know if i'm the only one
who feels this way or not..Anybody feel
the same way or different
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hunterjumper
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Dec 2005 Posts: 203 Location: British Columbia, Canada
Posted: 03-22-06 01:01am
Consenting to sex isn't consenting to
pregnancy, just like eating an apple isn't
consenting to possibly contract some
disease from all the pestacides on it.
Sure, if you're not using any sort of
birth control then you shouldn't act
surprised when a pregnancy pops up.
But she may have used a condom and may
even be on birth control in which case a
pregnancy is quite a surprise as your
chances are pretty nil if both are used
consistantly and properly.
Some people are just silly too and think
that because they don't think they'll get
pregnant, that they won't...Even if they
don't use anything.
*shrug*
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WV_sweetie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 16 Location: West Virginia
Posted: 03-22-06 01:13am
Ok let me put it like this the girl I was
talking about I have known her all my
life..She is only 13 years old,does
drugs,drinks,doesn't go to school,isn't on
any kind of birth conrol,and didn't use a
condom...Now your right if the get on
birth control and use a condom then it
might be a accident but when you don't do
any of that and then go omg i'm preg what
am I gonna do...Thats what i'm talking
about
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Rodge
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Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 905 Location: , England, UK
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Posted: 03-22-06 03:28am
It's still an accident. A very stupid,
very easily preventable accident, sure.
But she didn't intend to get pregnant.
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Sunflower_pie81
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 5041 Location: to hell with this crap
Posted: 03-22-06 18:01pm
Hun I see the point you are trying to
make, but the girl should know enough that
if she doesnt' use some type of protection
then she needs to not be supprised at the
out come if she is preggers.
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AshBoBash
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2006 Posts: 277
Re Posted: 03-22-06 18:31pm
I get what your trying to say I guess but
i'm 13 years old also and I say my
pregnancy was an accident. If no one ever
accidently got pregnant there'd be a lot
less people in the world.
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Rodge
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Posted: 03-22-06 18:33pm
wv_sweetie
wrote:
ok let me put it like this
the girl I was talking about I have known
her all my life..She is only 13 years
old,does drugs,drinks,doesn't go to
school,isn't on any kind of birth
conrol,and didn't use a condom...Now your
right if the get on birth control and use
a condom then it might be a accident but
when you don't do any of that and then go
omg i'm preg what am I gonna do...Thats
what i'm talking
about
so has she had sex ed? I mean, she might
honestly be ignorant of what's needed to
prevent pregnancy. I know that sounds
incredibly stupid, but there were a few
people in my .L.I.F.E class last year...
I think if you did nothing to prevent
pregnancy then you got pregnant on
purpose.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 03-23-06 11:16am
I agree, maybe subconsciously, but you had
it in your mind. Nobody is that stupid to
not know the possible consiquences of
having sex w/o protection....
Sarah
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diamondsz
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Posted: 03-23-06 11:50am
dalicialynn
wrote:
i think if you did nothing
to prevent pregnancy then you got pregnant
on purpose.
thats my motto
she messed herself up and now she has to
deal with it, one thing to raped but come
on I dont think anyone here is that stupid
if you can f*ck someone then do the
research!!
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WV_sweetie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 16 Location: West Virginia
Posted: 03-24-06 00:06am
diamondsz
wrote:
dalicialynn
wrote:
i think if you did nothing
to prevent pregnancy then you got pregnant
on purpose.
thats my motto
she messed herself up and now she has to
deal with it, one thing to raped but come
on I dont think anyone here is that stupid
if you can f*ck someone then do the
research!!
thank you..Finally some people agree with
me and see where i'm coming from and
thanks to u to sarah...I mean yeah she is
young but if she is old enough to have sex
then she needs to be old enough to wear a
condom and get on birth conrol
