Well im 18, a virgin and ive had a wierd
vein type thing on the bottom of my penis
my whole life, it doesnt seem like the
normal vein that gets larger when you have
and erection, it doesnt do that and I
think it should? I seem to premature
ejaculate way to easy and sometimes its
itchy and uncomfortable. Does anyone know
of anything that I could have been born
with thjat would cause me to be inable to
have sex, ive almost been avoiding the
situation so I dont make and ass out of
myself, ive nutted just messing about
extremly quick most of the time I had my
dick halfway in a girl one and pulled out
so I didnt bust. Im just wondering if its
just my nerves making me go crazy or if
this is something anyone has ever heard
of.
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cmilah
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2006 Posts: 33
Posted: 03-24-06 11:51am
Well you have absolutely nothing wrong
with your penis. Just becuase you are
more sensitive to a moist, tight, warm
area doesn't mean you have a problem.
Sure you might think premature ejaculation
is a problem but it really isn't. Most
men don't have the labido that they
desire. Don't watch as much porn...It
makes you self concious about
yourself...Well I mean, watch lesbian
porn...Porn stars are not average
men...They have incredibly large
packages..And can blow loads that most men
only dream of....
I also have a problem with cumming too
quickly when I have sex with my
girlfriend...We've had sex at least a
hundred times and to no avail, I still
ejaculate incredibly fast. It flatters
her to be able to make me cum a few
minutes after having sex. So it keeps her
happy (makes her feel like I still desire
her). I have a little problem with it,
but I make sure that I thoroughly satisfy
my girlfriend before engaging in
sex....Meaning eating her out, giving her
nice massages with oils...And getting her
in the mood...So both of us are
satisfied...My ultimate goal is to have a
passionate night where we both climax at
the same time...But it most likely will
not happen for a while.....
Bro, dont worry about it you're fine!!
Don't psyche yourself out about it...Only
makes matters worse...Be
comfortable....Just remember "attitude is
everything"...Even in bed
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dubbin
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Mar 2006 Posts: 2
Posted: 03-24-06 14:59pm
Thanks alot for the support, I honestly
hope that is the situation, its just
rediculous, like I know my first time im
gonna bust almost instantly and I really
dotn want that. If nutted extremly quick
just messing around with girls and once I
did have my dick in a girl I pulled out
right away because I knew what was
comming. Any other help is seriously
appreciated. Honestly every once and a
great while im with a girl and feel like I
could last for a long long time, but most
of the time its not like that
unfortunantly, im pretty confident about
most things, hopefully I can mentally get
past this and have a normal sex life.
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cmilah
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2006 Posts: 33
Posted: 03-24-06 17:16pm
Well a couple things you can do...
Work out, eat healthy, take vitamins, have
a good diet, don't eat lots of sugar,
fruits are very good...Basically anything
that is good and healthy for your body can
also help your longevity in bed
or you could also rub one out beforehand
if you know you will have sex that
night....That has helped me a bunch
also... No more than 2 hours before you
have sex take some time and rub one
out....Then when its time to engage in sex
you will be last longer...This is a sure
thing
