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butterfly2006
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Could I Be Pregnant?
Posted: 03-25-06 17:09pm
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Hey.
I have posted on the womens health board
but I havent got any replys recently. I
was raped on the 2nd of march at work and
since then I have been ill. I sleep
nearly all day, gone off my food, feeling
and being sick, really bad headaches,
leaking from boobs, loads of discharge and
slightly bleeding. I was bleeding loads
before but im bleeding a bit now. Its
really worrying me because I dont know
whats going on and I keep thinking im
pregnant but I need to know for sure
becuase this is bugging me now and driving
me crazy.
Please someone reply asap, I need to know
whats going on. Thanks in advance x
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Ingi
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Posted: 03-25-06 17:46pm
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Did you contact the authorities and get
checked after your rape? I'd be surprised
that they didn't give you the morning
after pill!
When is your period due? The only way to
know if you are pregnant is to take a
pregnancy test. Maybe visit a doctor
since this is such an emotional issue. He
can better give you some options and test
you for stds (possibly from the rape).
((hugs)) good luck!
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butterfly2006
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Posted: 03-25-06 17:50pm
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Hiya.
Thanks for your reply. I wasnt given the
morning after pill. I wasnt checked over
either because I refused it because its to
embarssing! My period was due a week ago
I think but im not sure because I have
missed a few bcp pills. I dont know whats
going on and its worrying me big time. I
did tell the doctor about the rape and
other things but she didnt say/do much.
Does it sound like im pregnant?
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Ingi
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Posted: 03-25-06 17:56pm
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It sounds like there are a lot of things
going on with you right now. You really
should go be seen by a doctor to make sure
- but it could just be you are worried
about your period and you hormones are a
little screwed up from missing some bcps.
You won't know until you test for
pregnancy whether you are pregnant or not.
Leaking breast usually don't happen
within the first month though - so that
might also be something you want to talk
to a doctor about.
It is embarrassing to go for a check after
rape - but it is the best way to convict
the rapist and it is the best way to keep
yourself safe. You need to get tested,
not only for pregnancy but also stds. You
have no way of knowing what he could have
had.
I'm not saying any of this to scare you,
i'm saying it so you know how important
medical care in your situation is.
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butterfly2006
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Posted: 03-25-06 17:59pm
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Hiya.
Yeah I understand. I should of got
checked but at the time I was too scared.
My case isnt going very far anyway so
thats a big letdown.
I will make a docs appt for monday and see
the doctor, I will do a pregnancy test and
go fro there. Thanks for your help and
advice x
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Posted: 03-25-06 20:22pm
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((butterfly2006)) .Good luck!!
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butterfly2006
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Posted: 03-26-06 14:17pm
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Hiya.
Thanks you two for replying to me. At the
moment I keep being sick. I was sick all
this morning and now I feel sick again.
Tis horrible. I havent done a test yet
but im going to get one later on or
tomorrow.
Thanks again xx
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sandals527
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Posted: 03-26-06 17:15pm
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If you did take the morning after pill
that could make you feel or think you are
pregnant, just becuz of the change in
hormons, if you continue to feel like this
after about a week I would say take a home
test and if it is negitive but you still
feel this way, go to the Dr. And request
a blood test for pregnancy, becuz that
would beable to decte it even if a urine
test can't. Also you seriously need to
get tested for stds, becuz they can give
you all sorts of weird symtons,!! Good
luck!
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butterfly2006
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Posted: 03-26-06 17:48pm
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Hiya.
Thanks for your reply. I didnt have the
morning after pill, they never gave it too
me. Im going to do a test tomorrow if I
can. Im really worried about it.
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butterfly2006
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Posted: 03-28-06 16:11pm
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Hiya.
Just to let you know, I have done 2 pregs
test and both neg but I have been bleeding
a lot. I soaked the whole bed wiv blood
so I dont know whats going on, im going to
do another test in a week. Hopefully I
am pregnant but iu dont know.
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Ingi
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Posted: 03-28-06 16:13pm
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You still need to see a doctor.
Good luck.
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mum???
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Butterfly?????????????????????????
Posted: 03-28-06 16:23pm
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Butterfly....Why would u hope to be
pregnant by a rapist???Just
wondering.Jadex
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Queenbee21
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Posted: 03-28-06 16:34pm
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Yeah that sounds kinda weird
why would you want to be preg
by the guy that raped you??????
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Ingi
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Posted: 03-28-06 16:35pm
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Interesting, I hadn't read that part
(where she hoped she was pregnant).
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butterfly2006
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Posted: 03-28-06 16:49pm
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Hiya.
Thanks for your replies. The reason I
hope I am is because I can get him but I
dont want the baby because it be something
to do with him nad that makes me feel
sick. Its hard to explain. My case isnt
going to well at the moment. Doesnt
suppose to mean wot it says but it does,
if you get what I mean lol. Does it sound
like it could of been mc?
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Ingi
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Posted: 03-28-06 16:55pm
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We are on the internet, there is no way we
could know that.
I'm going to repeat what i've said from
the beginning: you need to go to the
doctor!!
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Rodge
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Posted: 03-28-06 16:55pm
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Your case isn't going well because you
refused an examination, and there is
therefore very little evidence. A
pregnancy won't do anything to help it.
Sorry.
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butterfly2006
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Posted: 03-28-06 16:59pm
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Hiya.
Thanks for your replys. If you was a girl
you would understand how difficult it is.
Its hard too go through something like
that and have a case on your shoulders
too. If I was pregnant it would prove he
had sex with me so it will help.
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Ingi
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Posted: 03-28-06 17:00pm
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Actually, rodge is a girl.
And have you thought about the other
effects a pregnancy/baby would cause?
Much more troubling than an exam.
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butterfly2006
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Posted: 03-28-06 17:01pm
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Yes I do. I have a little brother who was
1 today and I have been pregnant before
and it was a lot of trouble so I do know.
Its hard being a mum and a sister of such
a little brother so I do know!
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