Joined: 19 Mar 2006 Posts: 258 Location: Gloucester UK
Sex While 4-5weeks Pregnant,plz Write Bk.... Posted: 03-25-06 17:13pm
Hello,as u might no by my other plea's for
help I am 4-5 weeks pregnant and have had
two bleeds...I'm just asking,everytime me
and my boyfriend have sex I end up
bleeding...Nurses say its just the
cervix,wen his penis rubs against
it...They say just dnt have sex but its so
hard,we trid shallow penatration but I
still bled and doing other sexual things
isn't enough...Not meaning to be blunt but
I need to get laid already...Ever since my
first bleed I have had an awful brown
thick discharge that wnt go away and has
lasted well over a week now.Is it safe to
have sex?What can we do? Will it hurt our
baby even if I bleed again?Please write
bk,jadexxx
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butterfly2006
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Mar 2006 Posts: 95 Location: England
Posted: 03-25-06 17:16pm
Hiya jade.
Dont worry ok hun, you need to talk to a
gp or a nurse about your bleeding because
in every pregnancy its not good to bleed.
Im not trying to worry you or anything but
just get checked incase ok? I would say
leave sex for a bit, I mean a week or so.
I know its hard but give your body a
break. It could be what the nurse said or
it could be just something your going to
have while pregnant. I know my mum bleed
all through her pregnacy and now she has a
baby who is fine, so dont think your
loosing your baby or anything. Just get
some advice and get looked at ok?
I hope my advice has helped. Good luck xx
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mum???
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Mar 2006 Posts: 258 Location: Gloucester UK
Hello................ Posted: 03-25-06 17:32pm
Hello butterfly...Thank u for that.I will
ask again.They do no that I bled twice as
the first time my family rushed me up to
a&e and the second time I went
straight to the ward...Do u no what this
brown awful stuff is???Its so awful and
uncomfortable..They say its old blood but
I have had it over a week now since my
first bleed and its not getting any
better...And if it is just old blood where
the hell could it all be coming from,i
mean it must be coming from inside my
cervix like a period?I dnt no,its my first
pregnancy and i'm already messing it all
up..My baby knows i'm not mother
material,even tho I want him to come to us
so badly and he was planned...He hates me
and I have'nt made a safe place for him
have i?And he knows it,he hates me.Please
pray for him to stay with his mummy as I
love him so very much.Jade.
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Ingi
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Posted: 03-25-06 17:35pm
You should visit your ob/gyn and he can
check you out. Any bleeding is reason to
get in touch with your doctor.
Brown blood is old blood. The amount is
what should be worrisome. If you are
actually bleeding and not just spotting,
go immediately to your doctors.
Good luck!
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butterfly2006
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Mar 2006 Posts: 95 Location: England
Posted: 03-25-06 17:37pm
Hey.
I really dont know sorry. Its probably
old blood though, sounds like it but im
really unsure. I wish you luck though.
You are mother matieral, dont worry, every
first time mums think they cant do it, not
sutible etc but you are. You gotta make
your self realise that.
Good luck x
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mum???
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Mar 2006 Posts: 258 Location: Gloucester UK
Posted: 03-25-06 17:41pm
Thank u for the replies...But..My doctors
and the hospital all know about the
bleeds..My hormone levels are still rising
they just cant see him at all.All very
strange..Im too scared about all this as I
wouldnt be able to have him removed if he
was ectopic as I have emetophobia(phobia
of vomiting).Please pray for us that he
is'ntxxx
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butterfly2006
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Mar 2006 Posts: 95 Location: England
Posted: 03-25-06 17:52pm
Hey.
Dont worry ok jade, everything will be ok,
trust me!
Ive sent you a pm by the way and you
havent replied.
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