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lilmama2b_06
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Location: Staunton, VA
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Pregnant At 16
Posted: 03-26-06 17:17pm
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Im 16 years old and im pregnant.Me and the
father are currently dating but im really
nervous about this since im only 16.Ive
had really bad morning sickness and
everything.I heard the babys heartbeat
last week.Im now 11 weeks pregnant.Any
advice or comments feel free to post
them.Thanks.Bye
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Kimmeh
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Location: Calgary, Alberta, Canada
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Posted: 03-26-06 19:35pm
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Good luck! I'm sure you'll do okay. I
know it's really scary at first, but don't
let yourself miss out on all the good
things about being pregnant.
My name is kim, and I am 18...I was 17
when I found out I was preg and I just had
my daughter 11 days ago. It really is
amazing being a parent. I know it isn't
the most ideal situation being 16 and
preg, but since its happened and you've
made your choice on what to do (i am
assuming you've decided to keep the baby
as that is the vibe I got from your post)
try to enjoy it as much as possible.
For the morning sickness try sour patch
kids...They were my invention cure for my
morning sickness...Which was awful, I
couldn't even get out of bed for weeks
(what a stupid name...Morning sicknes...As
it clearly can last all day :p)
anyways once again good luck and if you
need to talk to anyone feel free to pm me
or add me to msn (kimzstar@hotmail.Com) or
to aim (peachkewifruit)
later,
kimmie
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vamommie757
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Location: Florida
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Girl, Your Not Alone Girl...
Posted: 03-26-06 21:30pm
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I am 17 and I just found out a few wks ago
that im also preg. (9 weeks now). I
know its gonna be hard because im still in
school and everything. My boyfriend and
his family are exited but that doesent
calm my nearves. At the end of the day I
know that they are not having the baby...I
am. Things are really changing for you
and me mentally and physically!! Being a
teen mom might be a little tough but I
think we will be okay as long as we spend
these next few months to mature and to
prepare our selves for this new arrival.
Hopefully since you and I are in the same
boat, we can go through this together. I
just thought it might make you at ease to
know that your not alone and ill be here
if you need someone to talk to!
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jaime_elms
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Location: newcastle
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Posted: 03-27-06 08:37am
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Im 19 and 9weeks pregnant!!!!! Me and the
farther have been together 3yrs, but we
have had hard time with dealing with this,
I mean he hasnt supported me, but now he
is being great., proper bf... Hes been
great now, we both delt with it the wrong
way at the begging.
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~baby~g~
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Location: Ohio
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Posted: 03-27-06 11:04am
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Everything will work out fine for you
sweetie! You can do it. As for the
morning sickness, talk to your doc and
he/she will give you some kind of medicine
for it. Keep your head up!
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confused2006
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Joined: 22 Mar 2006
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Pregnant At 16
Posted: 03-27-06 17:39pm
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Good luck to you. Everything will work
out. As far as morning sickness goes if
you are taking prenatal vitamins - take
them at night. I had to for both of my
pregs. It helped tremendously.
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whyte_kissez
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Joined: 03 Oct 2005
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Location: Minnesota
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Posted: 03-27-06 19:03pm
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I just wanna say good luck with
everything! Your going to be a great
mother! Im 17 n 38 weeks pregnant.. When
I found out I was scared as hell! But
just remember your going to be having a
beautiful baby!! Good luck! :)
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astros06
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What Can I Do?
Posted: 03-27-06 20:00pm
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I am 17 and my boyfriend is 18 going on
19. We have been together for almost a
year and a half. We have been trying to
have a baby for the longest time. I get
so sad because all of my friends are so
happy with their babies. Is there
anything I can do that might help us get
pregnant? :cry:
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Jennifer2069
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Re: Pregnant At 16
Posted: 03-27-06 23:35pm
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Good luck if you need a friend to talk to
I am here and it is hard at 16,i am 19 and
married and pregnant and 19 wks along,i
got pregnant at 18,just turned
19...Later...
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Jennifer2069
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Re: What Can I Do?
Posted: 03-27-06 23:37pm
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Astroso6 I am not trying to be mean but
shouldnt you wait to get married and try
not to worry about other people,trust me
you will regret it if this isnt the man
you spend the rest of your life with.....
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jaime_elms
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Location: newcastle
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Posted: 03-28-06 09:08am
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Astroso6- I dont wanna be mean or anything
but, u only been with ya bf year n half.
And u are trying for a baby, me and my bf
19 and we wernt trying for a baby, I was
on the pill. But happend get pregnant, I
dont even know if I wanna keep baby, its
so much hard work!!! Shouldnt u wait get
career and good job, n buy house, and have
baby then. Cause jus cause ya mates have
babies dont mean that they happy all the
time, sleepless nights, and having take em
every where with them, not going holidays,
and stuff, thats whats puts me off babys,
they needs constant attention and money
and everything. Dont go rueining ya life,
like ya mates.... I mean there life may
not be ruiend, but I mean baby aint easy,
they may look happy but u cant be sure
they are, I hope no one takes this post
the wrong way, u have ya whole life ahead
of ya to have babies... Enjoy ur life
with your bf for while...
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Rodge
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Re: What Can I Do?
Posted: 03-28-06 14:38pm
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| jennifer2069
wrote: | | astroso6 I am not trying to
be mean but shouldnt you wait to get
married and try not to worry about other
people,trust me you will regret it if this
isnt the man you spend the rest of your
life
with..... |
(i know i'm taking it off-topic, but I
honestly want to know.)
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sandyallen
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Posted: 03-28-06 15:50pm
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I am happy for you, if this is what you
want but you have your whole life in front
of you. What do your paarents think and
the father of the baby- to-be think? Will
they help you? Well you finish school?
I do wish you the best of luck!
I am here for you if you need someone to
talk to..
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Ingi
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Re: What Can I Do?
Posted: 03-28-06 16:23pm
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| rodge
wrote: | | jennifer2069
wrote: | | astroso6 I am not trying to
be mean but shouldnt you wait to get
married and try not to worry about other
people,trust me you will regret it if this
isnt the man you spend the rest of your
life
with..... |
(i know i'm taking it off-topic, but I
honestly want to
know.) |
marriage isn't necessary - but being
stable in your own life is.
(from a former 16 year old mom)
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Rodge
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Posted: 03-28-06 16:35pm
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Yeah, I know. It just seems to me that so
much emphasis is put on being married
these days, as if it's an automatic happy,
stable home. It confuses me a bit.
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astros06
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Posted: 03-28-06 19:12pm
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I have my plan already....College then
nursing. I understand about waiting and
right now that is what I plan on doing.
My bf and I are having problems and I dont
know if I want to put up with him my whole
life.
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Rodge
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Posted: 03-28-06 19:17pm
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| astros06
wrote: | | i have my plan
already....College then nursing. I
understand about waiting and right now
that is what I plan on doing. My bf and
I are having problems and I dont know if I
want to put up with him my whole
life. |
if you have to 'put up' with him, then
ditch him now. You'll be a lot
happier.
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Kymmie
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Location: Texas
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Posted: 03-29-06 23:44pm
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I wish the best of luck to you. I found
out I was pregnant when I was 17, I turned
18 in september and my baby is 3months now
and the father stayed with me, I hope your
relationship works out with the father.
Me and my bf have been together for 6years
now, but I cant say it was easy, we had
our typical on and off relationship, but
it all worked out so far, lol ^_^ but,
yea if you need any help or have any
questions there are wonderful people here
willing to help ya out. Erm... Dunno if
youve been here but this is a pretty good
website, I went to it when I was pregnant
www.Babycenter.Com.
Best of luck to you and congratulations!
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myfadingbreathxx
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Location: Easton, Pennsylvania
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Posted: 03-30-06 08:21am
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First and foremost, congratulations!
I'm 17 and almost 19 weeks pregnant. At
first, I was completely horrified, not for
myself - but for my child. I wanted to
make sure I was going to be able to take
care of my child and give him/her
everything they ever wanted or needed.
With the support of my boyfriend and his
family, my nerves have now been calmed and
I cannot wait to bring this child into my
life.
I know. At first, at such a young age,
it's both completely scary and exciting.
But once you get over the initial shock..
You'll be more excited than ever.
You'll do great. If you ever need anyone
to talk to - i'm always here!
Good luck!
<3 sarah
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map
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Young Mommys It Ok
Posted: 03-30-06 22:01pm
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I had my frist baby almost 11 years ago
when I was 15 the condom broke but I still
keep him it was hell being a young mom..He
was sick alot I missed school alot endded
up droping out..So I was 14 going on 15
when I found out I was pg it was
scarey..And iam pregnat with #4 14
weeks.Iam married not with the father but
some one more better than he was I was
with the father for 4 year I left him due
to him not helping me with the baby and he
was in to drugs really bad.And not any man
will get with a women that already had
kids but the man I married did and he
loves me eather way..And iam 25 years old
will be 26 in june...I wish all you young
mommys the best of all
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