What Should I Do Im So Confused Posted: 03-26-06 20:16pm
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for
almost a year now and dont get me wrong I
love him to death but I dont feel that its
the same with him ive asked him if he does
and he always says yes but something tells
me not to believe him. I have heard many
stories about him and how he has cheated
on me but ive never seen it so I dont know
if its true and of coarse he says everyone
is lying to me deep down in side I wanna
believe him but then again I feel like I
cant I dont know wat to do anymore hes my
everything but I dont know whats goning on
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Jennifer23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2005 Posts: 76 Location: Texas
Posted: 03-26-06 20:45pm
Believe me ... I can definitely relate to
how you're feeling. I was with my
boyfriend for 4 years and, like the last 2
years of the relationship, my gut instinct
was telling me that he was cheating on me
(or had cheated on me). I questioned him
and he denied it. I never caught him or
even heard rumors, but it was just the way
I felt. It was hard because he spoke so
highly of fidelity and how he had been
cheated on so many times in the past and
he couldn't ever do something like that,
especially to me because he loved me so
much. Finally, the truth came out and I
found out that I had been right all along.
Not only did he cheat on me once, but it
was multiple times! And after he told me
about all of the cheating, he cheated
again! You need to listen to what your
heart is telling you ... And as far as
the people that are telling you that he
has or is cheating, you need to determine
if they can be trusted or believed. If
they are very trustworthy, you may want to
listen to what they have to say. If not,
don't pay them any mind because they could
have ulterior motives. Most of all,
listen to what your body and gut instinct
are telling you. Remember ... The truth
will always come out. Whether it's a
couple days from now or a couple years
from now. I wish you nothing but the
best and I hope everything turns out great
for you! Good luck! :-)
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tiffany_02
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Mar 2006 Posts: 13
Posted: 03-26-06 21:33pm
Wow that does sound alot like what im
going through the people who are telling
me are my best friend sense I can remember
and hes brother but his brother wants us
to break up and my best friend thinks he
treats me bad but she says she wants me to
be happy the other people are just his dum
friends that I dont like see I wanna
believe him so bad my heart tells me to
stay with him no matter what that I cant
go on without him but my mind is telling
me its best to let him go even if it dont
seem like it later on it will be ok there
are other people but I dont know anymore
when ur in love its hard to see life
without that person thanx for the advise
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Jennifer23
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Oct 2005 Posts: 76 Location: Texas
Posted: 03-29-06 15:09pm
You're absolutely correct ... Love is
blind. I would really listen to your
bestfriend. It seems that, although she
doesn't care for the guy that you're with,
she won't lie to you, either. Listen to
your heart, keep your eyes and ears open
and definitely communicate with your
boyfriend.
One of my worst fears was not having my
boyfriend in my life because I couldn't
see me without him. I've realized now
that I can do anything on my own! It may
be a lot harder, but it's achievable.
So, know that you can live life to it's
fullest with him and without him. Good
luck!
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cheekskuss
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Apr 2006 Posts: 22 Location: new york
Same Dilema Posted: 04-11-06 17:56pm
Let me tell u I have not caught him he
always tells me no and tells me i'm
insecure caca if u have the gut feeling he
is doing it woman always know but they are
usaully in denial. Im about 2 show mines
I was the wrong one 2 mess with then I
will tell him go 2 hell. Do not let him
play with your mind and its true love is
blind but u have to find the strength to
look past it and see the reality of the
situation.
