Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 498 Location: newcastle
Will My Relationship Survive This Pregnancy? Posted: 03-27-06 07:50am
Hi there I posted on here not so long ago.
It was a while back when my bf said that
he would dump me unless I had abortion,
and well I went see him at the weekend,
and well he was reakl nice too me, and we
didnt talk about the baby till later sat
night, we had a real good time, he cooked
me a meal, and we went for walks, was
lovely weekend, he said to me he was sorry
about everthing, he loves me, and he will
stand by me , but he cant say our
realtionship will last, do u think it will
last if we have been together 3yr, we are
19....
Being together for 3 years doesn't
guarantee that it will be forever. My
husband and I have been together for 8 1/2
years, but it doesn't mean that in 2 years
we will be. I'm not pessimistic, but i'm
realistic!
Good luck!
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jaime_elms
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 498 Location: newcastle
Posted: 03-27-06 08:04am
Jus dont wanna have baby, and then us
brake up staright away!!! Cant cope alone
What would be your reasons for having an
abortion? You need to really think about
this.
You need to do what's best for you and
that baby... Nobody else! Do you not
feel a bond with your baby yet?
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jaime_elms
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 498 Location: newcastle
Posted: 03-27-06 08:26am
No :( caused so much trouble
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tigresacanela24
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 03-27-06 09:16am
Who caused trouble? Not the baby.
It's important that you not blame the
child for being here. He/she didn't
choose to come. You and the bf made
him. I'm not trying to be mean because
I felt pretty much the same way at first
and even still every now and again I feel
a little twinge... But it isn't the
baby's fault.
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kirztensmummy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2005 Posts: 326 Location: london
Posted: 03-27-06 10:08am
Maternal instincts don't come
instantly...And I agree with tigres and
michelle you should look after your little
one's welfare at least give him/her a
chance to see the world.
Nothing's forever in this world i'm afraid
and you couldnt really tell wot/'s gonna
happen tomorrow. At least your bf gonna
stand by you and he's honest enough to
tell you exactly how he feels. You just
have to be prepared of wot could possibly
happen in the near future.
Good luck!
