Need a Guys Opinion... What Would You Do? Posted: 03-27-06 10:20am
So i've been with this guy (i'm a girl)
for 4 months. We have the perfect
relationship, match each others
personalities, good sex life etc.
And out of the blue he tells me that if I
don't orgasm during sex he will break up
with me (i lost my virginity to him,
haven't orgasmed).
He says its because its a confidence issue
and he's made his other two girls he had
sex with orgasm all the time.
He thinks theres a psychological problem
(which i'm sure its all physical).
Would you break up with a great girl for
that reason?
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cmilah
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jan 2006 Posts: 33
Posted: 03-27-06 15:26pm
The guy is obviously an ass...Screw him
or fake one..If he wants to be an ass and
break up with you for not
orgasming....Fake it or screw him....It's
obviously his mistakes if he can't make
you orgasm...He needs to explore you more
and learn what gets you going the
most....What a d*ck head
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ltlglo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Mar 2006 Posts: 18 Location: Boise
Posted: 03-31-06 15:00pm
Girl you desirve way better, if he cant
please you thats his fault not yours and
you tell him that you are the one who
should be leaving him not he other way
around. Hey its only been what 4,5,
months? Whats the attachment?
You cant truly be happy with this guy if
he cant please you and if you have to fake
it, why not find somewho can satisfy you
wholeheartitly, and actually want you to
orgasim for you not themselves, make
sense?
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Glenn85uk
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Apr 2006 Posts: 31
Posted: 04-23-06 11:35am
In my opinion u should find out what turns
u on the most, what makes u cum, then tell
him how to do it.. Just because he got
his other gf to cum, doesnt mean sh*t,
they might get turned on a lot easier than
u, just talk through him with it and see
whats happens.. Personaly I wouldnt break
up wit a girl jus because I couldnt make
her cum, I would feel a bit incompetant
and anxious about it and ask her if it
really bothers her, but tbh, if he wants
to dump u cos he cant make u orgasm he is
jus stupid, but good luck sorting it out..
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Human
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Sep 2005 Posts: 89
Posted: 04-25-06 12:12pm
Your just beginning to discover your
sexuality eventually no doubt you'll cum
but you'll need time. This guy is a
huge dick though I don't see how you think
you have the perfect relationship if he
said something like that. Hell with all
that pressure now I don't think your gonna
be able to cum period.
