Hey im only 14 n now im realy scared..Im
not even sho if I wood get pregnant..Well
me n mi b/f had sex yesterday n didnt hav
no condom n I was jus cared to do it wit
out it but he said he wood take it out wen
he knw he wood cum..But his cuzin had tol
him sumthin bout pre-cum dats goes n in u
n der mite b a chance of pregnancy..N I
don knw wa to im here all scared shooked n
everythin n feeling lik thrwin up ..Please
I need to knw wa is gonna happen im scared
to death help me please.....
Thnk u dynasty
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-14-03 01:38am
Ok, first, dont stress out! If u are
stressing out so much, u are scaring
urself even if there is nothing wrong!
So relax first
now, his friend is right, the "pre-cum"
can get ur pregnant though the chance is
not that high, but it's possible!
If it's only one day, maybe u should go
get the "morning after pill" at any public
clinic, they provide them for free. If
not, get it at any abortion clinic for
about 50 bucks...
If the doc said it's too late to take the
pill, then get a pregnancy test.
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Dynasty
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Aug 2003 Posts: 9 Location: new jersey
Posted: 08-14-03 12:27pm
Well,thnk u for tellin me this but I will
try n calm down but im still kinda scared
if I am cuz u said der is a possability I
could b n da scares me n im too yung n it
would b a nightmare if I do n hav an
abortion..But thnl I will go to da clinic
n see what happens... ......Wow....Well
thnk u ...If eny more advice please tell
me I need to knw im too yung for dis..
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-14-03 23:12pm
Just dont worry too much. There are alot
of girls just like you worrying about this
every hour, so dont stress it.
Just think about a plan, a plan that if u
are pregnant, what are u gonna do, and
another plan that is if u are not
pregnant, what are u gonna do.
If u are, are u gonna get an abortion or
not? U have to really think about it, coz
it's a life we are talking here, but then
again, it's ur choice. I think if u had
a choice of having sex at a young age, u
have a choice to have the child or not,
but dont abuse that freedom.
Becoz u made a mistake once, it's fine,
just that u are immature and didnt know
better, but if you make the same mistake
again, it's dumb! Remember that.
So just go see a doctor they usually have
some pretty good advices and ideas. Good
luck
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B
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Aug 2003 Posts: 3 Location: florida
Re: Im Yung N Scured 2 Death Posted: 08-15-03 09:45am
dynasty
wrote:
hey im only 14 n now im
realy scared..Im not even sho if I wood
get pregnant..Well me n mi b/f had sex
yesterday n didnt hav no condom n I was
jus cared to do it wit out it but he said
he wood take it out wen he knw he wood
cum..But his cuzin had tol him sumthin
bout pre-cum dats goes n in u n der mite b
a chance of pregnancy..N I don knw wa to
im here all scared shooked n everythin n
feeling lik thrwin up ..Please I need to
knw wa is gonna happen im scared to death
help me please.....
Thnk u dynasty
dynasty, I am not trying
to scare you but warn you. My boyfriend
and I had sex without a condom and he
"pulled out" just like it sounds like
yours did.. But I am 7 weeks pregnant now
and scared. It had to of been "pre-cum".
Get a pregnancy test and then worry about
it if you have to. The only way to avoid
this is to either not have sex or at least
get on the pill. Good luck and try to
stay strong.
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Jenni
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Aug 2003 Posts: 49 Location: PA
Omg Im Going Through the Same Thing!! Posted: 08-31-03 22:30pm
Hey...I was so shocked when I read your
post..Me and my bf did the same exact
thing yesterday..But we only did it for
like 40 seconds...We stopped cuz he was
cumming and he didnt have a condom..Im
scared..And I dont know what to do..Plz
help if you have any advice! Thanks..
~jenni
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 09-02-03 11:47am
Ok first, both of you start using
condoms!!! Then, have you had your period
yet? Are you late? Take a pregnancy test
about a week after your period is due to
tell. Thats the only way to know for
sure. Dont worry about it any more. Next
time be more careful you are so young!
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Dynasty
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Aug 2003 Posts: 9 Location: new jersey
Guess Wa!!! Posted: 09-02-03 15:20pm
Heyy guess wa im not pegnany I let it a
few days to see if ive get mi period n I
did ...I wanna tank all of u who helped me
n stuff I apprecitate dat...I knw most of
dis I jus was really scured bout it but
tanku :d
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Dynasty
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Aug 2003 Posts: 9 Location: new jersey
Posted: 09-09-03 17:36pm
Heyyy...Srry I havent been on lat;y
here..But sumthin was rong wit mi
comp..But all I was gonna say thbx to all
who helped me n stay calm n im notpg tank
god lol...Thnx!
That's great! Now u dont have to worry
sick or stress out.
:d
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Dynasty
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Aug 2003 Posts: 9 Location: new jersey
Posted: 09-09-03 19:45pm
Lol yeaaaa..Im maah happy :d
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sazz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 23
Posted: 09-09-03 23:57pm
Im glad to here that your not pregnant
because although you are still a baby your
self. What I was going to say is that it
doesnt matter if your boyfriend says that
he is going to withdraw before he cums.
My boyfriend and I always have unprotected
sex and he always pre ejaculates halfway
through and then keeps going and then the
rest comes later. Did you know that you
can get pregnant if your boyfriend has the
tiniest amont of sperm on the end of his
penis.
Good luck
......Wow....Well
thnk u ...If eny more advice please tell
me I need to knw im too yung for dis..
