Wrong to Check Women Out? Posted: 03-28-06 04:22am
I tend to find that when I am in public I
tend to check women out. I don't stare
or anything, but I do like to look at
them. Recently I have started to feel
guilty about this though. Is it
wrong/abnormal to do this? I am a 21 year
old guy if that helps.
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teach486
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2005 Posts: 276 Location: US
Posted: 03-28-06 08:28am
First I will say that it is perfectly
natural to check out other people. If you
are not a homosexual it is natural to
check out the opposite sex. It is also
natural to check out the same sex, and
compare yourself to them.
If you are in a committed relationship,
and your woman catches you checking out
other women, then it may make her feel
insecure about herself. Same goes for if
she catches you looking at porn. Women
are emotional creatures.
In committed relationships most women need
to be made to feel secure about themselves
and the relationship through the words and
actions of their man. However, the levels
of tolerance for such things varies from
woman to woman. Some women are secure
enough about themselves and their
relationship so that when they do catch
their man doing such things they may feel
a little jealousy, but are able to
tolerate it without incident.
Other women may be more insecure, and
therefore will have little, or no,
tolerance for such behaviors. For these
women, if they catch you in such actions,
it can cause big problems. It will make
them feel as if you are not satisfied with
them, and therefore that you may be on the
lookout for something better and leave
them.
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Tony Williams
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Oct 2005 Posts: 52 Location: UK, Liverpool
Posted: 04-11-06 19:38pm
Very normal, just make sure they don't
catch you. :oops:
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aduke00
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Mar 2006 Posts: 53
Posted: 04-11-06 20:10pm
Umm..... I think its good that you feel
guilty (but thats my opinion)... I am the
type I guess that is very insecure and if
I see my man watch porn it bothers me..
But it doesn't both me that bad if he
looks at other women. (well I guess it
depends what mood i'm in :d )
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tony3595
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Apr 2006 Posts: 68 Location: IL
Posted: 04-13-06 09:11am
I think it is very normal to check things
out as long as it doesn't go as far as
staring or drooling or eyes popping out of
your head.
All kidding aside, it all depends on how
secure you are in your relationship and
your woman's own security. This must be
honored or else you might have bigger
problems on your hands.
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aduke00
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Mar 2006 Posts: 53
Posted: 04-13-06 09:22am
I agree...And I am happy to see guys
understand this!