im a perfectly healthy and fit 17 year
old. Recently i've started having sex
with my girlfriend. We've done it a few
times, and shes my first (so i've only had
sex those few times)
she is quite experienced compared to me
(has had a serious boyfriend before me)
recently when we've been kissing and doing
a lot of foreplay, it takes me a while to
get an erection, and even when I do its
not a full on erection, and even if I have
the slightest distraction, I lose it
also, because its not a proper erection,
it takes me ages to cum if shes giving me
a handjob or oral. When im receiving
this, I find my mind wonders quite easily,
and I dont know why?!
Could this be due to nerves?
Any tips to try n get it working like
normal jsut like it used to!?
Tj
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toupal13
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2005 Posts: 37
Posted: 03-29-06 19:47pm
Just relax and look at her body.. Or
tits.. Or something.. :d
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Morning_Glory
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 207 Location: NE Ohio
Posted: 03-29-06 23:18pm
Yes its nerves.
If your worried that when the time comes
you won't be able to perform then you
won't be able to perform.
Instead of worrying about your erection,
your inexperience and so forth. Work on
your foreplay technique. Totally show
her a great time, enjoy her body, give
each other back massages, kiss, hug, etc.
Learn how to relax and totally just enjoy
what your body is feeling.
Tell her not to give you straight oral but
rather to just tease you a little with it,
to alternate between her hands and her
mouth to give you different sensations.
If she manages to get you fully erect
doing that, then have sex.
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peerhelp
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2005 Posts: 17 Location: Los Angeles
Posted: 04-24-06 14:13pm
It sounds like it could totally be nerves.
How well do you know her?
