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alone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2006
Posts: 81
Location: england
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Scared
Posted: 03-29-06 18:36pm
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I have got these lumps down below..
Theyre not inside theyre outside I have
one quite big one and 2 smaller ones..
Ive had them for a while but were told thy
wud go away years later they havent...
Can anyone tell me what they are? Or how
to get rid of them? I can not face going
to the doctors.. Im so embarrased of
these lumps what are they? Lately the big
one has been hurting on and off not touch
but just hurting...
Can anyone help?
I have so much going on in my life at the
moment I need to get these sorted at
least..
Any information wud be so appreciated..
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shella bella
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Joined: 05 Jun 2005
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Re: Scared
Posted: 03-29-06 21:08pm
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wrote: | i have got these lumps down
below.. Theyre not inside theyre outside
I have one quite big one and 2 smaller
ones.. Ive had them for a while but were
told thy wud go away years later they
havent... Can anyone tell me what they
are? Or how to get rid of them? I can
not face going to the doctors.. Im so
embarrased of these lumps what are they?
Lately the big one has been hurting on and
off not touch but just hurting...
Can anyone help?
I have so much going on in my life at the
moment I need to get these sorted at
least..
Any information wud be so
appreciated.. |
why are you so afraid of seeing a doctor?
Why suffer needlessly for a year over a
condition that may worsen if you keep
neglecting this delicate problem? You
should know that you are worth being cared
for.
Just by you given us this information
alone is not enough for us to know what it
is. We may have similar bumbs or sore,but
that does not mean we have the same
problem. I would hate telling you what I
think it is when in fact it could be
something far more serious.
If seeing a doctor make you so
uncomfortable then at least talk with a
female gyn over the phone to get an
opinion, but you will most likely end up
at the doctor's office anyway and you need
to let her know how you feel so that she
can at least meet your needs halfway, but
you need to desperately get over your
embarrassment to receive proper
treatment. It's your life and you will be
the only one feeling this pain. There's
no one who will take care of you, so you
must take care of yourself. You should
say to yourself, I deserve to be pain free
this year, enjoying life, shoot forget
that my life and health are more
important. I'm worth receiving the best
of care.
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StacyD
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006
Posts: 83
Location: Canada
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Hey
Posted: 03-29-06 21:48pm
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Are you male or female. How big are the
bumps.. Like the size of a mable?
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alone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2006
Posts: 81
Location: england
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Please Help
Posted: 03-30-06 13:46pm
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Thankyou for your advice I can not face
going to the doctors I am too scared last
time iwent they said that if th elup got
any bigger or started to hurt then they
would refer me to a gynachologist I can
not face that...
I was wondering if anyone could tell me
what it is so maybe I had an ide before I
went and would be able to get the courage
to go... :(
i recently had a miscarriage and im
finding hard to cope with everything, I
wish ic ould get this sorted and
concentrate on getting myself sorted...
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alone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2006
Posts: 81
Location: england
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Posted: 03-30-06 13:48pm
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Im female.. The biggest lump is abit
bigger than a marble... The other 2 are
alot smaller... The big one can be moved
around and I suppose is quie soft the 2
smaller ones are quite hard...
I would be greatful for any advice that
you could offer...
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Posted: 03-31-06 10:53am
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The doctors are there to help not judge
and they have seen all sorts of things.I
know your casew ould not be the worst
either! I use to be scared to go to the
gyno and I asked if they see a lot of
weird things and the nurse told me "we've
seen everything!" so you should just go.
Remember,they are there to help
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alone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2006
Posts: 81
Location: england
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Anyone Anythin Similar
Posted: 04-01-06 16:56pm
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I know theyre not and I no theyre probably
seen alot worse.. Im v self conciouss
about anything like tht but when iv got to
go about something as delicate aas this I
just cant face it.. It makes me feel
sick.. I can tell you how I makes me
feel... I was just wondeing if anyone had
had anything similar and could maybe tell
me what thy wud do..Maybe to just put my
mind at ease n
so I can get the courage to go...
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Morning_Glory
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2006
Posts: 207
Location: NE Ohio
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Posted: 04-01-06 23:31pm
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My sister had a lump, not in the same
place as you but it sounds like what she
had. Hers was on her ankle and it could
be moved around and was a bit squishy.
Her doctor removed the lump and it turned
out to be torn muscle tissue that had
broken away from another part of her body
and settled itself in her ankle area.
She has no idea how it got there or what
part of her body it came from. It went
as far as gravity would allow before
settling in her ankle area.
Maybe you have something similar but what
ever it is has floated as far down as it
can in the center of your body.
Whatever the case, you need to have it
looked at by a doctor. Lumps of any kind
are nothing to take lightly.
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alone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2006
Posts: 81
Location: england
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Posted: 04-02-06 04:14am
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I no they arnt and im really worried about
it but at the moment I just cant face
going to the doctors.. Im worried it
might b something serious.. I dnt no if
its the same as ur sis because it has gt
bigger than when I first noticed it... It
doesnt hurt all the time but it just hurts
for no reason just when im sitting
there... I dnt no what do...
Thankyou for the advice though... X x x
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Morning_Glory
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2006
Posts: 207
Location: NE Ohio
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Posted: 04-02-06 19:45pm
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Get your butt to the doctor. Fear of it
being something serious should have you
moving all the quicker. If it does turn
out to be serious it is much better to get
it treated sooner than later.
I bet its something fairly simple but you
need to get it checked out, don't wait!
What if its something that if left
untreated could eventually turn into
cancer? Wouldn't you want it out asap if
that were the case? I know I would.
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alone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2006
Posts: 81
Location: england
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Please Help
Posted: 04-08-06 17:38pm
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I cant face going to the doctor has really
bad experiences cant really explain on
here becaus I dnt wnt anyone who reads
this noing n if I put it on here thy
can...
Thy sdnt hurt as much anymore just now and
then...
Im hoping theyll go away... My biggest
fear is tht it is cancer and im scared to
no.. I just cant face it... I no it
sounds like im being a wimp because women
have those sorts of exminations everyday I
just cant explain it... Anyadivce wud b
brilliant sorry if it sounds like im not
listeing I am but u dnt no how hard it
is... I am v greatful for any advce...
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ElsaSchultz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2006
Posts: 118
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Posted: 04-08-06 21:04pm
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I understand how you feel. I feel that
way about the dentist. In order to go, I
have to take a sedative. You can ask your
regular doctor about getting one. If you
don't want to tell her/him that it's for
the gynocologist, you can always say
you're afraid to fly and you need to take
a trip next week or something. They can
give you something like xanax and it will
relax you.
Most likely the bumps are just cysts or
something of that nature, but you do need
to go get them checked out. If it is
cancer (i'm not in any way saying I think
it is or it sounds like it is), then
you're still catching it relatively early
since they haven't grown that much. If,
however, it seemed like cancer to them
before, there's no way they would have
sent you home to wait and see. So, the
doctor probably thought it wasn't cancer.
If you're having sex (and it sounds like
you are) you do need to go to the gyno.
*hugs* it will be okay. Just do what you
need to do to get yourself to the
gynocologist.
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alone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2006
Posts: 81
Location: england
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Posted: 04-09-06 04:17am
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Thankyou for your reply..
They don't seem to have got any bigger
lately and only hurt now and again, I just
wish they would go away on their own, I
know that probably sounds silly but I just
wish they would go away and then I wouldnt
have any of this.. Ive got few other
problems going on that I dont want to put
on the forum but thyre not making things
any easier...
Yeah I am having sex although we havent
for a while but iveonly had one internal
before and that was for another reason
had no choice but it could have led to
something more serious if I didnt. (sorry
hope that maks some sense)
thankyou for your advice you were very
reassuring.. Ill just have to see if I
can get up the courage to go..
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