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matthieusmom
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Some Sad News
Posted: 03-30-06 19:35pm
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Well as u all know I had been having
trouble with spotting and everything.
Well woke up this morning getting ready to
go the doctor and I started bleeding bad.
Well I had blood worked and two more u/s.
And it turns out that I had lost my baby
at five weeks. I'm soo sad and depressed.
I didn't have to have d&c, b/c my
level was back down to below three
hundred. Thanks everyone.
Baby dust to
everyone ttc
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~*~Jillian~*~
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Posted: 03-30-06 19:47pm
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Aw sorry to hear that...Keep your head up
..I know its hard...I hope everything gets
better!!!
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Jennie25
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 03-30-06 20:30pm
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I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. Try
to hang in there, and i'm here if you need
someone to talk to *hugs*
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snowygirl
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Aww
Posted: 03-30-06 21:48pm
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Im so sorry for ur loss, I hope u feel
better soon.
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seksiHily
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matthieusmom
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Thanks
Posted: 03-31-06 07:43am
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I just wanted to say thank-you to
everyone. I'm still depressed and will be
for a lil while. But I have to be strong
cause I have a two year old that needs me.
If anyone has had a m/c could u please
tell me how long u should bleed, I didn't
have a d&c, because the doctor said
there was no use since it was in my tubes
and I m/ced it.
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michelle1981
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Posted: 03-31-06 08:02am
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I'm so very sorry! I know what you are
going through, I feel your pain!
I had a m/c last june, my baby stopped
growing at 8 weeks. I had a d&c and
bled on and off for almost 7 weeks!
I wish you the best!
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moose-n-boos-mom
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Posted: 03-31-06 08:13am
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I'm so sorry been there myself. It will
take some time to feel some what normal
again.
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Morning_Glory
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Posted: 03-31-06 08:53am
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I'm sorry to hear about your loss. When
the time is right you will have another
full term, healthy baby. So your not
doomed.
When I miscarried at ten weeks I bled for
close to ten days. It took my body a
little time to adjust to not being
pregnant.
Did the doctor give you any reason as to
why you might have miscarried? Stress,
heavy lifting, illness, etc?
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QueenBee2_3
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Re: Thanks
Posted: 03-31-06 09:18am
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| matthieusmom
wrote: | | i just wanted to say
thank-you to everyone. I'm still
depressed and will be for a lil while.
But I have to be strong cause I have a two
year old that needs me. If anyone has
had a m/c could u please tell me how long
u should bleed, I didn't have a d&c,
because the doctor said there was no use
since it was in my tubes and I m/ced
it. |
.I'm so sorry for your loss.
When I m/c'd between dd's 2 & 3 I bled
without a d&c for 2 weeks. It's
different for everyone though.
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sar4sim
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Posted: 03-31-06 09:23am
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I am so sorry for your loss... We are all
here for you
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Bridget
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Posted: 03-31-06 11:20am
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I'm so sorry. Hang in there though and be
strong for your son.
I had a d&c and I didn't bleed at all.
It's different for everyone.
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nancyms
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Posted: 03-31-06 11:38am
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I'm so sorry for you loss. As many here
I have gone through that too. Try to
stay healthy and when you are ready you
can try again, and you may be granted that
tiny little blessing.
I wish the best for you.
Nancy
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Kimmeh
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Posted: 03-31-06 13:53pm
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I'm very sorry to hear about your loss
:cry:
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tigresacanela24
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Re: Thanks
Posted: 03-31-06 13:57pm
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| matthieusmom
wrote: | | i just wanted to say
thank-you to everyone. I'm still
depressed and will be for a lil while.
But I have to be strong cause I have a two
year old that needs me. If anyone has
had a m/c could u please tell me how long
u should bleed, I didn't have a d&c,
because the doctor said there was no use
since it was in my tubes and I m/ced
it. |
i think it's different for everyone.
Mine was two weeks.
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Ally
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Posted: 03-31-06 14:09pm
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I'm so sorry for your loss... I know how
you feel I recently had a m/c. The baby
was growing in my tubes too. So I
definitly know how you feel I went through
the same.. Just hang in there I know
it's hard, but you'll pull through! But
yea i'm still bleeding since the surgery
and its ben like 2 1/2 weeks now.
Best wishes to you!
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jessamyn
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Posted: 03-31-06 14:12pm
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How far along did you think you were?
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Jolie_3110
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Posted: 03-31-06 14:55pm
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Again, i'm sorry matthieusmom, :cry:
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mum???
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Posted: 03-31-06 15:20pm
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Hello I had a miscarriage 2days ago and
lost twins...They say u usualy bleed
between 7 and 10 days so it depends,it
really does depend on the woman though...I
am very sorry for your loss...I was
bleeding for 2weeks before I miscarried
and I had terrible period like pains the
night before...My mum,partner (rob) and
nan rushed me to the ward and they did an
internal exam,they said as I was bleeding
moderatly I should stay in and now im glad
I did...I miscarried on the toilet as soon
as I woke up.Luckely I did it into a basin
that was on top of the toilet so they
could check it...I was allowed home and
two hours later I pushed the other one
out..Each baby was about half the size of
my fist and I didnt no it was twins untill
I miscarried the other one..A nice thing
to do is to plant a fruit tree in your
garden for your baby-thats what we are
doing.You no that u can start for another
straight away if you think thats what you
are ready for as this is when a woman is
the most fertile (after a miscarriage or
birth).Sex can happen about 2-3days aftter
if you both dnt mind the bleeding.Its very
difficult but you must try and stay
posotive.Also did u no that when you are
pregnant for the 1st time even if you
loose that baby your womb is already ready
for the 2nd...It will hold on better and
take better to it even if it was for the
shortest amount of time the womb
recognises it and will no what to
do.Please private message me if you want
any more advice.Lots of love and good
luck...Jadexxxxxxxxxxxxx
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