Joined: 19 Mar 2006 Posts: 258 Location: Gloucester UK
How Long????-plz Write Bk............... Posted: 04-02-06 13:06pm
Hello,last wednesday 29.03.06 I miscarried
our darling twins at about 6-7weeks in my
local hospital.Anyway we are now having
sex again from yesterday (unprotected of
course)and we were wondering when the
quickest time anyone knows about that
someone has concieved again the soonest
after a miscarriage....My bf keeps
breaking down with tears and im very
emotional but we feel its the right thing
to do.We really wanted those children and
now we are trying again.Does anyone know
when you can concieve after a miscarriage
and will we have to wait
long????????????????????Thank
you,jadexxxxxxxxx
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tracie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2005 Posts: 21 Location: United States
Hello Posted: 04-02-06 13:53pm
I had a miscarriage at the end of
september and by november 6 I was pregnant
again. We were being really careful
though, we had a condom break. So if you
are trying you might get pregnant sooner.
I know that some doctors recommend waiting
to let your body rest, but one of the
doctor's at the office I go to told me
after the d&c I could start right away
if I wanted. So if you all feel you are
ready than I wish you all the luck in the
world. This pregnancy is going great, my
daughter and son will be getting another
sister sometime around august 12.
Good luck, my prayers are with you.
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mum???
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Mar 2006 Posts: 258 Location: Gloucester UK
Hello Tracie....... Posted: 04-02-06 16:25pm
Ah tracie thats wonderfull about our
pregnancy,hope it all goes well im sure t
will.And im sorry for your loss in
september-its heartbreaking isnt it?And
know one ever actualy knows what we went
through unless they have been through it
as well.The thing is I was never given a
d&c,i miscarried the one baby into a
bowl and my nurse checked over it and I
was alowed home 2hours later-she said that
there was no need to be sent down to
thearter.But then about 2hours after being
allowed home I miscarried my other
baby(that we didnt even no about)anyway I
worried there is stuf still in there and
as that was my 1st pregnancy and im only
21 I dnt have a incredibly clue.What do u
think??????Thank u for your advice so
far...But as I havnt had a d&c is it
ok to carry on???Would I feel something
wrong by now????She said there was no
need.
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tracie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Sep 2005 Posts: 21 Location: United States
Posted: 04-02-06 19:27pm
When I had my d&c they didn't find any
tissue because I had passed it two night
before. They went ahead and did a d&c
though to make sure. I would imagine if
you passed the same thing twice, you are
fine.
You are correct, no one understands what
you are going through. They say they are
sorry and then move on to the next topic
like it was nothing. I was lucky to have
my mom. She, like me, had two healthy
pregnancies and then miscarried twice
before getting pregnant with my older
brother. So I had her to talk to and my
hubby was great through it all too!
Well, again I wish you the best of luck.
Let me know when you find out any good
news in the future. If you ever want to
talk my email is
ryanandtracie2005@yahoo.Com.
Have a great evening! Best of wishes!
-tracie
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mum???
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Mar 2006 Posts: 258 Location: Gloucester UK
Posted: 04-04-06 14:29pm
Thank you tracie I have put ur email
addres in my yahoo.I,like you also had my
mum even tho she has never had a
miscarriage she was there through out it
all and I love her so much..My bf was
great too but he is still breaking
down...Will email you soon,thanks
again,jadexxxxxx
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mum???
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Mar 2006 Posts: 258 Location: Gloucester UK
