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erinjacob
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Location: australia
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Planned
Posted: 04-04-06 05:11am
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Im 19 an I have 2 kids an im pregnant I
had my first at 16 an she was planned an
my son at 18 an he was planned an this
baby that was not planed but is there any
one out there that planned to have there
babys every one thinks im crazzy am i
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AlliE_18
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Posted: 04-04-06 05:17am
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Thats messed up! I feel sorry for your
kids!
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Tess B
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Location: Aberdeen
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Posted: 04-04-06 07:18am
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Thats a bit harsh!!
How can you feel sorry for her kids? She
might be an amazing mum!
It's not a persons age that dictates their
mothering abilities - it's ther person
they are!
I think it's going to be hard enough for
me to cope and i'm 26 and 21 weeks
pregnant with my first but some people
mature at an early age and are simply
ready alot younger.. Although 16 is a
little bit young but hey who are we to
judge anyone!?
I wouldn't say you're crazy although do
you not think 2 is enough to deal with at
the moment? Lol
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erinjacob
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Apr 2006
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Location: australia
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Jess
Posted: 04-04-06 07:20am
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Y is that messed up im married to there
father weve been together form the start
we planed it together my children get
evrythin an are very very luved I have
always wanted children from a younge age
and I dont think people should critisize
if they dont no the situation
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diamondsz
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Re: Jess
Posted: 04-04-06 09:05am
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| erinjacob
wrote: | | y is that messed up im
married to there father weve been together
form the start we planed it together my
children get evrythin an are very very
luved I have always wanted children from a
younge age and I dont think people should
critisize if they dont no the
situation |
just ignore her shes a follower(trying to
fit in cause she messed up on being a mom)
I have nothing wrong with someone who has
kids I have my hands full with two its
actually easier to be a mom of 3 then two
cause two of them usually always keep
themselves busy(i had custody of niece for
awhile.)
i dont think your crazy my mom has 6 kids
and shes 41, people have no life what
people dont understand is mothering may be
hard on some and easy on the others!!
Anyways congratz on the pregnancy and if
anyone angers you off just tell them
off!!!
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Rodge
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Posted: 04-04-06 09:36am
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It's pretty young to have planned kids,
but as long as you and your kids are all
happy and comfortable I see no real
problem with it.
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hunterjumper
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Location: British Columbia, Canada
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Posted: 04-04-06 09:42am
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My partner and I pretty well planned our
son and I was 18 as well. Ignore allie,
she has no leg to stand on to critisize
anyone else's parenting....As you saw on
the other post. ;-)
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erinjacob
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Location: australia
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Jess
Posted: 04-04-06 09:53am
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Thanx evry one well nearly evryone my kids
are my life there the reason I get out of
bed in the mornin
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Sunflower_pie81
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Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 04-04-06 13:11pm
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Well, erin I am 24 and expecting my second
baby. I can't wait. However, I don't
think, actually I know that I couldn't
have done it at 16. I commend you for
what a great job your doing. Yor babies
must know that they are loved and secure
in their home. That is something I long
to give my little girl.
Don't let people riducule (alli) for the
decision you have made bacause they seem
to be the right ones for you and your
family. Good luck to you.
Genipher
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DaliciaLynn
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Posted: 04-04-06 13:53pm
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Congrats!!
You got you're hands full.
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prettygirlygirl
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Posted: 04-04-06 14:59pm
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| allie_18
wrote: | | thats messed up! I feel
sorry for your
kids! |
and everyone here feels sorry for yours.
Op- I certainly didn't plan my daughter...
But I think that if you planned for, and
were able to care for 1 kid at 16 and 2 at
18, you will be just fine to have one
more. I'm sure you are a fantastic mom.
You'll do fine.
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Carrie-Lucie
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Posted: 04-04-06 15:41pm
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Allie where the hell do you get off
telling other people they are messed up?
You messed up big time when you didn't
feel lucas move, any decent mother would
have gone to a doctor straight away not
wait for ages. I'm sure erinjacob would
have gone straight away, she seems like a
decent person and a good mother.
In my books that is worse than having kids
in a stable relationship even if she was
young.
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Jennie25
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Location: Ontario
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Posted: 04-04-06 15:47pm
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| carrie-lucie
wrote: | allie where the hell do you
get off telling other people they are
messed up? You messed up big time when
you didn't feel lucas move, any decent
mother would have gone to a doctor
straight away not wait for ages. I'm
sure erinjacob would have gone straight
away, she seems like a decent person and a
good mother.
In my books that is worse than having kids
in a stable relationship even if she was
young. |
.A.M.E.N .Sista! Lol
but don't get too worked up about
allie..I'm pretty sure she's going to see
that everyones on to her unconsistant
story and we'll never hear from her again
(like roxie..Jasie..) (ie fake..) ..But
then she'll be back with a new name and
made up story...(like...Well...You know
who..)
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AlliE_18
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Joined: 20 Dec 2005
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Location: uk
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Posted: 04-04-06 17:48pm
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Lol im not a fake so nope im not going
anywhere :wink:
3 kids by age 19 is messed up especially
when she planned the first two. I dont
get why some people want to become parents
so bloody young, dont you want to have
your own life!? Too late now anyway
theres no point saying stuff to you, so
goodluck I guess.
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Jennie25
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Location: Ontario
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Posted: 04-04-06 18:19pm
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| allie_18
wrote: | lol im not a fake so nope im
not going anywhere :wink:
3 kids by age 19 is messed up especially
when she planned the first two. I dont
get why some people want to become parents
so bloody young, dont you want to have
your own life!? Too late now anyway
theres no point saying stuff to you, so
goodluck I
guess. |
first off...You seem pretty damn
fake...Your story doesn't add up at all.
Second, not everyone hates being a mother
like you...So just go get drunk or
something
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 04-04-06 18:20pm
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| jennie25
wrote: | | allie_18
wrote: | lol im not a fake so nope im
not going anywhere :wink:
3 kids by age 19 is messed up especially
when she planned the first two. I dont
get why some people want to become parents
so bloody young, dont you want to have
your own life!? Too late now anyway
theres no point saying stuff to you, so
goodluck I
guess. |
first off...You seem pretty damn
fake...Your story doesn't add up at all.
Second, not everyone hates being a mother
like you...So just go get drunk or
something |
we all know she'd rather be doing that
than watching her own son. People like
her shouldn't have children!
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Jennie25
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Posted: 04-04-06 18:22pm
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| samantham
wrote: | | jennie25
wrote: | | allie_18
wrote: | lol im not a fake so nope im
not going anywhere :wink:
3 kids by age 19 is messed up especially
when she planned the first two. I dont
get why some people want to become parents
so bloody young, dont you want to have
your own life!? Too late now anyway
theres no point saying stuff to you, so
goodluck I
guess. |
first off...You seem pretty damn
fake...Your story doesn't add up at all.
Second, not everyone hates being a mother
like you...So just go get drunk or
something |
we all know she'd rather be doing that
than watching her own son. People like
her shouldn't have
children! |
agreed..So why don't you (allie) just give
up your son to someone who will actually
appreciate having a kid/being a
mother..Then you won't have to health
forum and moan about how much it sucks to
have a kid.
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AlliE_18
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Joined: 20 Dec 2005
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Location: uk
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Posted: 04-04-06 18:23pm
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Oh get over it, is your life that boring
you're still whinging over something that
happened on friday. Damn
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Jennie25
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Posted: 04-04-06 18:24pm
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Is your life so boring that you have to
come in here and be a fake/troll?!
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SamanthaM
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Posted: 04-04-06 18:25pm
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| allie_18
wrote: | | oh get over it, is your
life that boring you're still whinging
over something that happened on friday.
Damn |
what is whinging exactly?
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