I have been married for almost 2 yrs. My
husband is 7 yrs older than me. First it
started with magazines and then a certain
radio station on sirius then the computer.
I don't like him listening to woman
having sex on the radio. I don't like to
see he has been looking at bad things on
the computer. I use to not mind the
magazines becuz it mainly woman in there
bra and underwear. But lately it has been
bothering me. I feel like I am all ways
nagging him to quit looking at and
listening to porn. He doesn't want to
have sex with me really maybe once or
twice a month. First he told me he is out
of the stage of his life, now he is saying
he thinks he has something that is low and
that makes him not want to have sex.. I
don't know but I need some older and more
experience women advised... Any info
would help (even if you think I am being
to pushy)
thanks
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aduke00
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Mar 2006 Posts: 53
Posted: 04-05-06 19:26pm
Any thoughts at all?
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Morning_Glory
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Mar 2006 Posts: 207 Location: NE Ohio
Posted: 04-05-06 19:36pm
I think theres an ongoing thread about
porn over on the broken hearted forum.
As for your specific situation, could your
husband be going thru a mid life crisis?
(you didn't say how old he is).
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aduke00
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Mar 2006 Posts: 53
Posted: 04-06-06 11:35am
He is 27
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 04-06-06 14:11pm
You can play that game too, or at least
turn it on but tune it out! Maybe have a
serious talk with him, act different in
bed, ask him if he wants a divorce, tell
him you needmore then him and his porno or
whatever. Be firm! Who knows the next
thing you know, he might be cheating on
you and you do not deserve that you
deserve better then what you are being
treated like now or just start doing your
own thing, join a gym, go shopping or a
movie, meet people and enjoy life as it is
too short to sit there and be miserable!
Good luck!
Keep us posted!
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ElsaSchultz
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2006 Posts: 118
Posted: 04-08-06 21:10pm
Is he masturbating when he's listening to
or looking at porn? If so, then that
could be the problem.
He needs to go to his doctor and get
checked out. It doesn't sound like what
he's going through is normal (unless he's
over 65).
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aduke00
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Mar 2006 Posts: 53
Posted: 04-08-06 21:33pm
I had a talk to him about it and told him
that I wasn't happy and I told him that I
give up everything for him as far money,
time so on. I told him that he had to put
in to this marriage also and that it
couldn't just be me. I told him he makes
me want to do bad things and I recently
got off b/c and told him that I wanted
back on it becuz I didn't want to have a
child with him making me feel so bad.
Well he sat and listened to me talk for
about 2 hours. He remove the bad
programming off his radio and he told me
that he would turn off the internet if it
made me feel better. I told him what ever
he had to do. So far its been about 3
days and he has made me feel so much
better. He has told me how sorry he was
and that he didn't know that it bothered
me that bad. Thanks for the help
girls....
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