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gprettylady1

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Oh My Goodness!!
Posted: 04-06-06 03:57am

:shock: :shock: :cry: :( :twisted: sorry, but some of these people on these boards are meanies!! My goodness whats up?? Ya'll are a real trip and you gonna say the wrong thing to the wrong person and get ya feelings hurt for real. Dont act like you were never a newbie or asked :roll: those types of questions. Not all of us have but im sure you've posted one that atleast was almost there, even if it were some time ago. Quit trippin.
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SamanthaM

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Re: Oh My Goodness!!
Posted: 04-06-06 10:31am

gprettylady1 wrote:
:shock: :shock: :cry: :( :twisted: sorry, but some of these people on these boards are meanies!! My goodness whats up?? Ya'll are a real trip and you gonna say the wrong thing to the wrong person and get ya feelings hurt for real. Dont act like you were never a newbie or asked :roll: those types of questions. Not all of us have but im sure you've posted one that atleast was almost there, even if it were some time ago. Quit trippin.


this thread is pretty pointless. Everyone here says what they feel like saying, and that's not going to change. I don't know about everyone else, but i'm not too worried about getting my feelings hurt by a person on the internet who knows nothing about me. I think you need to quit trippin. :d
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wannababy25

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Re: Oh My Goodness!!
Posted: 04-06-06 10:45am

gprettylady1 wrote:
:shock: :shock: :cry: :( :twisted: sorry, but some of these people on these boards are meanies!! My goodness whats up?? Ya'll are a real trip and you gonna say the wrong thing to the wrong person and get ya feelings hurt for real. Dont act like you were never a newbie or asked :roll: those types of questions. Not all of us have but im sure you've posted one that atleast was almost there, even if it were some time ago. Quit trippin.


hey! I'm have to say that I am with you on this one! I don't know if the pregnancy hormones are going crazy...But this is not the way ppl should be behaving. Or maybe it's that everyone over here is so young. I just can't seem to find too many mature posts on this teen forum. They all seem so childish and petty. Maybe too many of you enjoy arguing. This is not a debate forum though. I know I already posted this once and got shot down for it. But...I don't much care...Here's the rules for this forum.


R.E.A.D .C.A.R.E.F.U.L.L.Y:
admin wrote:
ehealthforum is an online community for sharing ideas and information and supporting one another on different medical issues. If you have thoughts or opinions that are not health related or supportive they are not permitted on our teen pregnancy forum.

Teen pregnancy forum is exclusively for supporting one another and not putting down any one else or their opinions. Posts of this nature found where they do not belong may be deleted. This also pertains to offensive material including cursing.

If any user has a disagreement with another user it should be dealt with through another source. Posts of this nature will also be deleted.

Thank you


we are not supposed to be talking caca about ppl and shutting them down.
You know the old saying: if you have nothing nice to say...Don't say anything at all??? Well that should apply here.

Scream and yell and kick and scream...Don't bother me any! Call me as many names as you want...This is just my opinion!!
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SamanthaM

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Posted: 04-06-06 10:49am

Well, this thread isn't going to do anything about people saying what they want so it is pointless. People will be who they are no matter what the rules say. If they were so worried they would ban people who do it wouldn't they? I agree that some people on here need to grow up, but stating your opinion isn't againt the rules.
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wannababy25

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Re: Oh My Goodness!!
Posted: 04-06-06 11:01am

samantham wrote:
well, this thread isn't going to do anything about people saying what they want so it is pointless. People will be who they are no matter what the rules say. If they were so worried they would ban people who do it wouldn't they? I agree that some people on here need to grow up, but stating your opinion isn't againt the rules.


no...Its not pointless. I think it's about time someone said something. But...You're right on one thing...They arn't enforcing the rules...But does that mean we don't need to follow or respect them? Of course not!! There are laws here in this town that I live in...Just because there are no cops around...Does that mean I can break all the laws??? No that's just plain stupid right? It's just a little thing called common courtesy and respect and it's something more of us should be displaying.

samantham wrote:
i agree that some people on here need to grow up, but stating your opinion isn't againt the rules.

you say stating your opinion is not against the rules...Well...You're partly right. Again...Read these two phrases very .C.A.R.E.F.U.L.L.Y:

admin wrote:
if you have thoughts or opinions that are not health related or supportive they are not permitted on our teen pregnancy forum.


admin wrote:
teen pregnancy forum is exclusively for supporting one another and not putting down any one else or their opinions. Posts of this nature found where they do not belong may be deleted.
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diamondsz

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Posted: 04-06-06 11:05am

Doesnt matter freedom of speech the way I see it if you dont like what is said either be sad, ignore it or do something about it these girls know how to fend for themselves why would you support something when it goes against you views?? Im not against teen pregnany I was in their place at 17 but the fact resumes that I wont support a girl ttc because the majority do it for the wrong reasons as in trying to tie a man down for looking for something to love them wrong reason to have a kid and so we set them straight (i have a right im a mother so I know how doing it tough it is to be on the other side)
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Carrie-Lucie

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Posted: 04-06-06 11:06am

People get worked up - everyone does... And at least it's an honest view on the situation. Of course it says that things not related to teen pregnancy are not allowd on the forum, but some of us have become friends through it and chat too.

Silly post btw.
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SamanthaM

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Posted: 04-06-06 11:07am

Thank you, I read that all the first time. If you go to the new member introductions forum, you can see the same girl who started this thread has started a thread there just for the sake of arguing with someone. Can you say hypocrite?
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wannababy25

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Posted: 04-06-06 11:22am

diamondsz wrote:
these girls know how to fend for themselves why would you support something when it goes against you views??


sorry I just had to at least answer your question...

I am not saying ppl should support someone or something they don't believe in or that goes against their views. I am merely saying that we should only be giving support where we feel it's needed...And not wasting our time giving someone we don't agree with crap and calling them names. All that's gonna happen is arguing. Just seems to make sense. It is soo immature to go around belittling ppl 'cause they made a mistake. So what if they're stupid? Keep it to yourself. You know?

Or am I the only nice person in here?? I support anyone I can...Whether they messed up or not! That's just the way I am. Everyone needs a little help sometimes.

Have you never made a big mistake? No one else here ever get preggo when they were too young or for the wrong reasons?

Anyone agree with me??? Lol!!
It's seems odd that no one is backing me up. I'm all for free speech...But not when it involves name calling and childish behavior. But then again...I'm almost 26...So maybe age has something to do with it?
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Kia

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Posted: 04-06-06 11:26am

Ok this post isn't going to acheive anything.

Yes this is a support forum but as I have always said we will not encourage younger teens to get pregnant but offer support to those that have already fallen pregnant.

However, people will always get frustrated by the same questions getting asked over and over again.
The more you help yourself, the more help you will get. Why not have a look through some posts and see if you question has already been answered somewhere else (if anyone needs help using the search function pm me).

If you can't find your answer then post a constructive post.

Yes, you will find a lot of chatty posts here but that's to be expected when you have a large number of young ladies together.

Remember if you ask for an opinion that is what you will get. Not everyone will agree with you and you might not like someone elses opinion - that's fine but remember that person is as entitled to their opinion as you are to yours.

I'm here if anyone needs help in using the forum or help in looking for answers, but trust me if you post demanding an answer or opinion you are less likely to get it and if you don't like someones opinion then tell them they are wrong you will probably end up in drama.

Unfortunately the answer you get might not be the answer you want to hear. And if that is the case just step back for a moment and think - what would your answer be if someone else had asked that question?
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