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Damita

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Omg I Just Found Out Some Shocking News
Posted: 04-06-06 22:33pm

:( my little sister just found out that she was pregnant. The f**ked up thing about is she is only in the 8th grade . She only a baby herself. I don't know what I am going to do with her lil fast a**. I really am shocked though. I did not expect that from her.
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19mommy

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Re: Omg I Just Found Out Some Shocking News
Posted: 04-06-06 23:49pm

damita wrote:
:( my little sister just found out that she was pregnant. The f**ked up thing about is she is only in the 8th grade . She only a baby herself. I don't know what I am going to do with her lil fast a**. I really am shocked though. I did not expect that from her.


i know you probably will, but please support her and stand by her, she really needs it. If your a mom or pregnant your self you should know how much she needs you to be there for her
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AshBoBash

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Posted: 04-07-06 00:58am

I am grade 8 and 27 weeks pregnant. I turn 14 in a few days. Maybe I can email your sister and stuff? Send me a pm if I can
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Carrie-Lucie

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Joined: 20 Feb 2006
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Posted: 04-07-06 02:18am

She needs support and I know you're shocked but as her (older) sister I assume she is going to turn to you. Tell her to come on here to have a chat. :)
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AshBoBash

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Posted: 04-07-06 02:26am

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tell her to come on here to have a chat. :)

eh.. Lol.. Not a good idea if shes gonna get yelled at
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Carrie-Lucie

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Posted: 04-07-06 05:00am

Yeah ok, but she could talk to some of us (who won't yell at her) just an idea.
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~samintha~

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Joined: 06 Apr 2006
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Location: Ontario

Posted: 04-07-06 05:04am

Im only in grade 8 as well and ive just found out im pregnant
it isnt the end of the world lol
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Melissa_20

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Location: Florida

Posted: 04-07-06 07:03am

Wow,you guys are taking your pregnancies so well for being so young.I know if I would have got pregnant when I was your age I would have flipped and cried my a$$ off! I don't think i'd be taking it as well as you guys are now!
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AshBoBash

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Posted: 04-07-06 07:12am

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I was your age I would have flipped and cried my a$$ off!

well the first few days I was in shock as was my parents and it didnt seem real or nothign to me but then after about 4 days I was crying my butt off lol
but now I am 27 weeks into my pregnancy and emotions have leveled out for the most part
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Carrie-Lucie

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Posted: 04-07-06 07:15am

Ash you are such an inspiration on here, I don't know many people my age who are as mature and sensible as you are. Sam same goes for you...
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AshBoBash

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Posted: 04-07-06 07:16am

Thanks carrie! :) when people say stuff like that it encourages me.
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~samintha~

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Location: Ontario

Posted: 04-07-06 07:19am

Lol I only joined yesterday im not much of an inspiration
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Carrie-Lucie

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Posted: 04-07-06 07:30am

Welcome ash! :) and sam, you may only have joined yesterday but you have still handled this so far in an inspiring way.
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~samintha~

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Posted: 04-07-06 07:36am

Well thank you lol
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Melissa_20

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Posted: 04-07-06 09:05am

I agree.You have a "well it happened and now I must deal with it" attitude which is good to have! : ) good luck with you!
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Experienced Teen Mom

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Joined: 06 Apr 2006
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Location: Indiana

Posted: 04-07-06 09:30am

Just tell her to finish school and go to college. Having a baby doesn't bring your life to a halt, but it will be more challenging. Go to college. There are many colleges that offer programs for parents. I went to smwc.Edu, (all women school, I know) but they offer programs where you can live on campus with children over the age of 3 and your living expenses (not including daycare) is taken from your tuition, which the government will pay for the majority considering a low income single mother. There are options. Just take one day at a time.
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Damita

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Location: Memphis

Posted: 04-07-06 14:42pm

Aww thanx you guys!! I'm sorry it took so long to write back I had to go to school today but she don't have an e-mail so i'll just let her use mine. If that's okay her name is cierra. But i'll tell her to post. I'm not really mad anymore just surprised and I know ya'll probably thinking we are really crazy over here but our family is somewhat normal. But thanks again for your support, I don't live with her so i'm about to call and tell her to log on.Okay 8)
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19mommy

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Joined: 14 Oct 2005
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Posted: 04-07-06 14:49pm

damita wrote:
aww thanx you guys!! I'm sorry it took so long to write back I had to go to school today but she don't have an e-mail so i'll just let her use mine. If that's okay her name is cierra. But i'll tell her to post. I'm not really mad anymore just surprised and I know ya'll probably thinking we are really crazy over here but our family is somewhat normal. But thanks again for your support, I don't live with her so i'm about to call and tell her to log on.Okay 8)


think of it this way as well your baby will have a cousin close to his or hers age, and they can do sooo much fun stuff together
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