Ive been with my bf for 6 months. Im a
very shy person and took many months to be
comfortable with him. I am very
comfortable with him now but we are
invited to his families house for easter.
I am terrible in that kind of situation.
People I dont no eating with people I dont
no!!!! Im making my self sick over this
he says there is nothing to worry about
they like me. As I have only met them
once! And im afraid im making him upset
with these feelings. Arggggggggggg!
Im stressed!!!!! :cry:
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mitch7654
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Dec 2005 Posts: 170
Posted: 04-11-06 01:43am
Tu parle tu francais?
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tony3595
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Apr 2006 Posts: 68 Location: IL
Posted: 04-11-06 07:30am
Take a deep breath, in through the nose,
out through the mouth. Why should you be
so upset about "eating with people you
don't know"? What happened the first time
you met them that has you petrified to
meet them again, this time in a probably
less formal setting (i'm guessing).
People are people, we all eat the same.
Food in mouth, crew, and swallow. It's
not all that difficult unless your shyness
involves eating in front of people.
If you spill something on yourself, you
are human. Make fun of it, and go on from
there. Can you fill me in a little more?