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Jake_B1406

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Kinda Embarrasing But Do I Have Anxiety? Please Help (long)
Posted: 04-11-06 19:54pm

First time poster on this site and I know I probably need some help but I want some of your guys opinion's first. I know I suffer from anxiety because I worry about the littiest things all the time. I worry about stuff that range from dying of an infectious disease to just getting stuff done on time and then ending up wasting too much time because I give myself 6 hours to do something and it only takes me 2.

It's kinda embarrasing here because I have severely worried about having diseases which range from aids (i've never had sex) to rabies (never been bit). I once ate something in middle school that was unopened and I worried for about 6 months that I had aids or something because I didn't know where it came from even though it was in the vending machine.

About 9 months ago I was walking home from a friend's house extremely drunk and while walking down this road I jumped in a ditch to avoid a car seeing me. I sprained my knee pretty bad when I landed and the next morning I had a bunch of scratches in all different directions over my legs. I know it was from a thorn bush that I walked through while in the ditch but then a few days later, I was like, maybe I got bit or something when I was down there. I don't remember walking home except I remember jumping in the ditch and going through the bush so i'm sure I would've remember getting bit by an animal and I didn't worry for a while but these past few days I started worrying maybe I had rabies again for some completely odd reason. That is a lot of the reason i'm here trying to get advice from you guys. Sure, I know I probably don't have rabies and stuff but I don't know why I worry about it. Everytime I say, obviously there wasn't an animal that bit me, I say well I dont remember for sure when I was walking home so who knows. Now i've been feeling bad, e.G. Tingling and numbess in hands and arms, a little sore throat, sweating a lot, a little shaking and I say well maybe these are symptoms to some disease although I know it's probably anxiety. I think I may have had a panic attack because of this worrying? I don't know what to do.

I also suffer from ocd but i've been getting better at that lately. The reason i'm on here is because i'm a popular guy, well liked and such and nobody knows what is going on with me, everyone just thinks i'm that nice, genuine guy which I am but they don't know about my anxiety and ocd and I don't want them to but I know I need help. I don't know why I worry about the strangest things sometimes like aids and rabies and other such things. Could someone please give me advice on what to do, I would appreciate it greatly because I know I need to do something about this because everything else in my life is going very well.
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Ingi

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Posted: 04-11-06 20:05pm

The standard advice is to see your doctor. There are medications that can help with anxiety disorders and ocd. Counseling in conjunction with medication helps a lot also.

Anxiety is difficult to deal with since you can be anxious about anyone knowing you are anxious (am I right?). You aren't alone, know that, many people suffer from anxiety and don't ever tell anyone they just suffer in silence. Seek help. Your life can only get better!
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jeeperjo

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Posted: 04-18-06 09:04am

Ok, that chinese sleep aid bs is on my nerves.

Anyway, I know exactly how you feel. I worry about the most unrealistic things sometimes and wish I could stop. The other day I killed a black widow outside my house. Then I researched it online to see different varieties of it, and symptoms of bites, etc. Then I started to think I had the symptoms even though I never touched the d*mn spider. I worry about serious illnesses as well. When I feel a mild chest pain I start to worry it's a heart attack, when my fingers go a little numb I think it's a stroke. I just try to keep convincing myself that those aren't even the symptoms of that illness. It's even worse trying to battle these feelings without going on meds.

If you need someone to talk to, feel free to message me. Talking to others with it always helps.
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ozgirl

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Posted: 04-21-06 05:59am

Hi,
you are not alone in your thoughts and feelings...I was pretty relieved to know this cos I felt I was all alone with my issues...I thought I caught an infectious disease from a guy I was seeing and worried myself sick with it for more than a year. A whole range of symptoms started when I started seeing him which I thought I caught from him. So I had blood tests every 2 months or even more often, saw specialists and they said it was emotional. It was a really stressful rel'ship...It was the longest i'd gone out with a guy and ifelt lots of pressure about sex and always was nervous around him, felt like I was about to throw up, tightness in my throat and chest...Months down the track I get hot flashes which last for months, sometimes it get less intense and then I itch all over...I was in denial for months about my symptoms...Saw heaps of doctors...Thought they were all hopeless...Blamed the world...I think i'm the only one to blame...I worried myself sick...Now in therapy but get paranoid thoughts alot...This disease takes time to beat, but it is doable.
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