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fighter12389
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How Old?
Posted: 04-11-06 22:19pm
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How old were you when you lost your
virginity? What would you consider to be
the typical age?
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sammisa
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Re: How Old?
Posted: 04-11-06 23:13pm
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| fighter12389
wrote: | | how old were you when you
lost your virginity? What would you
consider to be the typical
age? |
i was 18, but I was trying to hold out
until marriage due to my parents religion.
Lol well, I was engaged ! Haha.. I'm
assuming that the typical age is around 16
or so. I know alot of people I went to
highschool with, were already having sex
and that has been 11 yrs ago, so I know
things have gotten worse. :p
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jen1604
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Posted: 04-13-06 08:40am
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I was 16!Lots of my friends were already
having sex by then though..I think the
average age for girls in the uk is 17
although im not sure about the usa
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 04-13-06 13:04pm
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I was a month away from being 16 so I
guess I could just say 16! I think that
is about hte average age around here
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alone
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Posted: 04-13-06 13:15pm
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I was 15 but I think that there is no
average age... I think you should do it
when it feels right and you feel ready...
Not before.. You dont want it to be
something you regret as youll remember it
forever.. Personally I probably think I
was too young at 15 but everyones
different.. Once youve done it you cannt
change it..So make sure its right x x
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 04-13-06 13:18pm
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We know what we shoudl have done when were
older but when your 15,16 or what ever,you
don't think about the future,you think
about now. . .We don't have the smarts
when we're younger that we do now.He!!,i
wish I wouls have at least waited until I
was 17 or something,i think that would
have been a good age and I would have
thought it through better and made a
better decision.
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alone
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Posted: 04-13-06 13:31pm
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Very true.. I agree with melissa... If
only u knew what u knew now then...
You would have made very different
decisions and made sure it was right for
you..
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Lalee
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Posted: 04-13-06 14:53pm
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I lost my virginity to a guy who raped me
when I was 18. My first consensual time
was when I was 19, and i'm still with him.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 04-14-06 07:41am
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| lalee
wrote: | | i lost my virginity to a guy
who raped me when I was 18. My first
consensual time was when I was 19, and i'm
still with
him. |
wow,i'm sorry about what happened to you.I
could never imagine what that does to
you.I could only imagine that I wouldn't
want to have anything to do with sex.I am
happy that you found someone to be
with,you must be a very strong person! :
) I give you props girl!
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xashleex
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Posted: 04-17-06 00:45am
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I was 16 yrs old I dont realli thynk
theres an average age its just whenever u
feel ur readi !!
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chubbycheeks
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Posted: 04-17-06 10:02am
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Well I was 14 when I lost my virginity as
a matter a fact i'm still 14 my boyfriend
is 17 and we've been together for 9 months
but we didn't have sex till about a month
ago I don't think there is any average age
I know people that lost their virginity
when they were 12 some at 14/15 and up my
boyfriend lost his at 14 and my stpesister
lost hers at 15.
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~baby~g~
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Posted: 04-19-06 13:45pm
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I was 15, few months away from being 16!
I'm seriously glad I did it then with the
person I loved, because a few days after
that I got raped.
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Kia
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Posted: 04-19-06 16:19pm
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I was 13 and I can look back and see why I
did it but I tell you that from the get go
I knew how to protect myself and how to
avoid diseases and pregnancy, so at least
I was making an informed decision.
Do I feel hypocritical telling others not
to do that.........
No, because I know how much of a mistake
it was even if I was fully informed. So,
when I advise against it I speak from
experience not high mindedness.
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smokeymountains
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Posted: 04-19-06 18:21pm
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I was 16...I was ready, and have never had
any regrets.
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bubbles9289
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I Was Seventeen
Posted: 05-17-06 11:32am
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I was seventeen and just knew I was ready,
but I think you should do it when ur
ready! Id prob say the avrage is about
16, but I know girls who were younger and
loder, or whenever your ready really.
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Moo
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Posted: 05-17-06 11:46am
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I was 15 and do wish i'd waited but
hindsight is 20/20 vision eh?
He was my first real boyfriend and we
stayed together for a few years afterwards
so I guess it would have happened with him
even if I had waited!
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rinsha
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Posted: 05-23-06 20:37pm
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I was 15, but I wish I would have waited
and saved my virginity for the guy I am
with now. We have been together for over
two years and if I could take it back I
would have lost it to him :)
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beccaliz
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Posted: 05-23-06 20:51pm
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Hey, I was 14. I'm still dealing with
the consquences. I was a 'lucky' one (i
like to think i'm blessed). I didn't get
pregnant nor did I contract any diseases.
After me and my boyfriend broke up after
a year and a half I spent 6 years trying
to find a guy like him. None of them
were right. I felt horrible and had sex
with 9 guys, my husband is number 9. I
love him dearly but he was a vergin and it
broke my heart to know that he had to deal
with knowing that I was so experience and
that I had gone through so much as a
result of it.
It seems so exciting when you're young,
but when you get older...
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rinsha
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Posted: 05-23-06 20:59pm
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Yeah I am 18 and my boyfriend is 19 we
start dating when I was 16 and broke up
wasn't really that serious but we got back
together and we love eachother alot. We
both wish we had lost our virginity to
each other. We are really close I came to
live with him and his parents when I just
turned 17 and still living here. :d we
couldn't be happier.
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kissofangel20
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Posted: 05-23-06 21:26pm
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I was 19 and am now married to that man.
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