Very Worried About Pregnancy Posted: 04-12-06 02:50am
My girlfreind is 14 im 17 and we had sex
with a spermicidal condem but I didnt
climax...The next day I didnt shower or
anything and we had sex again....Without a
condem....About 1minute into it I pulled
out and said we should stop so we
stopped....But ive heard that pre cum can
lead to pregnancy what do u think the
chances are for her....I am sooo worried
for her I dont want to ruin her life...Any
input is great.
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scrdat20
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2006 Posts: 90
Posted: 04-12-06 12:42pm
Hey...
Hows it goin? If you don't want to get
her pregnant, I would strongly advise you
to either have her get on birth control,
or think again about sex. Condoms work
most of the time, but they can be
unreliable. Birth control is the best
way to assure that she won't get pregnant
next to abstinence. She can get birth
control confidentially if she goes to a
planned parenthood place somewhere like
that. There should be one close to you.
They can cover the cost of birth control
if that is a problem. But pulling out is
definitely not a very good way of
preventing pregnancy as pre-cum does have
the capability of causing pregnancy. I
hope this helps. Let me know if you have
any more questions. I would be happy to
help! :) have a good one.
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mariana
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jan 2006 Posts: 79
Posted: 04-12-06 18:05pm
The first reply is correct! The pull-out
method is unreliable because the pre-cum
does have sperm in it. This is how my
brother was conceived!
She is probably not pregnant from just
this one time, since you did use a condom
the first time and was only inside of her
for a minute the second time. So I
wouldn't worry too much! Just use
protection in the future.
I just want to warn you that in most of
the us, sex with anyone under 16 is
statutory rape - in some states, it is
under 17 or 18. So be careful!
