Jordan: how many weeks are you??
I'm 38.3 or something like that...I lost count!!! It's been tooo damn long! But anyways, maybe you could talk to your .Dr about induction. At 37 weeks my cervix was efface at 25 going on 50% and I would soon start to dialate.
I told my .Dr I wanted to go natural all the way, including a drug free birth. I want everything to come on it's own...(.I.E: water breaking and labor starting) I also told him I don't an episotomy, i'd rather tear. There's actually less blood loss from a tear than a cut.(depending on the severity) I told him I would only allow an episitomy if there was 'shoulder distocia' if the baby gets stuck at the shoulders!
As far as labor pains and braxton hicks, i've only experienced light cramping on either side of groin. Never both sides at the same time. Which is a common sign of a braxton hick. I have a .Dr appt tomorrow and i'm hoping i'm dialated at least 1cm.
Good .Luck!!!!
Sarah