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asher

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Joined: 02 Apr 2006
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Location: pakistan
Hi Girls
Posted: 04-16-06 20:41pm

I am a male 26. I want help I thinks its bad to be blunt but my problem is such that a girl can help it out. So realy sorry 4 asking but if some one helps it may solve my problem I really apriciat that . Thnx 4 reading it out i'm looked in this forum for guidance may I get real help. My problem worries me much I know girls know solution to it.
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map

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Joined: 12 Sep 2005
Posts: 267
Location: Eugene

Posted: 04-16-06 21:53pm

What do you need help with??
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Lalee

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Joined: 26 Jan 2006
Posts: 991
Location: South Carolina

Posted: 04-16-06 22:23pm

Yeah, you kinda have to tell us what it is in order to get any opinions.
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fighter12389

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Joined: 22 Oct 2004
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Location: minnesota

Posted: 04-16-06 23:01pm

Yeah we need an actual problem in order to solve it.
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sammisa

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Posted: 04-16-06 23:51pm

Hi i'm 26 & liv ahealthy normal lif . I had some succesful sex but I feel some problem first I sweat a lot in sex making second some tim my penis before insertion is hard like stick but wen I insert insid it get loose not to lowest but middle stage. Some tim I feel pain wen ejaculat. Is it normal oa do I need to look into it some one who knows ............ Just found this of his, I think this is the problem he is talking about.. Lol and I can't help! I have no idea what a penis feels like from the males view haha :p
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Melissa_20

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Joined: 18 Jan 2006
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Location: Florida

Posted: 04-17-06 14:35pm

Are you kidding me?
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sammisa

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Posted: 04-17-06 16:19pm

melissa_20 wrote:
are you kidding me?

lol no.. I'm not kidding you!
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Lalee

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Joined: 26 Jan 2006
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Location: South Carolina

Posted: 04-17-06 22:42pm

Why the heck would he thing a girl would be the best person for this?
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Melissa_20

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Joined: 18 Jan 2006
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Location: Florida

Posted: 04-18-06 06:18am

sammisa wrote:
melissa_20 wrote:
are you kidding me?

lol no.. I'm not kidding you!


so are you a boy or girl?Cause you first said .Y.O.U were having the problems and then said your not a guy so you don't know how it feels?Can you at least clearly tell your story or something cause this just sounds like a bunch of mumbo jumbo!
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sammisa

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Posted: 04-18-06 16:50pm

melissa_20 wrote:
sammisa wrote:
melissa_20 wrote:
are you kidding me?

lol no.. I'm not kidding you!


so are you a boy or girl?Cause you first said .Y.O.U were having the problems and then said your not a guy so you don't know how it feels?Can you at least clearly tell your story or something cause this just sounds like a bunch of mumbo jumbo!

ummm I am a female.. Very much so! Lol.. I just copied and pasted what that guy was referring to.. He typed it in another post! That was all..
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asher

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Apr 2006
Posts: 32
Location: pakistan
Hi Girls
Posted: 04-18-06 18:39pm

Hi girls ok my problem is that my girl does not lik having sex and I dont blam her and I compromise. But its not one day afair I seriously want to address this problem. Becas it has distub my life . May be I need to know before I make a decision but I never want to leave her nor I can leave her. May b she has less sex drive or may be something else or I need to do something . I want help I want who can hear & share truth and guide me. Actually I can't share every thing on this forum may b I need someone to discuss it out on my hotmail id. It may not sound well but I want help u will see
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Spirit

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Joined: 12 Mar 2006
Posts: 387
Location: Canada

Posted: 04-19-06 08:07am

Most women are taught at an early age that liking sex is bad. And I suspect in places like pakistan it's even more frowned upon. Probably seen more like a duty to the husband like cleaning and cooking....And no one gets excited about that. It's a major hurdle to overcome, but not impossible.
Women need alot more foreplay then men.....Take your time, kissing, warming her up and exploring her body. I would even suggest warming her up so much and not going through with the intercourse...To implant in her brain of what she's missing. This may drive her crazy enough that she'll be initiating it the next time.
And remember most women orgasm only from oral or manual stimulation of their clitoris. :)
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Melissa_20

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Joined: 18 Jan 2006
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Location: Florida

Posted: 04-19-06 10:01am

sammisa wrote:
melissa_20 wrote:
sammisa wrote:
melissa_20 wrote:
are you kidding me?

lol no.. I'm not kidding you!


so are you a boy or girl?Cause you first said .Y.O.U were having the problems and then said your not a guy so you don't know how it feels?Can you at least clearly tell your story or something cause this just sounds like a bunch of mumbo jumbo!

ummm I am a female.. Very much so! Lol.. I just copied and pasted what that guy was referring to.. He typed it in another post! That was all..


lol,ok sry,it just wasn't clear to me
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asher

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Joined: 02 Apr 2006
Posts: 32
Location: pakistan

Posted: 04-19-06 18:30pm

spirit wrote:
most women are taught at an early age that liking sex is bad. And I suspect in places like pakistan it's even more frowned upon. Probably seen more like a duty to the husband like cleaning and cooking....And no one gets excited about that. It's a major hurdle to overcome, but not impossible.

Women need alot more foreplay then men.....Take your time, kissing, warming her up and exploring her body. I would even suggest warming her up so much and not going through with the intercourse...To implant in her brain of what she's missing. This may drive her crazy enough that she'll be initiating it the next time.

And remember most women orgasm only from oral or manual stimulation of their clitoris. :)


hi I do so much fore play that she gets orgsm b4 v do inter cource thats not the problem I do so much that she gets orgsm so soon. But she never start herself. She says she doesn't like having sex its durty
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Krittyk

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Joined: 19 Apr 2006
Posts: 38
Location: Australia

Posted: 04-21-06 02:15am

Oh my gosh it is definitely not dirty! It is beautiful and natural and something I cannot get enough of!

One thing though - do not force her if she does not want to have sex.

I hope you get some loving soon ;)

krit xx
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Melissa_20

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Posted: 04-21-06 09:02am

Why does she think it's dirty? Show her it's not and that it is a beautiful thing(and fun!) but like the person above me said,don't push her,let her come around
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asher

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Joined: 02 Apr 2006
Posts: 32
Location: pakistan

Posted: 04-21-06 21:46pm

melissa_20 wrote:
why does she think it's dirty? Show her it's not and that it is a beautiful thing(and fun!) but like the person above me said,don't push her,let her come around


thats great advice till now i'm not pushing her thats why she loves me she agrres thats she is not doing wot she should actually do but how long I can bear .And i'll not get some other girl becas this girl loves me. I dont want a girl who likes wild sex I dont mean that. I want this girl to feel good in love making thats sex. I want this girl to be active in love not only just laying down. I want solid productiv advise please understand my problem I cant leav her. If u hav understood my problem then giv advice from a girl point of view if u hav not understood my problem u can ask any question thnx 4 cooperation looking 4 positive and constructive solution
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