i recently met a girl who is the same age
to me. I am 21 and I met her when I went
to my mates uni. She lives about 30 mins
on the train away. She is such an amazing
girl and we get on so well together
shes said to me that she fancies me but
will never ger with me as she still loves
her bf and they went out for 4 years. I
am hoping that soon in the future that she
may change her mind and go for me but it
seems unlikely
i belive she likes me as we have had sex
and she pays all that money to saty over
the night. She has been up 3 or 4 times
and I have been to see her a couple of
times.
Shud I play the waiting game or should I
move on. I have never had a proper girl
friend in my life so I get down beat about
the situation as I feel like ive been
rejected despite understanding her
situation and knowing she does like me!
Shud I take all this as a positively as
she said she wud of gone out with me if
things werent awkward
it just hurts so much as she is very
specail and ive come so near but yet so
far.
Do think she is playing me as a mug?
Shud I move on... Despite there are no
other girls im keen on in my life... ?
Please advice... Thank you
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Kittykatus
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Oct 2005 Posts: 89 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: 05-19-06 17:46pm
Sorry, did she sleep with you whilst she
was with her boyfriend?
If so, no offence, but I think that you
may have been taken for a ride.
If you really love sum1 or apperciate them
you don't have sum1 else in your grasp.
What if you were in her boyfriend's
shoes?
You don't have to hold onto her just
because you apparently have 'no one' in
your life. You just have to let things
take time
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spectermonkey
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Dec 2006 Posts: 59 Location: Somewhere
Posted: 03-04-07 01:15am
Ditto!
You slept with her when she said she had a
boyfriend already?
Who's to say there aren't 2 or three other
guys she really "fancies". This sounds
like (no offense,man) the plot of some
kind of afternoon soap opera.
I'd say move on.
There are plenty of other hot nice girls
out there. It'll take some time to get
over this one, but you've gotta move on.
She sounds like trouble.
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Auzzie_Wanting_To_Help
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2007 Posts: 214 Location: Australia
Posted: 03-04-07 01:21am
Im sorry but you dont go intruding on
other peoples relationships, girls with
boyfriends are out of bounds!! I
understand that it takes 2 to tango and i
definately dont agree with what she is
doing but you need to run, quick smart!!
When you say she pays you to stay the
night, she pays you for sex??
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