I was told on tuesday that I had a missed
miscarriage around six weeks. Now I have
to wait til it passes. I really need to
know what to expect as it frightens the
life out of me. Would appreiciate some
advice on this i'm going crazy. I have
brown spotting at the moment.
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diamond splinter
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Apr 2006 Posts: 611 Location: ,
Posted: 04-20-06 09:05am
Awww i'm so sorry for your loss hun I know
you must be scared witless but to be
honest with you all you can expect is a
slightly heavier than normal period and
maybe a few cramps my advice to you would
be when /if the cramps do set in then just
light a few candles and get into a nice
warm bath and though it will be hard try
to relax this will help if you do get
cramps.
Also if you get a lot of clotting during
the bleed then phone your gp he will then
advice you as to what to do next.
Good luck hun if you need to talk I am
here.
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alone
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Mar 2006 Posts: 81 Location: england
Posted: 04-20-06 15:15pm
Im so sorry you are having to go through
this... No one can tell you really what
to expect, but I is like a heavy period,
some people have cramps and some people
dont..
All you can do I s wait and the waiting is
the worse bit, just make sure youve got
the support there... I didnt I went thru
2 on my own and believe me having someone
there you can talk to and tell them how u
feel makes the world of difference.. Good
luck hun.. Pm me if you need to talk.. I
hope your not left waiting too long and
its not too painful for u both physically
and emotionally... Theres nothing anyone
can say that will make it better but were
all thinking of you.. Let us how u go on
x x
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Guest
Posted: 05-20-06 15:18pm
This is probably not what you want to
read, have a look at the message any hope,
at my last reply........... I just went
through a rather traumatic experience. I
think there is a wide degree of
experiences, but it is good to know what
the worse you can expect.
User name - scottina.
Signed in as guest as I cannot remember my
password.
Take care
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Guest
Guest
Missed Miscarrige Posted: 06-02-06 14:13pm
I had my ultrasound when I was 11 1/2
weeks at which time the obgyn told me that
they could detect no heartbeat, and that
the baby was a 6 week size. He told me
that it either had died at that time or I
was off on my dates come back in 2 weeks.I
was horrified I didn't know what to do, I
waited the 2 weeks only to be told I have
to come back in 3 days due to there being
no available appointiments. Up until
today I have had no bleeding I have just a
little when I wipe but that is it. I
asked about infections and I was told that
your body will do all this naturally if
the baby has died. I can't believe they
would make we wait like this not kowing if
I was truly having a baby or just carrying
a dead baby
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mamabearof4
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Jun 2006 Posts: 2
Mis- Posted: 06-07-06 12:49pm
Sorry that you have to go thru all of
this, your story and many others sound so
familiar to me. I have been pregnant 10-
times and have had 8 miscarriages and my
7th pregnancy I was carring twins and one
died and the other made it... I can't
tell you how sorry I am that u have to
wait to see if you are miscarring because
I would think all the best things in the
world that I was going to carry that baby
and then I would loose it. I heard that
exact same story with my 8th pregnancy and
I also was almost 12 weeks pregnant and
after three days I started to bleed just
alittle and I started to cramp really bad
so I had to have a d&e and d&c so
I could recover properlly and try again in
6 weeks.
The best advice I can give someone going
through all of this and wanting a baby so
bad is... If u really want a baby, do not
ever give up trying. Most of my family
and friends and even my husband wanted to
give up but I said no! I will hold u
up in prayers....
Finally a mama
ps. My daughter from my 7th pregnancy
has down syndrome and is my lil angel!
