Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 498 Location: newcastle
Did Any1 Have Aborion At 14 Week -19weeks Posted: 04-22-06 06:10am
Sorry jus im 14weeks my abortion on
thursday 27th april. And I jus wanted
know that I aint alone, on the other part
of forum, some1 started a topic, and I
answerd question and they all turned on
me,. Saying im bad person, I already feel
bad ya know:( and jus so awfull.
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Carifairy
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Joined: 12 Nov 2005 Posts: 2527 Location: Charlotte n.c.
Register so you can see posts.. Noone
prolife or anti abortion can post there ,
and many women on there have thier stories
of 14-19 weeks abortion.. One girl on
their had a 19 weeks abortion, and tells
her story.. Non judgemental and
honest....
It is called live journal, and
aboritoninfo is a journal in the
community
you do not have to register, but if you
do you can see the posts from women who
only want other registered members to
see.....
I post there!
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Carifairy
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Joined: 12 Nov 2005 Posts: 2527 Location: Charlotte n.c.
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Posted: 04-22-06 14:57pm
When you click the link you will see a
search "blank"
enter "abortioninfo" without a space
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jaime_elms
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Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 498 Location: newcastle
Posted: 04-22-06 14:58pm
Thanx so much xxxx
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 04-22-06 18:43pm
Don't let those people get to you. You
just do what is right for you. I see
where they locked that one post. Even
they hadd no right calling you those
names, remember the ole saying, sticks and
stones. Just stay on this side as we are
here for you for whatever decision you
make!
The very best to you!
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jaime_elms
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 498 Location: newcastle
Posted: 04-23-06 04:33am
Yeah!! I jus do feel bad about what im
going to do :( as the times gettin later!
N im teriffied been put to sleep n
teriffied that im gnna kill my baby!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 04-23-06 19:18pm
jaime_elms
wrote:
yeah!! I jus do feel bad
about what im going to do :( as the times
gettin later! N im teriffied been put to
sleep n teriffied that im gnna kill my
baby!
well, it is going to die; but that is the
nature of abortion. However, since you
know that this is what's going to happen,
there is no need to worry about it or
stress about it. As for the anesthesia,
most people do just fine, so nothing to
worry about there either. You'll be fine!
And you can feel relieved afterwards.
Please please let us know how you're
doing!
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jaime_elms
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 498 Location: newcastle
Posted: 04-24-06 04:34am
I will. Only 4days - I am scared but,
cant help it :( I jus feel alone in this
pregnancy, its all been stressful. It
isnt babies fault. My bf working all the
time. He hasnt even asked if im sure I
wanna do it, of how I am, he is gonna come
with me. Which is nice.
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 04-24-06 18:31pm
I was wide awake with mine 31 hours of
labor until they decided to abort it as
they knew it would not make it and I was
awake during the abortion. I have had 23
surgeries and am probably looking at about
3 more due to pain, be thankful, you will
be asleep, hope you have an early
appointment and ask for a relaxer. Don't
forget, you will need a ride home.
The best to you!
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jaime_elms
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 498 Location: newcastle
Posted: 04-25-06 04:15am
Thanx so much, im really really sorry
about what u have been through, thats
awfull. So ur baby was ready to be born,
bt u were in labour for along time???
Thats so upsetting! :( im sorry about
that, thank you for all ur support!!
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Jaime_elms Posted: 04-25-06 16:20pm
No, to me it was not a baby, it was not in
the birth canal and the dr did not say any
time on birth date so therefore I do not
feel it was a baby, it was in the process
of miscarrying(sp) or preparing to die
after what it had gone through, we all
knew (including the drs) it could not go
through anymore, kind of like the other
one that had the iud in the head that was
in the process of passing on that also
would have never made it but they have
improved on iud's since then and it was a
rare case at that time too. The one
fetus that died while I was on b/c and a
spermicide condom might have been a
abortion also but it ended up as a
miscarriage, things happen in life that we
sometimes have no control over I was
taught that you make your bed, you lay in
it but after a while you learn that if
those sheets get dirty, you have to change
them along with the box springs and the
rest of the bed and at that time we did
not have places to go like they have now
your life sometimes needs a new change,
just like your bed and bedding and that is
what I did a few times and now I have a
great hubby, jobs where I can help people,
great son and daughter, looking back I
have no regrets, just experiences, great
parents, yucky step-mother but what can we
expect from someone that is full of hate
and alchohol(sp).
We sometimes must do what we must do and
then move on. I realize that moving on
is difficult sometimes. Have you ever
checked into .E.M.D.R. It is done by
finger movement or knee taping, it is done
by psychologists not psychyatrists so you
do not have to worry about a bunch of
meds, I do not have anything against
psychiatrists but psychologists have have
done a lot of work on post war victims,
people with phobias, people that have
problems int the past such as robbings
shootings seeing someone die as sexually
molested child ao an abused one or an
abortion, it iss similar to a helium
baloon being released, it takes you to the
time and you fogive yourself, you might
check it out sometimes it only takes about
2 to 4 sessions
the best to you whatever you decide, I am
here for you!!
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sandyallen
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Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 04-25-06 16:40pm
It sounds like it is time to sit down and
have a heart-to heart talk with your beau,
see if he wants you to move on. You
sound like you have a good head on your
shoulders, don't let any man take that
away from you!
You are .Woman hear you roar!(lol).
I do o kay, just one day at a time, work
helps! But they will sooner or later
have to do something about this pain
either by a stimulator or a pain pump or
both with my medical situations sleep can
be hell or I will have to end up on
disability on more meds and I do not want
that, not with my jobs.
Are you working? Going to school?
Wishing you the best!
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jaime_elms
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Mar 2006 Posts: 498 Location: newcastle
Posted: 04-26-06 04:15am
I work mon-fri and also go to college, im
applying for uni, my bf wants me live with
him, and get house, but not sure yet, we
have see how it all goes,
sandyallen
wrote:
it sounds like it is time to
sit down and have a heart-to heart talk
with your beau, see if he wants you to
move on. You sound like you have a good
head on your shoulders, don't let any man
take that away from you!
You are .Woman hear you roar!(lol).
I do o kay, just one day at a time, work
helps! But they will sooner or later
have to do something about this pain
either by a stimulator or a pain pump or
both with my medical situations sleep can
be hell or I will have to end up on
disability on more meds and I do not want
that, not with my jobs.
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