Want to Get Married Ladies! Posted: 04-22-06 16:36pm
Ladies,
i have been married for 15 years and we
dated for 9 before we committed. Thats 24
years! It's been worth it!
Listen you don't want to rush into
marriage.. The best choice that I made
was, we were friends for 1 year before it
ever went any where sexual.. He became my
best friend, we had serious fun together
and we challenged each other.. He
accepted me when is was in an "ugly " mood
and when I was stunninly beautiful.. Thru
the years we have had years of tough
times, but if the friendship is there, you
will make it thru.
Relationship is about give and take and
communication and that you have to feel
comfortable with a person.. If you don't
have that, then thats it folks, you will
never last.
Find a man that you can relate to, have
fun with, who is respectful and treats you
like you want to be treated. Any thing
less and you will regret it in the
future.
We have had a few rules: if you fall out
of love, don't cheat, just tell me.
It may hurt, but its better than getting a
disease .
We always have our nights together and
family nites, as well as girls and guys
nites out.. You have to be who you are!
Don't try and be some one your not for
someone else, don't starve your self, do
plastic surgery.
Because any man that is that fickle now
will be a horror to live with in the
future and you only get older..
I wish you all the best and keep your head
high, attain your goals and wait for
mister right, he will come along when you
least expect it and it will be who you
least expect.. :) all the best, and happy
hunting.. Remember no one is perfect,
desire doesn't always happen the moment
you meet.. Chao bella ww
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Kittykatus
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Agreed Posted: 05-18-06 18:25pm
Wickedwanda; that is a great load of
information.
I agree with becoming friends before you
commit. I think sometimes you end up
forgetting that and dive straight into
lust at times.
Cheer for the wise words :)
kitty
:)
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wickedwanda
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Lust Is Powerful! Posted: 05-18-06 23:19pm
Kitty kat, cool name! I feel lust can
really overpower love. Sex is a part of
life and love and if young woman can
fiqure out the difference, that is
extremly empowering for a woman.. I have
another friend whom has been married 22
years and she says, she knew that her
husband was the right guy, by 2 things how
he looked at her and how he made her feel.
Among other parts of him..Uhh and believe
it or not his "smell". I was like I
hadn't even thought about that, but that
is what gives us great desire, in the
40's, because nature has it's way of
making you face reality. If you fall in
love with all those quality's friendship,
smell, lust, communication & physical
attraction at 18 , then that bonds grows
into an unbelivable love, that for me is
forever.. And that is a "soul mate".. I
know it sounds weird and some of you young
ladies may think i'm cuckoo.. But my man
loves me, despite of my sever illness and
some extra weight, he still opens every
door for me and is respectful to every
woman he meets.. That ladies is a
gentlemen! I really hope you all can
experience that, because there is nothing
in the world like a soul mate.. Happy
hunting kitty kat and to the rest of you..
Ww
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Kittykatus
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Oct 2005 Posts: 89 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: 05-19-06 17:51pm
Lol thank you wickedwanda!!
I guess it becomes difficult to understand
you, or rather accept what you say to
some. I guess I could even say so; it's
not offense my repsonse, I assure you, but
I think that us girls are so dominated at
times that we lose meaning and follow
everyone else like sheep!!
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wickedwanda
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Posted: 01-13-07 02:05am
kittykatus
wrote:
lol thank you
wickedwanda!!
I guess it becomes difficult to understand
you, or rather accept what you say to
some. I guess I could even say so; it's
not offense my repsonse, I assure you, but
I think that us girls are so dominated at
times that we lose meaning and follow
everyone else like
sheep!!
yes
we do, we are the peace keepers.. I
always say "don't start doin anything you
dont want to do for the rest of your
life!" ie: picking up the socks.. We had
a rough 2006 and fought thru it and at the
end of the year, we felt soo good, don't
give up ladies
