Im not exactly sure if im even in the
right spot here, but I have a question
about girls.
Okay, me and my girlfriend have been
experimenting new things with our clothes
on, and she lets me touch her vagina and
stuff. Yet now that we've done it a few
times ( she doesnt wanna do anything
without clothes) she is picky about me
finding a certain spot to rub. What am I
looking for? Can you give me some advise?
Ill take anything, I have no clue what im
doing ! :oops:
Well, if your girlfriend doesnt want to do
anything without clothes, it seems to me
that she is just a little scared. I was
the same way for a while. It may take
some time, but she should come around
eventually. Just give her time, and dont
pressure her.
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Dan.
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Joined: 23 Apr 2006 Posts: 9
Posted: 04-23-06 16:15pm
Nooo not like that. Okay, she lets me
like, rub her vagina through her pants,
but she only really likes it when im in a
certain spot, and when I cant find the
spot shes dissapointed.
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SydneyGirl
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Joined: 14 Apr 2006 Posts: 23 Location: Sydney
Dear Dan Posted: 04-23-06 17:43pm
Dear dan, i'm 41 and yep it is a
particular spot, that's for sure. Ask
her, and I know she'll be a bit
embarrassed.
Sydneygirl
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Dan.
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Apr 2006 Posts: 9
Posted: 04-23-06 18:12pm
I have asked, and she tries to help me,
but she cant explain it with words she
says, and she helps me find it, but I
loose it quickly or something. Any
advise?
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Rosh
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Mar 2006 Posts: 39 Location: NZ
Posted: 04-23-06 18:14pm
Jeez, dan! Surely it's her cliteris, boy!
( I have no idea how to spell that word).
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Dan.
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Apr 2006 Posts: 9
Posted: 04-23-06 18:16pm
Yes, but ive never seen it so I dont even
have a clue where it is! Haha. And I
keep loosing the spot, and she wont be
taking off her pants anytime soon, so how
do I find it..
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fiona05
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Joined: 21 Dec 2005 Posts: 662 Location: , Norn Iron
Posted: 04-23-06 19:00pm
Awwww
well her nervousness, or insecurity is
understandable if she's new to sexual
encounters, but it's a bit unreasonable
expecting you to find her clitoris when
you can't even remove her pants!
Try to put her at ease as much as
possible.
Maybe it'd work better if you were behind
her... Bring your hand around her as if
your hand was her own and she was touching
herself. Let her guide your fingers. I
guess the best way to find it would be to
find her vaginal opening... Right...?
Then move your finger forward (ie towards
her belly..?) until she tells you you've
hit gold lol. Then small circular
motions around it will probably be met
with approval. Be gentle though. Very
very gentle. And not too frantic, you
know? At least not to begin with. Warm
her up slowly :)
also if you lick your finger first for
added lubrication it's good lol.
All the best!
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Dan.
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Apr 2006 Posts: 9
Posted: 04-23-06 19:06pm
Thanks alot! So, a circular motion is
what I want? No wonder I kept loosing it.
Lol.
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