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MissInfamousX
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I Think I'm Pregnant..
Posted: 04-26-06 14:59pm
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I dont really know how to start this..
But I guess i'll just start with the
facts. I'm 13 years old, and I started
having sex with my boyfriend on january 27
of this year. One particular time, the
condom broke, we didnt notice during
intercourse and well, kept going. When we
were done, and he pulled out we noticed
it. I took a test on sunday because I
wasnt feeling right, ad it turned out
positve.
If the test is right.. And i'm really
pregnant.. What am I gonna do? I dont
know how to handle this. I told my
boyfriend, and i'm sure he'll stay with
me.. But I can't handle this. I'm only
13!! If I tell my dad, and he tells his
parents.. We're both gonna be out on the
streets. I need help, asap.
Sincerely,
jen
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Kia
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Posted: 04-26-06 16:06pm
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Well if that is the case you need to tell
someone preferably your mom.
Ignoring it will not make it go away. You
will need medical care whether you decide
to keep the baby or not.
Your mom will likely be mad to begin with
and this is normal - she is going to be
shocked that her baby is pregnant but 99%
of all moms come round and are
fantastic.
But please please do not ignore this.
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~rubmybuddahbelly~
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Posted: 04-26-06 16:49pm
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Not to be the bad news reporter but
sweetie dont get your hopes up about your
boyfriend staying with you. Please dont
use him being there or not confuse your
judgement on anything. This is about you
right now. First off I would take another
test see what it says and if it is
posotive then you need to tell your mom or
dad or gaurdian and get to a doctor as
soon as possible. Alot of teenage girls
dont keep in mind that just because they
are healthy means that their baby is fine.
Your young your labor is high risk
reguardless how healthy you think you are.
Im 17 and was 16 when I found out I was
pregnant. I actually planned my baby with
my boyfriend. He was my first love the
only guy I had ever been sexual with and
we even were engaged and had our own
place. I learned the hard way that you
cant make a guy stay with you with a baby.
I know how hard it is dealing with
pregnancy at a young age. I had alot of
support and still was terrifyed and
thought about so much crap that really
didn't even involve the baby. I think you
need to take another test tho and let your
mom know whats going on because trust me
she will be happier that you trusted her
enough to not hate you and tell her and it
would hurt her to know that you kept it
from her. I really hope you do the right
thing.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 04-26-06 17:06pm
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Are you still with the daddy buddah?
Aaah I forgot ur name :( sorry lol
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~rubmybuddahbelly~
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Posted: 04-26-06 17:36pm
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Hehehe my names jenna... Or jen.
In a way you can say we are together but
in a way we arent. He is living in
chicago right now and im in texas. He
plans on being here for when the baby is
born and wants us to be a family but it
wasnt always like that. He went threw the
phase that the baby wasnt his and
everything. Im still confused on our
whole situation. I love him to death but
I have my son to worry about now.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 04-26-06 17:46pm
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Aww you're going to be a good mommy, im
glad you're putting your son before a man
thats a really good choice. I hope
everything works out for you guys :)
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yellow ribbon
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Posted: 04-26-06 18:09pm
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Aw me 2:) ys he in chicago?
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~rubmybuddahbelly~
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Posted: 04-26-06 18:15pm
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Thanx you guys... We are originally from
new orleans... And we both moved to texas
after katrina but then we got into a big
fight and split up. Thats was the first
time he tryed saying that the baby wasnt
his but his a$$ knew better so he started
feeling bad and wanted to try and work
things out so he moved to chicago with
some friends to ge his life together in a
place where he didnt know anyone and
couldn't get into any trouble because the
part of new orleans we are from we have
lived there pretty much our whole lives
and everyone knows us and he was a problem
child and teen lol when we were staying
out there getting into a lot of trouble.
So he thought if he went to a place where
no one knew him he wouldn't get into to
much trouble. I can't keep waiting for
him so I have given up on him trying to
push him to do good with his self so
hopefully it will all work out and he will
do better for himself and be a good father
to both of his kids.
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~*MaRiE*~
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Posted: 04-26-06 21:10pm
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You really need to tell your mom or
somebody related so they can help you!
You cant do it alone! Youll be surprised
your mom might be on your side.
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DaliciaLynn
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Posted: 04-26-06 22:16pm
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| ~rubmybuddahbelly~
wrote: | | not to be the bad news
reporter but sweetie dont get your hopes
up about your boyfriend staying with you.
Please dont use him being there or not
confuse your judgement on anything. This
is about you right now. First off I
would take another test see what it says
and if it is posotive then you need to
tell your mom or dad or gaurdian and get
to a doctor as soon as possible. Alot of
teenage girls dont keep in mind that just
because they are healthy means that their
baby is fine. Your young your labor is
high risk reguardless how healthy you
think you are. Im 17 and was 16 when I
found out I was pregnant. I actually
planned my baby with my boyfriend. He
was my first love the only guy I had ever
been sexual with and we even were engaged
and had our own place. I learned the
hard way that you cant make a guy stay
with you with a baby. I know how hard it
is dealing with pregnancy at a young age.
I had alot of support and still was
terrifyed and thought about so much crap
that really didn't even involve the baby.
I think you need to take another test tho
and let your mom know whats going on
because trust me she will be happier that
you trusted her enough to not hate you and
tell her and it would hurt her to know
that you kept it from her. I really hope
you do the right
thing. |
it's really sad you tell her not to depend
on the boyfriend staying with her, i'm not
sure what type of guys you've been with
but not all men are like that, and it's
not cool, on my behalf you telling her
dont depend on him staying..
If my baby's dad knew I was pregnant he
would of stayed, you don't know her, or
her boyfriend so please...Pretty please
dont tell especially young girls that just
because you're guy left you.
Kthanx
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DaliciaLynn
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Re: I Think I'm Pregnant..
Posted: 04-26-06 22:21pm
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| missinfamousx
wrote: | i dont really know how to
start this.. But I guess i'll just start
with the facts. I'm 13 years old, and I
started having sex with my boyfriend on
january 27 of this year. One particular
time, the condom broke, we didnt notice
during intercourse and well, kept going.
When we were done, and he pulled out we
noticed it. I took a test on sunday
because I wasnt feeling right, ad it
turned out positve.
If the test is right.. And i'm really
pregnant.. What am I gonna do? I dont
know how to handle this. I told my
boyfriend, and i'm sure he'll stay with
me.. But I can't handle this. I'm only
13!! If I tell my dad, and he tells his
parents.. We're both gonna be out on the
streets. I need help, asap.
Sincerely,
jen |
i'm going to be honest with you babe..
Being pregnant is awfully hard, you get
stared at, you'll get called names.
You're parents will most likely be
dissapointed, but I promise you it'll only
last a little while! You're parents &
you're boyfriends will warm up to the fact
that you're pregnant, and will seriously
surprise you.
A baby has a lot of needs, if you're not
sure you can meet his/her needs then you
should consider adoption. Having a baby
is a wonderful gift someone would ever
have, it's you're baby & you're body.
Don't make a decision to make everyone
happy, but only yourself!
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 04-26-06 22:23pm
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Aww d that was so motherly, I loved it.
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DaliciaLynn
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Posted: 04-26-06 22:27pm
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I know, what the hell is bray doing to me?
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~rubmybuddahbelly~
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Posted: 04-26-06 22:35pm
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I didnt say oh he is going to run off and
leave her... But she is young.. I
said for her not to make plans around that
because she needs to worry about finding
out if she is pregnant and taking care of
her baby and herself. Im not saying all
men are evil ...Lol I know they arent and
im not that simple minded to think that
way and I find it kinda rude to throw it
in my face that my boyfriend left me. (
ps. We are together today ). I just
know how it is to stress over things that
arent that important. At 13 when I
first got with my boyfriend I always
stressed on things he would do and I wasnt
even pregnant or even possibly pregnant
cause I was still a virgin...But no I
didnt mean to put her boyfriend down I
just really dont think she should stress
over him right now and worry about her and
that babys health if she is pregnant.
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DaliciaLynn
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Posted: 04-27-06 01:10am
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I didn't mean to be rude, but I understand
where you're coming from.
=)
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~rubmybuddahbelly~
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Posted: 04-27-06 02:30am
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Glad to get my point acoss and not come
off like an evil witch who hates all
men...Lol...
Oh and its ok no harm !!
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