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Q: About Ms Chief
asked by: El on May 9th, 2006
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Hi everyone. I haven't been very active on this forum since I had my baby last november. My eldest daughter started kindergarten recently, so i've had a little more time to be on here!!

There's a bit of a situation that I became aware of yesterday. I was going to post some pictures under the "sharing" topic. My friend, who was here at the time freaked right out.
She has been using my computer to access the ehealth forum -with my permission, in fact, I recommended she check out the miscarriage and hysterectomy forums.
She was on this forum instead. Here's her story- what she told you guys was all true, except, it happened in december, about three weeks after I had my daughter. She did lose twin girls, and also had to have an emergency hysterectomy, just not as recently as she made out.
Also, (this is the really messed up bit) the picture she posted of "jemma" is actually my daughter, maeve- we've had a big row about the whole thing- I was pretty upset that she posted photo's of my child.
She does have a crazy sister in law, but as far as I know, she has no children, and was never pregnant.
Michelle (ms. Chief) says the feelings she wrote about "jemma" were actually the way she felt about maeve, and how she fantasized about us not being able to care for her any longer, and how she could step in and bring her up. Not a very healthy fantasy if you ask me.
She says the reason she pretended all this was going on was because she kept re-living it all over again herself. Anyway- she started out on this forum, and a couple of other ones, just having a bit of fun, and then it became something else for her I guess.
She won't be on this forum again (well, not from my computer anyway) I have told her she needs some help with dealing with what happened to her, cos that kind of caca is just not normal. She said she already knew that, and she will get some help. I hope she does.
We are still friends, but I will be a bit wary of her from now on.
Sorry to anyone who got caught up in or upset by her story- I feel a bit responsible for that. She said she had been feeling really guilty about misleading paople here too.
I don't know if she'll access a computer to read any pm's or if anyone regularly pm'd her anyway. You could try getting in touch with her that way if you want to. Like I said though, I don't know if she'll be checking her messages anymore, or using someone else computer.
I tiold her I was going to out her - even if it is a public forum, nobody deserves to be lied to. So she knows i'm doing this too.
Sorry guys, I honestly didn't know this was going on- I thought she had made some connections on the other forums, and I was glad for her, gave her plenty of space to "talk" to them.
I'm pretty pissed off actually.
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Eyes Wide Shut
replied on May 9th, 2006
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Holy caca .El....That's some deep caca to swallow, ya know?? It's insane that .Jemma is actually your child!! I never spoke with .Ms .Chief, but I did read her posts and felt bad for her sitation...Now that I know that 95 percent of it was untrue, I take those sympathy feelings back...

Thanks for clueing us in!!!

Sarah
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HcoBrunette06
replied on May 9th, 2006
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Holy s*it thats messed up! I pm'd her and even cried over her story and it was all lies? I hate people.
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El
replied on May 9th, 2006
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Yeah tell me about it, here I was wondering if posting pictures of my kids was the right thing to do, and my baby's photo had already been posted by someone else !!-plus- she didn't post any of her own kid's photo's either- that's a true bit too, she has two kids.- just .M.Y baby. Claiming she was this poor abandoned "jemma"
i can get past the other stuff, I can see how she maybe didn't get enough support from her friends after she lost the babies, and me with a newborn of the same sex as the babies she lost, but posting pictures of my baby is beyond the realms of acceptable.

I'd feel sorry for her if it wasn't for that- she went through my computer and found a cute photo of my child, and went ahead and posted it here and god knows where else.
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Lalee
replied on May 9th, 2006
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Wow, that's... Wow. I don't know you cause I guess I wan't around here when you were on a lot, but I do remember .Ms .Chief. I felt so bad for her and what she was going through. The sad part is that she legitimately needed to be here and get some support, but she screwed it up.
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El
replied on May 9th, 2006
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Totally, and she needs her friends too, but she's not going to have many left if she behaves like tha.
Never saw that coming at all.
She usually seems really normal, funny and normal.

I hope this was just some kind of crazy "glitch" due to what she's been through, and that she might snap oput of it and go back to normal, cos i've known her a while now, and you know, when you've got kids, it's nice to hae friends with kids too, and only one of my other friends does. And her husband's funny and nice, and my husband and I are both good friends with him too.... caca, he's going to freak out when he hears about this- I wonder if he knows yet??? Wow. Never even thought of that.

Ps, what kind of a crap name is jemma to make up?????? She could have come up with a better name that that to parade my child under.
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Mabel
replied on May 9th, 2006
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Hrm. My lie-dar went off but I didn't think she was quite that unstable. I hope she gets help.
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lil_blaze2004
replied on May 10th, 2006
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That's totally weird. She needs the same kind of help as fatfamily.
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lil_blaze2004
replied on May 10th, 2006
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By the way el, I took it upon myself to remove the pic of maeve. Be carefull, the way your friend talks in that post is scary.
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DylanJacob
replied on May 10th, 2006
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Jeez. That's messed up! I felt really bad for her... Terra you hit it in one, people scare me sometimes.
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xashleex
replied on May 11th, 2006
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Thats crazy ppl r so weird
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