Hi everyone. I haven't been very active on this forum since I had my baby last november. My eldest daughter started kindergarten recently, so i've had a little more time to be on here!!
There's a bit of a situation that I became aware of yesterday. I was going to post some pictures under the "sharing" topic. My friend, who was here at the time freaked right out.
She has been using my computer to access the ehealth forum -with my permission, in fact, I recommended she check out the miscarriage and hysterectomy forums.
She was on this forum instead. Here's her story- what she told you guys was all true, except, it happened in december, about three weeks after I had my daughter. She did lose twin girls, and also had to have an emergency hysterectomy, just not as recently as she made out.
Also, (this is the really messed up bit) the picture she posted of "jemma" is actually my daughter, maeve- we've had a big row about the whole thing- I was pretty upset that she posted photo's of my child.
She does have a crazy sister in law, but as far as I know, she has no children, and was never pregnant.
Michelle (ms. Chief) says the feelings she wrote about "jemma" were actually the way she felt about maeve, and how she fantasized about us not being able to care for her any longer, and how she could step in and bring her up. Not a very healthy fantasy if you ask me.
She says the reason she pretended all this was going on was because she kept re-living it all over again herself. Anyway- she started out on this forum, and a couple of other ones, just having a bit of fun, and then it became something else for her I guess.
She won't be on this forum again (well, not from my computer anyway) I have told her she needs some help with dealing with what happened to her, cos that kind of caca is just not normal. She said she already knew that, and she will get some help. I hope she does.
We are still friends, but I will be a bit wary of her from now on.
Sorry to anyone who got caught up in or upset by her story- I feel a bit responsible for that. She said she had been feeling really guilty about misleading paople here too.
I don't know if she'll access a computer to read any pm's or if anyone regularly pm'd her anyway. You could try getting in touch with her that way if you want to. Like I said though, I don't know if she'll be checking her messages anymore, or using someone else computer.
I tiold her I was going to out her - even if it is a public forum, nobody deserves to be lied to. So she knows i'm doing this too.
Sorry guys, I honestly didn't know this was going on- I thought she had made some connections on the other forums, and I was glad for her, gave her plenty of space to "talk" to them.
I'm pretty pissed off actually.