Emma2
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Posted: 05-10-06 10:04am
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I'm new here and I can't beleive how
people treat others here. I hardly ever
see people giving actualy solid and
understanding advice. People come on
these forums to get some questions
answered and I doubt they like people
laughing at them and making them feel like
their problem isn't important. If people
do not like the question or feel it' snot
important to them then do not answer and
skip this thread.
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DylanJacob
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Apr 2006 Posts: 559
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:20am
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| emma2
wrote: | | i'm new here and I can't
beleive how people treat others here. I
hardly ever see people giving actualy
solid and understanding advice. People
come on these forums to get some questions
answered and I doubt they like people
laughing at them and making them feel like
their problem isn't important. If people
do not like the question or feel it' snot
important to them then do not answer and
skip this
thread. |
the amount of people who come on here
saying "am I pregnant" hun is incredible -
when you've been around as long as some of
us have (i had an old username so have
been here longer than would appear :) )
you .W.I.L.L get fed up with it.
The only way we can deal with some of the
questions is to laugh them off ie, "i came
in the shower and then my girlfriend had a
bath in it 6 days later I think she might
be pregnant with my brother's child" kind
of questions and also the plain "am I
pregnant" ones... We have to laugh at and
make a joke cos there are so many. It's
either that or being really nasty or just
no-one answering the questions.
Sorry if you don't like it but this is the
way we do it round here!
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Emma2
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:33am
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I have been part of another forum and was
asked the same questions over and over and
really there is no reason for anyone to
get fed up because these people are new
and they have every right to ask the
questions over and over and over if they
like. It is assumed by the way everyone
reacts that they are not allowed to come
into a free forum and ask a question
regardless of the amount of times just
because the oldies are fed up? That makes
absolutely no sense! I am not new a
pregnancy forum at all and this is
something you get on every forum ...If
people do not like the question ebing
asked over and over just dont reply and
let someone who can be understanding and
polite answer it for them. I am sure when
some of you came on asking a question it
was aksed beofre and probably would have
never came back if you were laughed at or
told not to ask that question. I dont
agree with being an oldie and trying to
imply that newbies can't be free to ask
what they want because you rule the forum.
Sorry I will not agree with your point of
view because it is completely wrong.
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linuxChique
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:35am
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| sandralynn
wrote: | | you wouldnt have been
fertile whatsoever so long after your
period. |
she had sex on day 17 right? Did I mess
up on the math? Because I o on day 18.
Its very possible that she could be
pregnant, especially if she o's late.
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Emma2
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:39am
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I just can't believe what you said above!
Laugh questions off? Is it not a support
and advice forum? I agree some questions
are ridiculous but why not try to educate
some of these young women instead of
laughing and driving them away without a
reasonable response.
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Kia
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Posted: 05-10-06 16:16pm
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| lalee
wrote: | | he could wear 4 condoms, and
you still have a chance of getting
pregnant. |
actually you'd be more likely to get
pregnant if you wore 4 condoms.
If you use more than one at the same time
they are more likely to rip because you
get friction between the layers - so only
ever use one
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-10-06 16:51pm
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Excuse me honey, but no they don't have
the right to post the same questions over
and over and over again. If you haven't
noticed there's a sticky at the top of
this forum that says "before you post, am
I pregnant?" so therefor there answer
should be there!
We don't laugh at all the posts here, if
someone comes here asking a legit question
we give them a good answer, but if
someones going to come in here talking out
of their ass, asking questions that we
could never answer except "take a test"
then yeah we are gonna get b*tchy.
Sorry if you don't like it but this is the
way we are, end of.
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Emma2
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Posted: 05-11-06 07:34am
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Oh okay...Who says they can't ask it over
and over? I am just wondering if it's the
admin of the site who does not allow same
questions to be asked over and over?
Because if it is not allowed accoring to
the regulations of this site then I would
I understand and I would like to see where
in the terms and conditions it is written
that regular members are allowed to tell
other memeber with equal rights not to
post the question that was aksed by
another total stranger and then I will
rest my case.
And it's really nobodies business what
people can handle and what they can't,
what they should be doing and what they
shouldn't. When a question is asked it is
not anyones concern to critize and
judge...I agree with the statement if you
can't handle the judgement how will you
handle a child but it doesn't make it ok
to be laughing.
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Lalee
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2006 Posts: 991 Location: South Carolina
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:14am
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They have just as much of a right to ask
as we have a right to give them the answer
we think they deserve.
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Emma2
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:31am
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Sandralynn, I respect your opinion but its
not a very suportive one. Let me ask you
? When you first came here , did you
have a question?
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Emma2
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:38am
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Lalee , right......But thats not what you
gals have been telling me. I was told no,
they have no right to ask the same
question. And I know for a fact that
everyone is entitled to come here and ask
whatever they chose to ask and without
being attacked with laughs, and insides
jokes and being told what to do and not
do. You all came here once for support
and I doubt you were laughed at and told
that your question isnt important enough
because your too young and irresponsible
and too bad that your scared!
Don't get me wrong people, I don't agree
with teens having sex and then being
scared but it's not my place, not my
forum, not my job to critize and judge.
They have parents for that.
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Emma2
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:42am
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Hun, I am really sorry to break the news
to you but and opinion and advice is not
the same as a judmental, rude and
inconsiderate answer.
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Lalee
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Jan 2006 Posts: 991 Location: South Carolina
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:44am
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Actually, my first post wasn't a question
so much as an "i'm new, and this is what's
going on with me" post. Also, I didn't
act like I had never heard of sperm and
the fact that it doesn't have
superpowers.
Also, "us gals" told you no such thing.
That comment you replied to was my first
on this whole issue, so please leave me
out of your generalizations.
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Emma2
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:45am
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And no one ever came here asking to for
your judgement and criticism. They came
here reagrdless of how stupid the question
is to you for an answer and some
insight.....Not everyone is knowledgeble
and educated about sex.
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Lalee
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Joined: 26 Jan 2006 Posts: 991 Location: South Carolina
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:51am
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And my insight is that if they don't know
anything about it, they should figure it
out .B.E.F.O.R.E they go spreading their
legs. We were just as much here before
they had sex as we were after, and i'm
sorry but I think that anyone who goes and
has sex without even caring what might
happen until afterward is not the
brightest bulb in the box.
You're not going to change my mind, i'm
not going to change yours... And that's
perfectly fine. But because of that, this
discussion really doesn't do anything but
take up space.
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Emma2
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:51am
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Lalee, yes you gals is correct you are
responding , you seem to be part of this
"gang" and I am not that immature to
disrespect people. And I will tell you I
am not the 1st person to be disapointed
and disgusted with this forum and with
grown women , swearing and cursing all day
and not giving support to people who need
some . Just because some of you think a
question is stupid you do not own the damn
forum and you have absolutely no right to
start judging others and telling new
people who are actually mature and willing
to offer the correct information
regardless of the stupidity of the
question. I am pregnant and I came here
to chat with pregnant , mature, fun ,
respectful and insightful women. Not a
bunch of sailors with nothing good to say
about anyone. I am so done with this
place
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Lalee
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Emma2
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Posted: 05-11-06 12:01pm
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You guys are so childish.. No you didnt
help. In fact you are horrible, immature,
insensitive and selfish women. I would
not be proud to be acting the way you do.
Wahsh your filthy mouths with some soap
and fyi....Get educated on sex and
fertilty sandralynn because I read some of
your non sense posts and they seem as
ignorant as the dumb teens....Bye it was
nice to help you all!
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michelle1981
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Posted: 05-11-06 12:05pm
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| emma2
wrote: | | you guys are so childish..
No you didnt help. In fact you are
horrible, immature, insensitive and
selfish women. I would not be proud to
be acting the way you do. Wahsh your
filthy mouths with some soap and
fyi....Get educated on sex and fertilty
sandralynn because I read some of your non
sense posts and they seem as ignorant as
the dumb teens....Bye it was nice to help
you all! |
no, she is none of the above! She's a
great person! Stay around for a while and
see why some of us get fed up with the
questions.
Btw, it seems as though you have "stoop
down to her level". What does that make
you? Were you tired of her post? Is that
why you said those things..... Umm?
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Emma2
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Posted: 05-11-06 12:08pm
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Listen, this is not the first forum I
joined and I have been an active memeber
and very appreicated for my help and
knowledge, no one needs to tell me to
stick around to know that question that
are not the the smartest and are annoying
will be asked 100000 times over ...It
still gives no one the right to make them
feel stupid and worthless. I havent
stooped to any level because I am not
cursing and making fun of people who
clearly state" help" and then get ripped
apart. I wonder how you would all feel
just because you werent that educated
about sex if you were ripped to shreds and
laughed at! No one will change my mind
and I am done with this thread. Ill move
on to something smarter and I will offer
advice to those who need without
judgements and I will always look like the
better and smarter person.
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