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Emma2

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Posted: 05-10-06 10:04am

I'm new here and I can't beleive how people treat others here. I hardly ever see people giving actualy solid and understanding advice. People come on these forums to get some questions answered and I doubt they like people laughing at them and making them feel like their problem isn't important. If people do not like the question or feel it' snot important to them then do not answer and skip this thread.
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:20am

emma2 wrote:
i'm new here and I can't beleive how people treat others here. I hardly ever see people giving actualy solid and understanding advice. People come on these forums to get some questions answered and I doubt they like people laughing at them and making them feel like their problem isn't important. If people do not like the question or feel it' snot important to them then do not answer and skip this thread.


the amount of people who come on here saying "am I pregnant" hun is incredible - when you've been around as long as some of us have (i had an old username so have been here longer than would appear :) ) you .W.I.L.L get fed up with it.

The only way we can deal with some of the questions is to laugh them off ie, "i came in the shower and then my girlfriend had a bath in it 6 days later I think she might be pregnant with my brother's child" kind of questions and also the plain "am I pregnant" ones... We have to laugh at and make a joke cos there are so many. It's either that or being really nasty or just no-one answering the questions.

Sorry if you don't like it but this is the way we do it round here!
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Emma2

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Posted: 05-10-06 11:33am

I have been part of another forum and was asked the same questions over and over and really there is no reason for anyone to get fed up because these people are new and they have every right to ask the questions over and over and over if they like. It is assumed by the way everyone reacts that they are not allowed to come into a free forum and ask a question regardless of the amount of times just because the oldies are fed up? That makes absolutely no sense! I am not new a pregnancy forum at all and this is something you get on every forum ...If people do not like the question ebing asked over and over just dont reply and let someone who can be understanding and polite answer it for them. I am sure when some of you came on asking a question it was aksed beofre and probably would have never came back if you were laughed at or told not to ask that question. I dont agree with being an oldie and trying to imply that newbies can't be free to ask what they want because you rule the forum. Sorry I will not agree with your point of view because it is completely wrong.
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:35am

sandralynn wrote:
you wouldnt have been fertile whatsoever so long after your period.


she had sex on day 17 right? Did I mess up on the math? Because I o on day 18. Its very possible that she could be pregnant, especially if she o's late.
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:39am

I just can't believe what you said above! Laugh questions off? Is it not a support and advice forum? I agree some questions are ridiculous but why not try to educate some of these young women instead of laughing and driving them away without a reasonable response.
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Posted: 05-10-06 16:16pm

lalee wrote:
he could wear 4 condoms, and you still have a chance of getting pregnant.


actually you'd be more likely to get pregnant if you wore 4 condoms.

If you use more than one at the same time they are more likely to rip because you get friction between the layers - so only ever use one
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Posted: 05-10-06 16:51pm

Excuse me honey, but no they don't have the right to post the same questions over and over and over again. If you haven't noticed there's a sticky at the top of this forum that says "before you post, am I pregnant?" so therefor there answer should be there!

We don't laugh at all the posts here, if someone comes here asking a legit question we give them a good answer, but if someones going to come in here talking out of their ass, asking questions that we could never answer except "take a test" then yeah we are gonna get b*tchy.



Sorry if you don't like it but this is the way we are, end of.
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Posted: 05-11-06 07:34am

Oh okay...Who says they can't ask it over and over? I am just wondering if it's the admin of the site who does not allow same questions to be asked over and over? Because if it is not allowed accoring to the regulations of this site then I would I understand and I would like to see where in the terms and conditions it is written that regular members are allowed to tell other memeber with equal rights not to post the question that was aksed by another total stranger and then I will rest my case.


And it's really nobodies business what people can handle and what they can't, what they should be doing and what they shouldn't. When a question is asked it is not anyones concern to critize and judge...I agree with the statement if you can't handle the judgement how will you handle a child but it doesn't make it ok to be laughing.
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:14am

They have just as much of a right to ask as we have a right to give them the answer we think they deserve.
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:31am

Sandralynn, I respect your opinion but its not a very suportive one. Let me ask you ? When you first came here , did you have a question?
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:38am

Lalee , right......But thats not what you gals have been telling me. I was told no, they have no right to ask the same question. And I know for a fact that everyone is entitled to come here and ask whatever they chose to ask and without being attacked with laughs, and insides jokes and being told what to do and not do. You all came here once for support and I doubt you were laughed at and told that your question isnt important enough because your too young and irresponsible and too bad that your scared!

Don't get me wrong people, I don't agree with teens having sex and then being scared but it's not my place, not my forum, not my job to critize and judge. They have parents for that.
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:42am

Hun, I am really sorry to break the news to you but and opinion and advice is not the same as a judmental, rude and inconsiderate answer.
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:44am

Actually, my first post wasn't a question so much as an "i'm new, and this is what's going on with me" post. Also, I didn't act like I had never heard of sperm and the fact that it doesn't have superpowers.

Also, "us gals" told you no such thing. That comment you replied to was my first on this whole issue, so please leave me out of your generalizations.
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Emma2

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Posted: 05-11-06 11:45am

And no one ever came here asking to for your judgement and criticism. They came here reagrdless of how stupid the question is to you for an answer and some insight.....Not everyone is knowledgeble and educated about sex.
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:51am

And my insight is that if they don't know anything about it, they should figure it out .B.E.F.O.R.E they go spreading their legs. We were just as much here before they had sex as we were after, and i'm sorry but I think that anyone who goes and has sex without even caring what might happen until afterward is not the brightest bulb in the box.

You're not going to change my mind, i'm not going to change yours... And that's perfectly fine. But because of that, this discussion really doesn't do anything but take up space.
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Emma2

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Posted: 05-11-06 11:51am

Lalee, yes you gals is correct you are responding , you seem to be part of this "gang" and I am not that immature to disrespect people. And I will tell you I am not the 1st person to be disapointed and disgusted with this forum and with grown women , swearing and cursing all day and not giving support to people who need some . Just because some of you think a question is stupid you do not own the damn forum and you have absolutely no right to start judging others and telling new people who are actually mature and willing to offer the correct information regardless of the stupidity of the question. I am pregnant and I came here to chat with pregnant , mature, fun , respectful and insightful women. Not a bunch of sailors with nothing good to say about anyone. I am so done with this place
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:54am

See ya.
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Posted: 05-11-06 12:01pm

You guys are so childish.. No you didnt help. In fact you are horrible, immature, insensitive and selfish women. I would not be proud to be acting the way you do. Wahsh your filthy mouths with some soap and fyi....Get educated on sex and fertilty sandralynn because I read some of your non sense posts and they seem as ignorant as the dumb teens....Bye it was nice to help you all!
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Posted: 05-11-06 12:05pm

emma2 wrote:
you guys are so childish.. No you didnt help. In fact you are horrible, immature, insensitive and selfish women. I would not be proud to be acting the way you do. Wahsh your filthy mouths with some soap and fyi....Get educated on sex and fertilty sandralynn because I read some of your non sense posts and they seem as ignorant as the dumb teens....Bye it was nice to help you all!

no, she is none of the above! She's a great person! Stay around for a while and see why some of us get fed up with the questions.

Btw, it seems as though you have "stoop down to her level". What does that make you? Were you tired of her post? Is that why you said those things..... Umm?
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Emma2

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Posted: 05-11-06 12:08pm

Listen, this is not the first forum I joined and I have been an active memeber and very appreicated for my help and knowledge, no one needs to tell me to stick around to know that question that are not the the smartest and are annoying will be asked 100000 times over ...It still gives no one the right to make them feel stupid and worthless. I havent stooped to any level because I am not cursing and making fun of people who clearly state" help" and then get ripped apart. I wonder how you would all feel just because you werent that educated about sex if you were ripped to shreds and laughed at! No one will change my mind and I am done with this thread. Ill move on to something smarter and I will offer advice to those who need without judgements and I will always look like the better and smarter person.
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