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Nadine2006
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Apr 2006
Posts: 240
Location: australia
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Its Over From Today!! :(
Posted: 05-10-06 01:04am
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Its long sorry
i just need to get it out of my system ok
today well this is my last week of school
at the moment as im getting quiet big now
and it starting to get hard to get up to
go to school and everything so this
friday coming my last day.
I go to school to be found people saying
little things behind my back anyway my
mate confronts me n tells me that jayden
(babies father and boyfriend) had been
seen with another girl on the weekend at
the movies holding hands and things like
that jayden is 18 so he dont go to
school.
After I get home from school he is at my
house to come see me anyway we sit down
and talk and he seems all fine with me he
acts like nothing is wrong I ask him if
this is what he realy did he blaintly
lied to me. He soon enough admitted it.
All I knew was that he held hands with
her and just went out I was pist of
course yeh later on him telling me he
stayed at her house that nite and had
sex!!!!
.O.M.G. Im in so much shock right now
I cant belive him how can he do this to
me knowing dam right my baby is due in the
next 9 weeks or so and he can go do this
now! Right up until the point of this
he was being quiet good but the nights
he claims he goes to his mates I have
totally no idea if he was really there or
not
soon enough his mate come round to see if
im ok (he also my good mate) he tells me
she wasnt the only one and they didnt want
to tell me to stress out the baby!!!
Im so pist of and upset mostly I have been
with jayden for 2 yrs I cant belive he
wud finally just up and do this to me!!!
Right at the end cant belive he did
this to me at all to top it off we just
got a unit we were moving in together.
I ended it with him and told him I dont
think good idea if we were together
knowing he doing it round behind my bak:(
omg im so upset right now I dunno wat to
do argh!:( also found out today I have
brochitis coz I have been having really
bad cough so I just feel all yuck and
upset mostly!! 2 yrs.. Wat a waste
Last edited by Nadine2006 on 05-10-06 04:05am; edited 1 time in total
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kissofangel20
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 May 2006
Posts: 248
Location: ,
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Posted: 05-10-06 01:55am
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Aww hun I am sorry. And i'm not trying
to be mean or judgemental at all...I just
want to share my point of view. What
makes you think that this last pert of
your pg was the only time he has cheated
on you? How do you even know he hasn't
been going around behind your back the
whole two years sleeping around? Hy who
will be your main concern..He is
18......Not mature enough to want to
settle down. But you know what....You
are about to have a beautiful baby who
will be you main concern, and I hope that
now you know he has been sleeping around
you go and have yourself checked for all
std's. And keep monitering for them
...Just as a precaution. He helped you
make this baby so make him help support it
no matter what kind of douchbag he is.
I wish you the very best of luck.
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Nadine2006
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Apr 2006
Posts: 240
Location: australia
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Posted: 05-10-06 02:01am
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Thanks aye I know I have thought bout it I
know he most likely done it all the way
through but I didnt think of it as we were
going really good!! And now it what just
in a matter of a few stupid things he done
of him being a immature jerk he has to end
it all like this... Well I ended it but
seriously what!! Argh I so angry with
myself for being so gullable!! I didnt
think he would cheat on me as we were so
close and he was always with me but there
is little times I look back at now and I
do relise he probably was!!
To tell the truth I dont really know if I
want him in the baby's life I know that
might be a bad thing to say but seriously
I dont want my baby and when he get older
to be like him!!! He is quiet a lil
deadsh*t and has doubled it more this
time!! His mum told me not to be so
stupid and stay with him he just letting
his stress out somehow!!! How the f*ck
is that letting stress out.. Well in one
way it is !! But ew his mum is a lil
terd and I hate her
seriously I dunno what to do he told me I
can have the unit but f*ck!!! Argh! So
pist right now and feeling icky I feel so
tired and miserable on top of him doing
this now!! I just want bubs out now so I
got sumones to cuddle!!
*edit to fix spelling* anger rage here
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DaliciaLynn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2005
Posts: 2322
Location: Missouri
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Posted: 05-10-06 02:02am
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He's worthless girl, it's good you left
him. You don't need anyone like that
around you or you're baby.
If that was my man I would of cut his
balls off!!
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mum???
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Mar 2006
Posts: 258
Location: Gloucester UK
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Posted: 05-10-06 05:43am
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Good reply there d,so would have i,infact
I would have cut of his dick with a rusty
spoon and made him eat it.Your better off
without that scum bag and you and your
baby are the most impotant people right
now,he doesnt deserve iether of you.But
take my advice,you get every penny
(cent)you can out of him.All my love
jadexxxx
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DylanJacob
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Apr 2006
Posts: 559
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Posted: 05-10-06 05:52am
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He so does not deserve either you or the
baby... You are so much better off
without the person! You have a real right
to be angry, vent as much as you like.
Hell, I feel angry for you.
Hugs, me xx
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ThriftyGal
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Apr 2006
Posts: 2982
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 05-10-06 08:02am
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What is with guys doing this!!! You poor
thing. Boys are real scum. This story
made me cry because I really know what is
like to deal with a liar who has an
unfaithful heart. I'm really proud of
you for breaking it off with him, you are
a really strong girl! You'll find your
prince one day k hun. : ( *hugs*
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Posted: 05-10-06 08:20am
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Wow,thats 3 of us in a 1 week period!
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DylanJacob
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Apr 2006
Posts: 559
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Posted: 05-10-06 08:23am
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Says something about the majority of guys
I feel!
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Posted: 05-10-06 08:28am
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Why do the bad girls get all the good guys
and we get the bottom of the barrel,all
the scum and crust?
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DylanJacob
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Apr 2006
Posts: 559
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Posted: 05-10-06 08:30am
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I don't now but it's a very good point.
I've finally found a good one though so
can't really comment any more. From past
experience though....
So true!
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yngdadof4
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 May 2006
Posts: 40
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Posted: 05-10-06 09:13am
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Hey we're not all bad. Nadine most guys
are scared, stupid ,and horny but there
are more fish in the sea as they say.
Trust me the good guys are out there. I
agree with take him for every penny you
can. It is the least he can do. It
really really (insert favorite cuss word
here) makes me mad that guys do this crap.
I think for the baby's happiness the
worse thing you can do is sleep around. I
am not saying every guy should stay with
the mother (for example if they really
dont love her--makes for a bad bad thing
trust me been there with my mom)but they
need to keep a friendly relationship so
their chlid will be able to know them. If
they dont want that then they'll
eventually they'll hurt and you'll have
all their money.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Posted: 05-10-06 09:48am
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| yngdadof4
wrote: | | hey we're not all bad.
Nadine most guys are scared, stupid ,and
horny but there are more fish in the sea
as they say. Trust me the good guys are
out there. I agree with take him for
every penny you can. It is the least he
can do. It really really (insert
favorite cuss word here) makes me mad that
guys do this crap. I think for the
baby's happiness the worse thing you can
do is sleep around. I am not saying
every guy should stay with the mother (for
example if they really dont love
her--makes for a bad bad thing trust me
been there with my mom)but they need to
keep a friendly relationship so their
chlid will be able to know them. If they
dont want that then they'll eventually
they'll hurt and you'll have all their
money. |
so you should read my post and tell me if
it's ok if I take his playstation and pawn
his games! I have a couple of yes'
already but not from a guys point of view
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DylanJacob
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Apr 2006
Posts: 559
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Posted: 05-10-06 09:51am
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Brent's got great advice.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Posted: 05-10-06 09:53am
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Thats why I want him to read my post so I
can get his op. Too,ya know,since he' a
dude.I've never done anything mean like
that before do I feel weiord doing it :?
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DylanJacob
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Apr 2006
Posts: 559
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Posted: 05-10-06 10:50am
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I don't know... Do you? Was that a
rhetorical question... :p
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Posted: 05-10-06 11:13am
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Lmao,i was thinking ahead and ruined
it,lol.I mmeant I do feel weird doing
it,lmao : )
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DylanJacob
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Apr 2006
Posts: 559
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Posted: 05-10-06 12:06pm
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Lol - okaaay! Are you feeling alright
mel?!? Not hot and bothered - no
temperature? :wink:
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yngdadof4
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 May 2006
Posts: 40
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Posted: 05-10-06 13:36pm
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I'll take the ps2 and video games. Lol
hit him were it hurts.
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Posted: 05-10-06 13:41pm
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| dylanjacob
wrote: | | lol - okaaay! Are you
feeling alright mel?!? Not hot and
bothered - no temperature?
:wink: |
lol,no just thinking too much and getting
ahead of myself but now that you ask. .
.Lol
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