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laura_friesen

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Posted: 05-11-06 11:05am

Hey ladies. K, I feel silly asking but I and my fiance wana know lol. Its been like 4 and a half months since iv had sex really. We tried last month but it hurt way too much it felt like the first time I did it again :p. So he stopped. But we tried again recently and he could go in, but when he went in like all the way it kills. And when he pulls out . Its at that one spot where it cant go any further. I was just wondering wat u think :s . If its cuz I havn't done it so long and we should keep trying, I dno. But hopefully some of u do :) . Thanks
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:10am

I don't want to speak for you, but I find it painful sometimes, too. I'm 25 weeks along, and we had sex the other night and had to try a couple different positions before I found something I was comfortable with. General consensus (from some other posts i've read) is that we are actually tighter during pregnancy, which could account for your pain.

For some reason, after being on this forum for a while, I don't feel uncomfortable talking about this stuff. Lol. But you should try taking it really slow, use lubrication if you have to... Maybe even try to orgasm before intercourse.
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:18am

Hey there,

i agree with lalee, try using some lubricants. It could be that you are dry down there. That's why it hurts. The same thing happened to me and everytime I had sex I didn't want to anymore and was totaly turned off. Just keep going, sooner or later you'll open up again. And remember a big head is going to come out of there so you might want to have your friend bigger then ever. Lol
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:25am

Hey hun. Ya thanks I am totally turned off about the whole sex thing :s thanks. Omg I dont wana think about a head coming out there rite now lol. Ahhhh. But I guess if other people have done it it wont"kill" me ...Rite? Lol
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Posted: 05-11-06 11:26am

Hey hun. Ya thanks I am totally turned off about the whole sex thing :s thanks. Omg I dont wana think about a head coming out there rite now lol. Ahhhh. But I guess if other people have done it it wont"kill" me ...Rite? Lol
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Posted: 05-11-06 12:32pm

Lubricants work wonders :wink:
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Posted: 05-11-06 12:51pm

sandralynn wrote:
yeah u should try the .K.Y warming gel. Its awesome.

what about the flavoured ones..... Are they good?
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Posted: 05-11-06 12:53pm

I was really tight before that it was almost painful sometimes. Now that I am preggers my threshhold is not a high upthere. Understand? Things are swollen down there and it makes it uncomfortable. We have had fun playing around and found new posistitions that dont' let himall the way in. And ways that I can control how far in he goes.
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Posted: 05-11-06 12:57pm

Ouch! I remember!
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Posted: 05-11-06 13:01pm

sandralynn wrote:
michelle1981 wrote:
sandralynn wrote:
yeah u should try the .K.Y warming gel. Its awesome.

what about the flavoured ones..... Are they good?


they're allright... U gotta be careful tho.. A lot of them taste like ass. Theres one called "wet" or somthing... Hold on i'll look it up. (no I dont have any.. Anymore ::wink::)

yeah its a brand called 'wet'... They taste good.. But aviod the little like tiny plastic clear things of "flavored" lube...The ones where you like twist off the top to get it to come out.. Its flavored allright.. Like plastic ass.

ewww! That's the one we were going to pick up the other day... Thank god we didn't!
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Posted: 05-11-06 13:07pm

Yummy. Plastic ass!!!
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Posted: 05-11-06 13:09pm

sandralynn wrote:
yeah we learned the hard way.. Got all hot and bothered... Broke one open slathered it all on... Then lick--- .G.A.G!!!!!!


I think rob got a little self concious for a bit lol I was like no no no the lube tastes like rotten ass!

lmao

poor .Rob!
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Posted: 05-11-06 13:09pm

Worst for me was one night after john got home from work (he was a bartender at the time) and we started messing around... I found out the hard way that he had residue from hot sauce on his hands. And not cause I tasted it.
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Posted: 05-11-06 13:12pm

Omg, you poor girl!
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Posted: 05-11-06 13:13pm

Brings a whole new meaning to a warming sensation
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Posted: 05-11-06 13:13pm

Yeah, it wasn't fun. I kinda made a face and he was like, "what?" I told him I thought he had hot sauce on his hand. A second later, I told him I .K.N.E.W he did and I high-tailed it to the bathroom. Lol
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Posted: 05-11-06 13:36pm

Lol that's ok. It wasn't funny then, but it is now.
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laura_friesen

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Posted: 05-11-06 13:47pm

Lol. Thanks ladies. Ur awesome ;)
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