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Q: Pregnancy Sex Question :p
asked by: laura_friesen on May 11th, 2006
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Hey ladies. K, I feel silly asking but I and my fiance wana know lol. Its been like 4 and a half months since iv had sex really. We tried last month but it hurt way too much it felt like the first time I did it again :p. So he stopped. But we tried again recently and he could go in, but when he went in like all the way it kills. And when he pulls out . Its at that one spot where it cant go any further. I was just wondering wat u think :s . If its cuz I havn't done it so long and we should keep trying, I dno. But hopefully some of u do :) . Thanks
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Lalee
replied on May 11th, 2006
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I don't want to speak for you, but I find it painful sometimes, too. I'm 25 weeks along, and we had sex the other night and had to try a couple different positions before I found something I was comfortable with. General consensus (from some other posts i've read) is that we are actually tighter during pregnancy, which could account for your pain.

For some reason, after being on this forum for a while, I don't feel uncomfortable talking about this stuff. Lol. But you should try taking it really slow, use lubrication if you have to... Maybe even try to orgasm before intercourse.
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BabyMa19
replied on May 11th, 2006
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Hey there,

i agree with lalee, try using some lubricants. It could be that you are dry down there. That's why it hurts. The same thing happened to me and everytime I had sex I didn't want to anymore and was totaly turned off. Just keep going, sooner or later you'll open up again. And remember a big head is going to come out of there so you might want to have your friend bigger then ever. Lol
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laura_friesen
replied on May 11th, 2006
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Hey hun. Ya thanks I am totally turned off about the whole sex thing :s thanks. Omg I dont wana think about a head coming out there rite now lol. Ahhhh. But I guess if other people have done it it wont"kill" me ...Rite? Lol
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laura_friesen
replied on May 11th, 2006
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Hey hun. Ya thanks I am totally turned off about the whole sex thing :s thanks. Omg I dont wana think about a head coming out there rite now lol. Ahhhh. But I guess if other people have done it it wont"kill" me ...Rite? Lol
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michelle1981
replied on May 11th, 2006
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Lubricants work wonders :wink:
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michelle1981
replied on May 11th, 2006
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sandralynn wrote:
yeah u should try the .K.Y warming gel. Its awesome.

what about the flavoured ones..... Are they good?
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Sunflower_pie81
replied on May 11th, 2006
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I was really tight before that it was almost painful sometimes. Now that I am preggers my threshhold is not a high upthere. Understand? Things are swollen down there and it makes it uncomfortable. We have had fun playing around and found new posistitions that dont' let himall the way in. And ways that I can control how far in he goes.
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michelle1981
replied on May 11th, 2006
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Ouch! I remember!
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Lalee
replied on May 11th, 2006
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Yummy. Plastic ass!!!
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michelle1981
replied on May 11th, 2006
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sandralynn wrote:
yeah we learned the hard way.. Got all hot and bothered... Broke one open slathered it all on... Then lick--- .G.A.G!!!!!!


I think rob got a little self concious for a bit lol I was like no no no the lube tastes like rotten ass!

lmao

poor .Rob!
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Lalee
replied on May 11th, 2006
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Worst for me was one night after john got home from work (he was a bartender at the time) and we started messing around... I found out the hard way that he had residue from hot sauce on his hands. And not cause I tasted it.
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michelle1981
replied on May 11th, 2006
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Omg, you poor girl!
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Sunflower_pie81
replied on May 11th, 2006
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Brings a whole new meaning to a warming sensation
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Lalee
replied on May 11th, 2006
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Yeah, it wasn't fun. I kinda made a face and he was like, "what?" I told him I thought he had hot sauce on his hand. A second later, I told him I .K.N.E.W he did and I high-tailed it to the bathroom. Lol
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Lalee
replied on May 11th, 2006
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Lol that's ok. It wasn't funny then, but it is now.
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laura_friesen
replied on May 11th, 2006
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Lol. Thanks ladies. Ur awesome ;)
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