Married And Financially Confused Posted: 05-11-06 13:05pm
Hey all,
i need some advice from anyone who can
give it. I recently got married in
december and I am in total love with my
husband. I love him to death. We also
bought our new home late october. Once
married we decided to put our money
together into a joint account. ( me
having the most) we did this thinking it
would be easier on our house bills and
utilities. Well my problem is that my
darling husband always questions my
expenses when I go somewhere. Which I
hate! I've told him I know how to spend
my money wisely and he knows I am a very
good saver. Being that I did have more
money before we put our money together.
Now we fight all the time, because of
this. It's gotten to the point where I
just want to take everything I went in
with and put it in a different bank. What
should I do?
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sandyallen
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Feb 2004 Posts: 4580
Posted: 05-11-06 16:52pm
Sit him down and talk to him, tell him
everything you are telling us. You cannot
allow things to build up inside of you!
Once you become married it is both of your
money. Have him sit down with you
sometimes when you are paying the bills,
have him go shopping with you so that he
will see just how much things cost. My
.Grandmother told me to never got to bed
mad with your partner or upset and I have
found out why, because it builds and
builds until you blow or until you make
yourself sick with an ulcer but you must
do what you feel is the right thing to do,
if you feel that going to see a counselor
will help then go for it.
