Need Somethings Set Straight Help Please

Don't take this as me trying to tell you to do something, but...

If she is pregnant, I hope she decides to keep it. We haven't heard from her, obviously, but you seem mature enough to handle it. And you never know... It could turn out to be the best thing that's ever happened to you!

Yeah lalee thats true, it could be the best thing to ever happen, shes mature but when it comes to relationships she doubts stuff sometimes she has had real bad past realtions and she says that im the best thing to happen to her and she says why me? Why do you love me so much? I just say its a feeling that grips me so hard and that letting her go for a second would tear me in two. Shes a good girl shes sweet, her parents trust me alot and to do this to her and to them makes me feel bad because I have there trust and can possibly lose it over this. I hope the best for what ever happends and I will surly be there and be ready for what ever the out come maybe.

Ho so has she taken a test yet?

You didn't do anything "to" her. You did it "with" her.

When I got pregnant, my parents were jerks toward my bf at first... And it was sad to see because they hated him when we first started dating but had come to like him a lot. Then all of the sudden they were back to hating him again. But they got over themselves once they really started to realize how much he cares and is trying to make sure everything is ok for me and the baby.

Yeah at 1st they didnt even say hi to me but now her dad pats me on the and says hi and tells her not to mess this one up things like that. No she hasn't taken it yet she gets out of work at 5 so we will take it then. Ill let you guys know what happens. Im so nervous, she means everything to me, I never had someone like her before, thats why im worrying so much I dont want to lose her, I know how she is she cracks under pressure and says things sometimes but then feels worst later for the things she said we have so much fun together I always try to take her out and have fun, but when she worrys she worrys with the water works, even if she doesnt say it I now she needs me and I need her she said she not good at really expressing her self so sometimes when we are together it seems more like friends but when I bring it up then she will say that she loves me and not to worry that even if she doesnt always show it to know that its there so all I can do is smile and trust her. She also said she never told a guy that she loved him before so when she says it it means a lot so that makes me feel better.

When is she supposed to start her period? If it's still too soon to test, the test will come up negative, even if she is pregnant.. So be careful!

Good luck, buddy.

You seem like a great boyfriend.

I hope you keep it too but it is your choice and if you do not have help and if you are not ready then their are times that children suffer(notice, I said, at times), I have known some women that are about 30 and they are not ready, their are times when it does not have to do with age, just here in our own country their are kids that will never know what true love is, even some adults, to some adults it is drugs or their booze, some kids get hardly anything and overseas is bad in some areas too and I doubt that this would be your situation but this does happen, I did kind of get off of the topic.
I do understand that it is better to take the hpt test in the morning as soon as she gets up, after she misses a period.
Stress can mess up your whole system. I was late and I was still a virgin but I was stressed, even in those days they called it nerves. I skipped a whole period when I went to war(gulf war) I knew I was not pregnant, it was stress but you can call it anything you want.
I bled for 3 months with both of my pregnancy's and I have known some women that have had there period thru most of there pregnancy, so it can happen either way. I went thru heck trying to be pregnant anyway.
Don't ask me why I am saying this, I guess I am just kind of venting in a way.
Can I ask you, do either of you have a child?
As I said before, the best to both of you!

No, this would be our 1st, if you can tell im more of the romantic in the relationship she is to at times but its mostly me, but the way she smiles makes me do it more. If you ask any of my friends they will all say the same thing he's a nice guy and I respect how ever im with I feel like she is the one for me I really honestly do love her. Thats why its weird for me, like I wouldnt normally do these kinda things like not using protection. She is my one and only even if I do seem alittle young I know how I feel about her and I know I love her to death.

My fiance &i are only 19 &20. We get a lot of crap from people saying we're so young. But you know what? Just like you- I know how I feel about him. I know I love him, &i know he's the only one for me.

Whatever happens, you'll get through it.

:]

how long have you two been together?

Well its kinda early still its been 2 months, yeah its still early but I know how I feel, I have never cheated or plan to I am devoted to her. I no longer live for my self I live for both of us, when ever I do things I think how will this benefit us. I want to live the rest of my life with her. My friends all know that I deeply love her.

That's so great. You really are an awesome boyfriend. You kinda remind me of mine. :)

it doesn't matter how long [or not long!] you've been with her. If you love her, you love her. &there is certainly nothing wrong with that. I knew my boyfriend was the one for me since the day he asked me to be his.


I hope she knows how much you care about her!

Well thanks arcadia for the support and everyone else, i'll let you all know what happens. Thanks you guys. Mando

Babychef! What ever happened with your girl? Is everything alrite?

Well it was to late to get a hpt, so we made an appointment that sounds more better anyways.

When is the appointment for?

It for nexts weds, shes gonna see a doctor and stuff. We talked today and things got alittle bit sad and we just said why are we putting our selves tho this much when we dont even know for sure its only been 2 weeks so right now we are just going on with our lives till weds.

I am confused why hasn't she taken a home pregnancy test to see if she is pregnant or not?