Joined: 17 Nov 2005 Posts: 42 Location: western australia
Sex And Love? Posted: 05-15-06 02:10am
Can you be in love but not sexually
compatible? I hear alot of people say
when in love the sex is great, what if
this isn't the case. I don't get how love
can automatically make sex great. True
you can get a connection but what if one
of the people involved or both, just suck
at it? What if one finds sex
uncomfortable in nearly all positions, it
might be a condition not the partner?
Is anyone with their match, 'the one' but
sex is mediocre?
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Posted: 05-16-06 05:04am
That's a pretty hard question. Even
harder, i'm guessing, to deal with first
encounter.
I think sex &love are often very very
different things. You may connect with
one sexually, but be completely out of
sync emotionally. Or I do think you can
find "the one," but totally miss the ball
when it comes to a sexual relationship.
It could that whoever isn't enjoying it
may not be ready for a sexual
relationship.. I don't know.
My boyfriend right now is amazing. I've
been with him for over a year &a half.
We broke up once. &in the first time
we dated, I just didn't enjoy sex with
him. It wasn't because I didn't love him-
because oh god, i've known he was the one
since the start. But for some reason..
Sex just wasn't good. We broke up, got
back together, &in the time we had
been apart, i'd matured a lot. Figured
out a lot of things within myself,
&overall just grown a lot. &i had
just grown a lot more confident. &the
first time we had sex when we got back
together... wow. it's been amazing
since them.
So it is possible to be with "the one"
¬ have the best sex. It will most
likely cure itself with time. Just look
at yourself emotionally. Try to
strengthen yourself or something.
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