The rush is ive wanted a baby from a young
age
i was raped when I was seventeen had
several violent partners so have given up
on relationships.
Every jobb I have had involves children I
blossom around them and long to know what
it feels like to carry another life inside
of you
my urge for children was made stronger
about four months ago when my gp thought I
might not of been ovulating properly the
tests came back ok but it gave me a real
scare.
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zamboni_kate
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 May 2006 Posts: 17
Posted: 06-13-06 10:36am
Rioliverpool I can understand the desire
to have a baby - i've had it since I was
young too. I have been caring for kids
for 28 years and always imagined that by
the time I was 30 i'd have some of my own.
Well i'm 29 now and that isn't going
happen. I understand the comment on
giving up on relationships - i've had a
few bad ones and witnessed horrible thigns
with some of my friends' relationships and
had pretty much given up at the age of 25.
I wasn't going to have anythign to do
with men... Then I met my bf earlier this
year - he's amazing. He's a forever kind
of guy and so sweet and kind. The kind
of guy you think couldn't exist, or only
exists in your dreams.
I guess what i'm saying is don't give up
hope - you never know what is out there.
If you really want to do this, just
remember that it will change your life
forever, but if you are sure about it,
then I say do it.
Do you have any friends who might be
willing to donate?? I had a gay friend
and his husband ask me to mother their
child a few years ago, but it was the
wrong time for me. That might be an
option. If not, I would say save your
money and go to a clinic and do it
anonymously. If you can't totally trust
the person who you are getting the
donation from, then it's better to go with
them not knowign you.
