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PrideandJoy
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Posted: 05-17-06 16:25pm
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Ok last night my girlfriend and I had sex.
We did not use a condom but I pulled out
about five seconds before I came. Her
period was last week, so do we stand the
chance of pregnancy? You know another
thing when your penis gets wet not cum but
lubercation, my girlfriend says thats
going to get her pregnant but I say it's
not it's just lubercation, who is correct?
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-17-06 16:30pm
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Shes right, its precum and it contains
sperm in it which can get her pregnant.
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Ingi
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Posted: 05-17-06 16:30pm
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The chance of pregnancy is always higher
when you don't use birth control. Wear a
condom.
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PrideandJoy
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Posted: 05-17-06 16:37pm
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Well she is 15, i'm 16 and were very
worried.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-17-06 16:43pm
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Why didnt you use birthcontrol if you
didn't want a baby?
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PrideandJoy
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Posted: 05-17-06 16:47pm
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Its was our first time and her cherry
didn't pop.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-17-06 16:48pm
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That doesnt matter lol her "cherry" could
already be gone.
If you dont want a baby please use condoms
next time.
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Ingi
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Posted: 05-17-06 17:04pm
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Always, always use birth control.
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Ingi
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Posted: 05-17-06 18:08pm
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| sandralynn
wrote: | | how about not doing it until
ur old enough to
vote. |
well, apparently her 'cherry' didn't pop,
so that makes them virgins still.
Maybe this will be another miraculous
pregnancy!
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notafan
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Posted: 05-17-06 18:31pm
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| prideandjoy
wrote: | | its was our first time and
her cherry didn't
pop. |
if her "cherry" didn't "pop" (god I hate
euphemisms, where do people learn this
stuff!! I assume this means her hymen is
still intact?") where did you "pull out
of" before you ejaculated? Her belly
button?
If you aren't knowledgeable enough about
your bodies and how they work, and what
birth control is and how to use it
properly, you are *not* ready to have
sex. Take up knittng or something until
you are. :-/
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rasuyoung
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Posted: 05-17-06 22:54pm
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A girl's hymen can break from any number
of things - it doesn't have to be from
penetration! Gymnastics, horseback
riding, karate, or any number of other
physical activities could have broken it.
If you think you can't get a girl pregnant
because her "cherry didn't pop" (btw - did
you go up there and check, or something?
Not every girl bleeds when it happens),
you are neither mature nor intelligent
enough to be having sex. Jeez.
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x0 prettyNpink
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Posted: 05-18-06 22:40pm
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Hello, I just want to say that if you dont
want a child use birth control ( condoms ,
the pill , ect ) the pull out method does
not work! I would recomend that she goes
on the pill and when youhave sex where a
condom to be extra careful. Please dont
have sex without a condom unless you want
a child , and still I wouldnt recomend it
because your to young.
Good luck. I hope you learned your
lesson. If you have any questions pm me.
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PrideandJoy
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Posted: 05-22-06 21:28pm
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You know what I came here for help but all
of you guys aren't helping me your just
dogging on me I know I messed up I don't
need to hear it again. Most kids my age
have already lost there virginity anyways.
Not mention we are both in love with
each other and we are very highly
committed to each other. I know i'm
going to get your young and you don't know
what love is, well I don't care. I'm
freaking out because of it and you guys
aren't helping my situation, I didn't come
here to get preached to I have parents
that do that I came here for help before
we went to our parents. Ok mr. And mrs.
Perfects when did you loose your
virginitys?
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kissofangel20
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Posted: 05-22-06 21:41pm
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At age 19...I was too busy with other
things in hs to even think of having sex.
There was school....Work...And just being
with my friends.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 05-22-06 21:49pm
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I didn't lose it in high school sweetie
pie. I had more sense than that. I
knew that there were things that I wanted
to do with my life that having sex and
risking pregnancy and stds would
jeopardize. And guess what else? My
first time I wasn't riding bareback.
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justacanadiangirl
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Posted: 05-23-06 02:12am
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If ur in high school u should be using ur
free time to study, hang out with friends,
work, etc, not have unprotected sex. But
I guess that would be the logical idea. I
didn't lose my virginity til I was a few
months away from being 19. I was too busy
with friends and work and...What was that
called again? Oh yeah, learning! ;) and
fyi that "lubrication" can get her
pregnant because it does contain some
sperm. U should have looked into that
before u started having sex with out and
form of birth control. Go to the free
clinic and pick up some condoms. Trust
me, u shouldn't have having babies now,
enjoy the time u have left as a kid. U'll
be happy u did.
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PrideandJoy
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Posted: 05-24-06 19:15pm
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| Quote: | | if ur in high
school u should be using ur free time to
study, hang out with friends, work, etc,
not have unprotected sex. But I guess
that would be the logical
idea. |
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El
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Posted: 05-24-06 19:32pm
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[quote="prideandjoy"]| Quote: | | oh yeh
sandralynn and justacanadiangirl I don't
think either of you pushed me out of your
vagina, thanks!
:) |
good call, that really made me laugh, you
young wippersnapper!!
To answer your question, it is very very
possible to get pregnant using the
pull-out method. Your girlfriend is
correct.
Exactly 14 days after the first day of a
woman's period (ie, a week after it ends)
is the average time of ovulation, and when
most women are at their most fertile.
Although that said, a woman can ovulate at
any time in her cycle- the 6 month old
baby currenly sitting on my lap, trying to
prevent me from typing was concieved just
two days after a (short)period-day 6 of my
cycle.
Apparently, the few days before a womans
period is when she is least fertile.
It's risky business though, and nature has
a way of catching you out. You wuold be
much wiser to use some birth controll.
Why don't you go to a doctor together and
discuss some options, and get some
reliable answrs to your questions.
I think that would be the best thing to
do.
Take care of yourseves and each other.
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rinsha
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Posted: 05-24-06 20:21pm
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| sandralynn
wrote: | | prideandjoy
wrote: | | you know what I came here
for help but all of you guys aren't
helping me your just dogging on me I know
I messed up I don't need to hear it again.
Most kids my age have already lost
there virginity anyways. Not mention
we are both in love with each other and we
are very highly committed to each other.
I know i'm going to get your young and
you don't know what love is, well I don't
care. I'm freaking out because of it
and you guys aren't helping my situation,
I didn't come here to get preached to I
have parents that do that I came here for
help before we went to our parents. Ok
mr. And mrs. Perfects when did you
loose your
virginitys? |
after I was married... 22 years old, .Mr
.Smartypants..
Secondly... If you gave shit about
your lives, you'd stop having sex til you
were ready for what might happen.
Pre-cum can get you pregnant just as
easily as cum can.
Honestly, if you dont know what can get
your girl pregnant, keep your weiner in
your pants and take sex ed over
again. |
whats so sad is that most schools don't
even teach it anymore. That should be one
of the most important classes, that
teenagers should have to take. That
really is a shame to because it would keep
crap like this from happening.It breaks my
heart to know that a baby is brought in
this world everyday because teenagers
arent educated and are igronant to the
fact that pregnancy can happen it only
takes one time. <sigh> kids are
losing the virginity everyday younger and
younger, it seems like with all the
commercials and things about stds it would
scare them and make them realize, but I
guess things will never change. It really
makes me sad because it is so unfair to an
unborn child, teenagers are bringing into
this world and aren't given the love and
care they deserve because they can't
afford to take care of the child because
they are still kids themselves.
:(
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Posted: 05-24-06 21:15pm
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I know most teenage mothers are certainly
not capable of taking care of newborn
babies... &.I realize it's an awful
thing- most of the time. But .I just
want to bring up that there are, in rare
cases, teenage mothers who do quite well
on their own with their newborn. I'm not
saying it's right- but .I just wanted to
say something in defense of mothers still
in high school. My best friend is 17
&has a 3 month old daughter- she's an
amazing mother &still goes to school-
maintaining a b average. Just saying.
There are some teenagers who are
actually mature &take responsibility
for their mistakes, y'know? It's not the
majority- but it happens.
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