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xashleex

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Im So Sad :(:(:(:(:(
Posted: 05-17-06 18:41pm

:( I went to the doctore today becuz I was bleeding and spoting n it turned clumpy n then I had this lil sac thing pass out me when I went to the bathroom and I told hte doctor everything n she said it sounds like a miscarrage so they did this ultrasound where they stick a wand up ur vagina to see the baby but when they look they didnt see nethang except the sac but if im 7 weeks there should be sumthing so they said that I should be passing the baby out in the next two adays if im having a misscarage but there is a slim possiblity im not as far a long as I thynk I am and that its to earli to see the baby :s im just so sad I havent stopped crying I was looking forward to having this baby :(
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xashleex

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Posted: 05-17-06 18:56pm

Thank you sandra.....Have u ever gone thru nethang like this or known neone who has I just dont know how to cope widt it :s
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Posted: 05-17-06 19:09pm

Awe hunny.. Good luck with everything.. Hope everything turns out good
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michelle1981

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Posted: 05-17-06 19:22pm

I'm so sorry .Ash! Things like this are out of our control. You could do everything perfect and this could be the end result. Don't blame yourself!

Pm me if you need some help!
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babyblue79

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Ashlee
Posted: 05-17-06 19:32pm

Ashlee, I am so so sorry. I have been through it only 1 month ago. I miscarried on april 3rd and trust me, I still have hard days and cry about it. And there are probably more hard days to come. I was 6 weeks along.

Please pm me, I am here for you to talk to. Trust me, hun, you are not alone in this. Just know that this is all out of your control.

My thoughts and prayers are with you....
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Posted: 05-17-06 20:09pm

Im so sorry : ( if you need to talk im here for you : )
god bless.
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Posted: 05-17-06 20:36pm

Ugh ashlee im so sorry! I love you hun =) im sorry.
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Posted: 05-17-06 20:54pm

I am so sorry for you no one should ever go thru something like that. But hopefully like you said maybe you are not as far as you think could you of been expecting twins??? My second child was a twin I lost one when I was about 6 weeks along. Prayers and hopes to you girl.::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: ::::
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Posted: 05-17-06 23:14pm

**hugs*** i'm so sorry, ashlee. Please take care of yourself, and it's ok to cry.
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Posted: 05-18-06 10:18am

When I first found out I was pregnant I had my dates of my last period confused and they thought I was 6 weeks when I got my first ultrasound I also was bleeding a little and cramping when I got the ultr sound ( it was done at the hospital 3 days after I took the posotive pregnancy test ) they gave me the vaginal ultra sound and the tech said she didnt see anything either. I was so freaked out. They scheduled me for an hcg level count thing the next day because when u are pregnant your hormones double. I did all that and come to find out I was onle 2 and a half 3 weeks and it was just to early to see anything. I got another ultra sound ( vaginal ) at 7 weeks and finally got to see my baby and his little heart jump. I didnt get to hear it but it was such a relif to see that he was still there and so far he was healthy.
Now im 38 weeks and he's finally here almost in my arms !!!
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xashleex

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Posted: 05-18-06 14:22pm

Thnxs everyone :) im feeling a lil better today I have a very good chance I was expecting twins n they thynk now I may have just lost one and still have the other one because im not bleeding as bad as I should be if im misscarring.....So I went n got the hcg level blood test done this morning and ill know the results tommorrow im so nervous I hope im still pregnant but im not getting my hopes up :s when they did the vaginal ultra sound all they saw was a sac thing somaybe im not as far along as I thought I was :s I hope but ill just have to wait ugh I hate waiting lol
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Posted: 05-18-06 14:57pm

I hope all works out for you and I will keep u in prayer !!!
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Posted: 05-18-06 16:48pm

Aww bless u !! Ill keep u in my prayers I no exactly how u feel if u need to talk pm me xx
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Posted: 05-18-06 17:53pm

Good luck .Ash! I hope that is the case :wink:
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Posted: 05-18-06 21:55pm

Let us know how it works out, ash.
You're in everybody's prayers.
<3
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Posted: 05-18-06 22:04pm

Awe, im sorry to hear your having a rough time ash! I hope everything works out for the best. I miscarried in june with twins .. It was a sad sad situation. But it wasent a regular miscarriage. Many things happend .. And it wasent something that a person would normally get. It happens to rarley a mere 1 out of every 100,000 expectant mothers. And sadley, yes I was one of them. The heart ache of loosing them will never go away. But yes you should know there are people around here that will support you and pray with you for the better. I hope everything works out and your still preggy with at least 1 child. 1 is better then none. But honey im so sorry for your lost.

If you ever need to talk juts pm me. Im always around. I also have aim, yahoo, msn if you want to talk there. Best of luck and I will be praying for you. = )

-b
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