Hello guys! I'm new to this forum, and I
really need some help so I thought i'd
come here for advice.. A couple of days
ago (maybe 3-4) a friend of mine came over
(a female friend) and we decided to fool
around. This eventually led to sex, and
I did not wear a condom. However we only
had sex for about 10 minutes (at the most)
and I did not ejaculate in her. I was no
where close. And on top of that, we'd
have sex for about 3 mins and then we'd
switch positions. Afterwards she gave me
a blowjob. She told me she didn't want
me to ejaculate on her face, so I
masturbated and I finally ejaculated (on
her breasts). The next day she took the
morning after pill and is expecting her
period sometime within the next week.
I am totally freaking out, and this is
stressing my life so doing it much (sorry
for the cursing). I am so scared it's
not even funny. Honestly, I cant even
sleep sometimes, and I can feel the damn
stress! I'm only 16, and I do not want
to ruin my life. I know it was stupid
and really ignorant, but it happened.
I'm also concerned about std's. I'v been
stressing over this a lot as well. From
what I know she isn't the type to sleep
with a million guys, however I do not know
for sure. I do not have any cuts on my
penis (not that I can see or know of
anyways) and we didn't have sex for a long
time. I am worrying sooooooo much, I
can't even come to terms with my self
sometimes.
Guys! Pleeeeeeeeease help, and give me
all the advice you can! Am I worrying
over nothing, or do I actually have
something to stress over? Do I have
aids/hiv? Is she pregnant? It would
take such a heavy load of my chest if
everything was ok. So please guys, let
me know what's up!
Thank you in advance,
god bless!
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HcoBrunette06
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Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Posts: 8006 Location: Missouri, United States
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Posted: 05-18-06 22:14pm
First always wear a condom when you're
having sex!!!
We're not doctors, so we have no way of
knowing if shes pregnant, or if you have
any stds. Go to the doctor and get
tested.
I highly doubt shes pregnant if you didn't
cum in her, and if she took the morning
after pill.
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doubtful
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Dec 2005 Posts: 78
Posted: 05-18-06 22:14pm
If she took the morning after pill she
probably won't get pregnant. At least she
was responsible enough to do that. Why
the heck wouldn't you have been
responsible on your part if you were going
to end up freaking out like this now. As
for std's and hiv... Its all very
possible, however you won't know for sure
about any of it for *at least* a couple
weeks. As in symptoms of a std. If your
still freaking out about it all in a month
or so... Go get tested!!!! Thats the
only thing you can do. Ooooh, and
.W.E.A.R. .A. .C.O.N.D.O.M. Next
time....
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C-Maximus
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2006 Posts: 4
Posted: 05-18-06 22:19pm
Thnx guys.. But really I didnt want to
have sex.. She kept asking me/pressuring
me to have sex with her. But thanks!
Really helps....
P.S- are hiv tests 100 % positive always?
And if she does get her period does that
mean that she isn't pregnant 100 %?
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Lil_Mamiita
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2006 Posts: 24 Location: Greenville, SC
Posted: 05-18-06 22:25pm
C o n d o m s
this is what they are made for.. To make
sure you dont get std/hiv.. Any ways.
Its very doubtful that she got preggy.
You dident cum inside of her and as well
you barley had enough time to pre cum
unless she was really tight. Oh well, let
us know how you make out and if you need
any extra help. Just let me know = ) tc
-b
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C-Maximus
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2006 Posts: 4
Posted: 05-18-06 22:28pm
Are hiv tests 100 % positive always? Do
they always tell the truth? And if she
does get her period does that mean that
she isn't pregnant 100 %?
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Lil_Mamiita
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2006 Posts: 24 Location: Greenville, SC
Posted: 05-18-06 22:40pm
Hiv tests are 100 % correct .. Always..
Yes they always tell the truth.. Make
sure you get it from a doctor and not
someone claming they sell at home tests..
When she gets her period, she will be
fine. Im sure she isent preggy. Dont
stress too much bud.. Good luckk..
B
feel free to pm me any time you need help.
Im here to help ya if ya need it.
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Ingi
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Posted: 05-18-06 23:16pm
First off, you didn't need to go quite
into the detail of the *um* act. It
doesn't matter that you came on her face.
We don't really care.
Second of all, there are other things to
be concerned about besides .H.I.V,
you know. Like warts and herpes, these
are just a few of the sexually transmitted
diseases that don't ever go away.
If you are 'man' enough to have sex, then
be man enough to wear a condom. And i'm
not buying that 'forced into it' crap.
If she took the morning after pill, she is
not pregnant. You need to relax. Go to
planned parenthood and get yourself a
handful of rubbers.
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C-Maximus
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2006 Posts: 4
Posted: 05-18-06 23:18pm
Thank you. Much appriciated.. I was
only letting you know about the detail, so
it could be easier for you guys to reply
back to me with the most precise answer.
But sorry. Didn't know...
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Kia
Supporter
Joined: 23 Jun 2004 Posts: 6594 Location: Planet Tampaxia,
Posted: 05-19-06 05:22am
It is considered rude on the internet to
"shout" - ie using all caps or all bold
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Lil_Mamiita
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2006 Posts: 24 Location: Greenville, SC
Posted: 05-20-06 06:13am
Alright guys.
Lets not be rude to the kid,
he came here for answers.
I mean, he came to me and we
talked on messanger. He got the
answers he needed. End of discussion
this board is now done with. Thanks
though for all of your answers in helping
him
but please d.O.N.T jude others.. Please
look
at your own mistakes before judging
others
mistakes.
= )
fht forever!
Lol
-b
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HcoBrunette06
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Joined: 06 Dec 2005 Posts: 8006 Location: Missouri, United States
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Posted: 05-20-06 10:14am
We aren't being rude, just telling him if
hes gonna have sex he needs to be smart
enough to wear some protection!!! K
thanks =)
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Bridget
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Posted: 05-20-06 14:58pm
lil_mamiita
wrote:
you dident cum inside of
her and as well you barley had enough time
to pre cum unless she was really tight.
they had sex for 10 minutes. That's
plenty of time for pre-cum to make an
appearance.
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Bridget
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Posted: 05-20-06 15:01pm
lil_mamiita
wrote:
hiv tests are 100 % correct
.. Always..
now i've never had an hiv test but I
thought you tested and if that came back
negative you were to go back 6 months
later to retest as it could take a while
to show up in your system. I don't know
for sure but I think i'm right.
