I kind of had this flirtation type thing
with this guy and he said he wanted to be
more serious, but I was under too much
stress at the time and couldnt handle a
relationship. We remained friends, and
randomly hooked up some months later. I
then find out he has a new girlfriend he
didnt tell me about, and he blames the
whole hooking up on me, because I would
occasionally call him to hang out. I
really didnt care either way so I just
brushed it off and went on with life. Now
he keeps constantly bringing the whole
thing up with mutual friends. He also
refuses to give me any of the stuff of
mine he has back. I don't even want it
anymore. At first the way he was acting
was really funny, but now that its been
like 8 months its just weird and annoying.
I have gone on completely with my life
and he just keeps saying all this stuff
about me and asking if im making "other
friends choose me over him". I don't even
ever talk about him aside from laughing if
he's brought up? I thought we left drama
like this in highschool. Why would he act
like this?
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beautiful
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Ur Post Posted: 05-18-06 23:55pm
I may be only 17, but I think he still has
feelings for you.Because if he did not why
would he keep bringing you up. And the
reason he wont give back your stuff is
because he is sickly obsested with you and
wants the rememberanse of being with
someone like you...By the way he might
think he is still in high school, but both
oyu and I know that you are not. By the
way how old are you? Never mind... But
yeah he probably still wants you
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kittycat18
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Posted: 05-19-06 00:51am
Hey, I kind of suspected that, and its
sort of freaking me out. We're both 21
and I feel like I am in 6th grade. I
thought about confronting him and asking
if he does still have feels for me, but I
feel like I would come off as really
concieted, or really stupid if I am wrong.
I'm really not sure what to do at this
point. It's getting really old as you can
imagine.
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nish0206
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Posted: 05-19-06 01:05am
Hey kitty...
I can understand how shitty it is...To be
dumped...And be accused of everything.
Well, not all guys are alike. Perhaps you
hurried too much...You should have spent
some more time knwing him better, before
you get into anything serious. That would
have given you enough time to know if he's
just playing around or he's really
serious.
Well...What has happened can't be
changed...And there's no point in crying
over all those things again. You should
find someone to whom you can
share...Someone 'alike'!!! I mean who can
shoulder you even after knwing what has
happened between you two.
Or some other site...And find someone that
fits your personality! Do not hurry into
anything. Start by some online dating
first. When you trust the person
enough...Then you go for the serious
things!!
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kittycat18
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Posted: 05-19-06 01:37am
Hey nish...
Thanks for the advice, I totally
understand what you mean. I think you
kind of misunderstood my question though.
I have started seeing someone else (not
serious though), but this guy seriously
wont stop saying all this stuff about me.
Its almost to the point of harassing, and
it is very, very annoying. I'm trying to
figure out where he is coming from and how
to make him stop. I am really confused as
to why anyone would still be doing this,
many months after the fact
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nish0206
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Posted: 05-19-06 02:26am
Oooops!! Sorry kitty... I got your
point now! Hey...Then it seems
something more serious!! Why don't you
inform the police??
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Ur Post Posted: 05-19-06 11:46am
Inform the police and tell them what you
have told us. Tell them you are feeling
harressed and intimidated, ask them nicely
to please stop. If that does not work
then get a restraining order...
Hope that I have helped
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Ur Post Posted: 05-19-06 11:46am
Inform the police and tell them what you
have told us. Tell them you are feeling
harressed and intimidated, ask them nicely
to please stop. If that does not work
then get a restraining order...
Hope that I have helped
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nish0206
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Posted: 05-22-06 00:07am
You can file a case on him... He's
pestering you constantly, so file a case
of harassment on him!
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