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jaime_elms

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Posted: 05-19-06 08:43am

Hey jus wanted too say???
This was my topc b4 allie_18 got it locked by writting things that I didnt see as they must have got removed, I didnt want any hassel. At all. Wasnt looking for sympathy or anything, jus thought u all had a right know what went on and that I was no longer pregnant, but wanted still be part of the forum. But no I get alot of crap from some girl that leaves her baby with strangers to get pissed and have sex. I will no longer be using the forum, as I feel people on here have no heart or anything, if u do remember me from last time. I was helping sum1 with a question and it all turned on me... I have never posed about my abortion on here, it is on the abortion site, I jus still wanted be apart of the forum, and not get hassel. I am going through a hard time. And dont want any1 to judge me.. If u please do read my other topic that got locked., maybe u will understand why I will not be using the forum now, all take care, x most of u are really lovely people. Xxx
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cherry88

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Posted: 05-19-06 08:49am

Jaime dont go cuz of one girl. People do give two sh!Ts and im one of em. Ignore what one pr!Ck sed. This is a message board for eveyone. Including you.
I pm'd u back btw sorry I took so long I will explain to u if u want.
Wat exactly did she say, and why is it locked?
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diamondsz

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Posted: 05-19-06 08:51am

Hey jamie

i sent you a pm

check it out but like cherry said who cares about a stupid person!
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matthieusmom

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Joined: 06 Feb 2006
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Posted: 05-19-06 08:53am

Like everyone else has said don't go because of allie, she's well i'm just not going to say because she just presses buttons and p*ssess me off. But don't worry bout her that was your decison not hers so don't worry with her.
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cherry88

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Posted: 05-19-06 08:55am

How did allie get it locked????
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Kia

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Posted: 05-19-06 09:02am

Allie was being down right rude and nasty.

It was a big post for jamie and within a couple of posts it had become about allie.

Life doesn't revolve around allie and posts such as jamies shouldn't become about allie.

Now if only everyone would stop replying to allie and giving her the attention she so desperately craves, she'd either back off or at least think before she types.

Now, let's move this post off of allie before this becomes bitchfest too!
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cherry88

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Posted: 05-19-06 09:07am

Yes of corse.....People feed off things like that so lets not give her whats she wants.
Jaime how are you doing babe?
Hope ur holding your head up high like u should :)
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matthieusmom

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Posted: 05-19-06 09:19am

I read on the other forum and was wondering did u ever get your necklace? It sounded like a very sweet idea and loved the name. I was also wondering how you was doing and if you are getting better, atleast a lil better. Oh and one more thing I don't know much and don't know why u had one but I was wondering why u done it?
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Melissa_20

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Posted: 05-19-06 09:41am

Screw her jaime! We want you to stay.You have never caused any trouble and you are nice to talk with.Dont leave because of her. Anywho,i still love you and will be supportive! X0x0x0x0x0x
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jaime_elms

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Posted: 05-19-06 09:56am

I get it on thursday as needs to get engraved!!Well I may get judged again,, but at first I wanted my baby, and then my bf didnt and he wanted go uni and holidays and we couldnt afford a baby, and I was so depressed at the time, it wasnt the babys fault, but everything was going wrong. And I felt like I had to have the abortion, and I wated 6-7weeks for it, as I asked when I was 10weeks about abortion, and took this long to have it, it wasnt pleasent at all. And I know ppl on here said dont do it, but if I had kept that baby, it would have had a crap life. No dad, and jus me trying to provide, I wish I could have been stronger I really wish I could have been. I went through so much last thursday my bf was there he was lovely!! Me and him both wish things could have been diffrent, I didnt ever say I wouldnt regret it, I always said yes I will regret it. Jus some people will never know what I had go through, as it was proper labour I was going through. I admmit to allie_18 yes maybe I am a homicide, but at least I will never be a bad mum. And leave my baby with strangers, I had good intentions, and would have and will make a wonderfull mum when the time is right, if u want to read all that happend its in the abortion forum hun xxx thanx for your post xxx
matthieusmom wrote:
i read on the other forum and was wondering did u ever get your necklace? It sounded like a very sweet idea and loved the name. I was also wondering how you was doing and if you are getting better, atleast a lil better. Oh and one more thing I don't know much and don't know why u had one but I was wondering why u done it?
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HcoBrunette06

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Posted: 05-19-06 10:11am

Well, back before you had the abortion I definitely did not agree with you. I thought you were just doing it because your boyfriend didn't want a baby, and because you weren't being responsible.

I still don't agree with abortion, but in a way I can see where you're coming from. What's done is done and i'm not going to be a b*tch about it because there's nothing I can say now to change your mind.

Just hope things get better, and screw allie.


Btw why can't she just get banned? I know they can just make up new user names but they have to keep making up new e mails if they do that and maybe after a while they'll get tired of going through that whooooole process of making new e mails and then making new names and then activating their account and blah blah blah.
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Melissa_20

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Posted: 05-19-06 10:25am

Apperantly she doesn't care cause even though noon ehere likes her she keeps posting. . .
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jaime_elms

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Posted: 05-19-06 11:17am

I know u didnt agree, and I dont agree either!! With abortion. But I did it, and whats done is done, and I regret it always new I would, but now I can move on, if u new jus how much trouble went on with me, you would see why I did it. I didnt have house, money,car, I have debt and crap. N I would have been alone. Jus aint right. But if I could turn bk I would. Thanx all ur help and advice anyways, as too allie, I dont care what she has to say, cause I can say worse. She one leaves 10day old with sitter and dosnt keep phone on, and dosnt know the sitter. Jus so she can get drunk n have sex and more kids. Oh and the drugs too. She cant judge me
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Melissa_20

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Posted: 05-19-06 12:16pm

She's just bitter
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HcoBrunette06

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Posted: 05-20-06 17:48pm

Do you know how much of a retard you make yourself look when you post on here hahaha I love it =)
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jaime_elms

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Posted: 05-22-06 07:14am

Excuse me !! What do u mean by that! What cause I had abortion, and still use the forum, that makes me a retard??? Or cause allie always makes nasty coments, maybe u should read the other thred b4 commenting! I havent done anything wrong, except do something that would have affected the rest my life, and thats my decission n that makes me a retard???? Maybe
hcobrunette06 wrote:
do you know how much of a retard you make yourself look when you post on here hahaha I love it =)
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DylanJacob

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Posted: 05-22-06 07:28am

I think abortion is necessary sometimes - only if there is a good reason, but so far I can't see one with you... From all that you have said, past and present.

That said, I think, as always, .Allie was out of order.
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jaime_elms

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Posted: 05-22-06 07:32am

I had abortion, theses reasons
1. I didnt want baby
2. I couldnt afford it
3. Baby wouldnt had dad
4. I wanted go uni
5. Wanted travel world
6. I was on the pill
7. I wasnt ready be a mum
8. I do regret it, but there is relif there now.
9. I know I couldnt manage alone, at all. And I want be married have great house, b4 I have a baby.
10. Jus wasnt ready.

I dont wanna be judged as I was saying hello to every1 that was all. As I have had bad 6weeks.
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DylanJacob

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Posted: 05-22-06 07:37am

Ok - I understand more now, thank you - it's just been a pretty confusing topic to follow...

Hugs, I hope it gets better
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DylanJacob

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Posted: 05-22-06 07:38am

Pm me if you want - I lost my son too, not through abortion - he was a preemie, but I guess at the end of the day it's the same thing.
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