Well mike and I broke up a while back but
are still living together. I decided to
look for a new place for trey and I even
though where I am now is my house. But I
hate my landlord and the neighbour stinks
and there is wall to wall carpetting and
trey has "baby asthma" anyway I went and
saw a place right around the corner from
where I live cause I want to stay in that
neighbourhood for various reasons. Well
surprisingly enough out of 6 applicants I
got the place. She called me last night
to tell me and I have till 4 today to
decide what i'm gonna do. The major
downfall for me is it's a heck of a lot
smaller than my current place. I think
i'm gonna take it cause price and location
is perfect and I can always have a garage
sale and keep stuff ion storage right?
I'm sick with nervouseness at being a real
single mom (i kind of feel like one
now-but I still get help from mike once in
a while)
aghhhhh I just don't know what to do.
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Ingi
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Posted: 05-19-06 12:10pm
Wow! How exciting/nerve wracking that
must be. Good luck with your decision.
Being a single mom is hard, but living
with your ex cannot be easy either.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 05-19-06 13:21pm
If you're not far you'll still be able to
get help from him once in a while if you
need it. And don't worry about the
stuff, you can do just what you said,
decide what pieces to keep, have a garage
sale with the pieces you don't want (plus
the extra cash will help with the expense
of moving) and store whatever you don't
have room for!!! You've given me so
much good advice that I know you've got
the brains and determination that it takes
to come out ahead. You'll be super!!
Plus you even said it yourself, you were
pretty much already a single mom.
I had kicked my hubby out for a while and
trust me, you never miss the dirty laundry
and dishes. Or the immaturity of the
male species. Now that my hubby is
back, I kind of wish he was gone again cuz
I miss having the house all to myself
:lol:
good luck with whatever you decide to
do...
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 05-19-06 14:25pm
I took the place. I'm going to sign the
lease tonight! I feel a big weight has
been lifted off.
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sandyallen
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Lil_blaze2004 Posted: 05-19-06 17:40pm
Congratulations!!!! I am happy, if you
are happy! It is just kind of sad
because I remember you said that you liked
that place soo well at one time but
sometimes we must do what we must do but
like someone else said, you have a good
brain in your head, I am sure you will do
fine, it will probably be a little scary
at 1st and being so close to him but their
are pluses along with the minuses that go
with that!
The best to you and .Trey
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 05-19-06 19:46pm
Ya the addy is 3 (for trey -lol) so it
must be meant to be. I signed tonight
and it's not as small as I first thought,
just really crowded with crap and painted
some nasty colors! Lol
