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advicegirl2005
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I Need Some Advice?!
Posted: 05-20-06 11:40am
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Hiya.
I need some advice about me and my
boyfriend. Me and him had sex sunday 14th
and we didnt use anything. We did it a
few times during the night. I was on bcp
pills but I stopped them about 2/3 weeks
ago. Because they were messing around
with my periods. Well recently ive been
bleeding, quite heavy too. Its not my
period because I had that about a week
ago. I have been having it for about 2
days now and its really red and loads of
it. I have had a few clots but im not
worrying about them at the moment. I just
want to know is there a change I could be
pregnant? I know its early too tell and I
have done a test and it came back
negative.
Me and my boyfriend arent talking at the
moment because we keep arguing over that
night and he cheated on me while I was
seeing him. We have been going out for
about 4/5 months now and we didnt plan on
sleeping together, it just happend.
Is there anything I should do, keep away
from etc? Im new to all this so im pretty
nervous. Im 18 and my boyfriend is nearly
21.
Please reply and I appreciate the reply.
Thanks
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Ingi
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Posted: 05-20-06 13:56pm
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First off, you should always wear condom
during sex - especially if your boyfriend
is not faithful to you! Second, you
should go to the doctor. More than likely
the hormones from the birth control are
affecting your system still and causing
you to bleed. However, it could be
something else. Go see a doctor.
Just some advice: if your boyfriend isn't
faithful, why are you with him?
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advicegirl2005
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Posted: 05-20-06 14:06pm
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Thanks for your replies both of you. Can
I get pregnant in a week though? Because
it's only been a week. I know I should of
never quit my pills but I forgot to take
them and now I have lost them.
I have a doctors appt on monday so going
to see my doctor then.
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x0 prettyNpink
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Posted: 05-20-06 15:00pm
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Im pretty sure its unlikely to get
pregnant a week after getting of the
b-control pill ,yet every woman is
different. Its possible when you abruptly
got of the pill it messed with your system
( wich the pills do because its hormones )
and is making you bleed , then again it
could be a miscariage and you could have
been pregnant ,but I think it would have
been the very early stages of a pregnancy
so a test would not be able to detect a
pregnancy just yet. Second, I would not
stay with your boyfriend if he cheats on
you, you dont deserve that. Always use a
condom and also stay on your b-control so
you dont get a std or anything like that.
Good luck @ your doctors app. Hope
everything works out for the best : )
hope this helped a little.
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advicegirl2005
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Posted: 05-20-06 15:41pm
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Hey.
Thanks for the reply prettypink. My
bleeding is slowing down now thankfully.
I've split up with my boyfriend. So dont
need to worry about him anymore and if I
am pregnant i'm going to keep the baby and
not let him see it.
I think it's unlikely I am pregnant at the
moment because it's only been a week
nearly and you can't get pregnant in a
week because of everything that needs to
happen. But I will do a test in a few
weeks if I feel strange or anything.
Thanks again for your reply. X
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xashleex
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Posted: 05-20-06 16:12pm
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Im glad u split widt ur b/f u can get
better:) and good luck with the testing :)
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rinsha
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Posted: 05-21-06 16:16pm
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One of my friends was on the pill and she
would have sex and a couple days later
start bleeding but it wasn't her period.
She went to the doctor because she was
young and didn't want her parents to find
out. The doctor told her you can have
that happen sometimes but I would go to
the doctor just to be safe. And if this
guy really cared about you he would not
have cheated on you. Good luck and I hope
he doesn't try to come back or you try to
take him back obviously he isn't anything
good for you. Good luck!
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advicegirl2005
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Posted: 05-21-06 17:20pm
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Thanks for your replies. Is it ok to test
now? I have a hpt with me now and
wondering if it's ok to test?
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rinsha
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Posted: 05-21-06 17:27pm
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Go for it, if anything you can buy another
one. I have got tested a couple of times
and usually I buy atleast two or three
just to make sure because they aren't
always accurate. Good luck best wishes!!!
:d
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x0 prettyNpink
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Posted: 05-21-06 17:31pm
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Im glad to here you split with you
boyfriend. You dont deserve to be treated
like that. Im glad the bleeding slowed
down. Birth control plays around with
your hormones. As for the pregnancy test,
when should you be expecting your period?
It might not be accurate if you test to
many days before your period. Good luck !
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advicegirl2005
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Posted: 05-21-06 17:44pm
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Hey.
Thanks for replies u 2
i don't know when my period is due. I
last had it 5th may so I suppose the 2nd
june. Im still bleeding a bit but not
much. Should I test or not? Ive done 2
tests already but its bugging me now.
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Ingi
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Posted: 05-21-06 18:53pm
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No. To test now would be a waste. Wait
until your period is late!
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advicegirl2005
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Posted: 05-23-06 16:14pm
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Hey.
Just to update you. I have stopped
bleeding but I have a lot of discharge. I
haven't done anymore tests yet. Whens the
best time to test now?
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Ingi
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Posted: 05-23-06 16:22pm
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It doesn't sound like you are pregnant at
all.
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rinsha
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Posted: 05-23-06 16:23pm
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Wait until the a couple of days right
before your period is suppose to start.
Like 2-4 days before depending which test
you have just read the insturctions and it
should say how many days.
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advicegirl2005
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Posted: 05-23-06 16:55pm
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I'm due the 2nd of june. I really hope it
comes soon coz I really wanna know.
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Ingi
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Posted: 05-23-06 16:57pm
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I thought you said you were bleeding and
you have had a period since you had sex
last...
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advicegirl2005
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Posted: 05-23-06 17:00pm
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Nope I never said that. I said I was
bleeding but wasnt my period. I had my
period the 5th may. I had sex the 14th
may!
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Ingi
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Posted: 05-23-06 17:01pm
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Right. Well then. Good luck.
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advicegirl2005
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Posted: 05-24-06 17:12pm
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Hey.
How are you all? Im ok except I have
started to feel very sick. It started
last night and im ok at the moment but
dont feel good. I have been having loads
of discharge and weeing. I think its to
early but what's going on? Are these
signs or am I being paraniod?
Reply asap if you can. Thanks xx
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