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LALBINO
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2006
Posts: 4
Location: UPSTATE NEW YORK
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I Want It Allthe Time And He Does Not!!!!! Its Frustrating
Posted: 05-22-06 18:28pm
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What else can I do to sastify myself and
mate when it comes to sex. I have been
with my man for 7 years, have two kids and
yet our love life sucks... How can I
spice things up without him getting
offended or feeling insecure.. I am the
one who usually ask for sex and he
denies...Most of the time.. He is always
tired or he has to set a time /date..I
feel like the man in the relationship...Is
this normal?????
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doubtful
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Dec 2005
Posts: 78
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Posted: 05-22-06 18:32pm
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Im assuming you meant why can't you get an
orgasm with your boyfriend.... In that
case your probably just tired of the same
old routine with him... Try something
new.... Role-playing... Blind-folded...
Toys... Make it an adventure, like your
trying to get to know him all over again.
The same thing over and over again can get
boring no matter who your with.
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awkwarddepressed
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Mar 2006
Posts: 70
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Sex?
Posted: 05-23-06 13:54pm
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I can relate. Im a guy and ive been with
my gf for close to 4 months now. In the
beginning she was the aggressor and wed
have sex multiple times a night and again
in the morning. Slowly I became the
aggressor. Lately, however, she tells me
we are gonna have sex and shes gonna give
me some and its gonna be crazy and all
that and then she lays down and falls
asleep. Then in the morning before work
we have a quickie. It kinda sucks. I
hate being rushed and having alarm clocks
ringing every 5 minutes. I really hope
shes ligitimately tired and not bored to
death with me. She tells me its not the
latter. Its kinda frustrating. The thing
that bothers me is that shes all horny in
the middle of the day when we cant have
sex, and then when we can have sex its
bedtime.
My other problem is that when I go away
with my friends for an extended weekend
next month im concerned that she is gonna
end up going out with her friends, getting
drunk and hooking up with someone else. I
know I shouldnt think this, but weve been
together pretty much every night since
weve met and this will be the first time
in a long time that we wont be sleeping in
the same bed. Any ideas on how to
discuss this issue with her without coming
off as an fool?
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LALBINO
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2006
Posts: 4
Location: UPSTATE NEW YORK
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Still Not Getting Any....sex... If You Know What I Mean!!!!!
Posted: 05-23-06 20:18pm
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I dont know what to do anymore.. I think
I am a pretty attractive women . Well
other guys seem to do so, but why is it
that my own hubby makes me feel unwanted
and undesirable.. Shot!!!! Im tired of
been the only one wanting a piece of
action every night. He could settle for
once a month..What kind of relationship is
that.. I tried almost everything, but
he seems to just like the same old
routine..I wish there was a way were I can
tell him that im tired of feeling like the
horny, wanna make love every night type of
gal..It never use to be that way...Well
after we had our 1st child!! After that
it all went down hill. Its starting to
feel funny when we do have sex because it
feels like a stranger..Help........
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rinsha
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Joined: 17 May 2006
Posts: 305
Location: Alabama
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Re: I Want It Allthe Time And He Does Not!!!!! Its Frustrati
Posted: 05-23-06 20:45pm
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| lalbino
wrote: | | what else can I do to
sastify myself and mate when it comes to
sex. I have been with my man for 7
years, have two kids and yet our love life
sucks... How can I spice things up
without him getting offended or feeling
insecure.. I am the one who usually ask
for sex and he denies...Most of the time..
He is always tired or he has to set a
time /date..I feel like the man in the
relationship...Is this
normal????? |
well I will tell you what my aunt did, she
crushed up viagra and put it in my uncle's
tea he never knew but he got horny as
hell. She did it everytime she felt like
she wanted sex. She would get the pill
sometimes two and when she was fixing
dinner and he wasn't paying attention
crush them up and stir them in his drink
really good. About two hours later they
were in the bedroom getting it own.
No lie I am serious :lol:
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fiona05
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Joined: 21 Dec 2005
Posts: 662
Location: , Norn Iron
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Re: I Want It Allthe Time And He Does Not!!!!! Its Frustrati
Posted: 05-24-06 14:59pm
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| rinsha
wrote: |
well I will tell you what my aunt did, she
crushed up viagra and put it in my uncle's
tea he never knew but he got horny as
hell. She did it everytime she felt like
she wanted sex. She would get the pill
sometimes two and when she was fixing
dinner and he wasn't paying attention
crush them up and stir them in his drink
really good. About two hours later they
were in the bedroom getting it own.
No lie I am serious
:lol: |
lol as much as I find this kinda funny,
you have to be careful cos viagra can and
.D.O.E.S have side effects in a lot of
cases, and this doens't really help
matters in the long run. Lol. Umm...
Though maybe you could try it just the
once and put on some kinky stockings and
suspenders and do it really wild to make
him realise what he's been missing(!)
maybe the guy has issues with libido
levels. How is his general health, diet,
and stress levels?
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radhabarwali
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Nov 2005
Posts: 6
Location: India
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Me & My Daughters Get Satisfied When We Serve 20 Men Dai
Posted: 06-30-06 01:52am
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My daughters love sex & enjoy 20/25
partners per day.
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Sarah020406
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Joined: 11 Jun 2006
Posts: 86
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Posted: 06-30-06 02:05am
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I can completely sympathise with you on
this - I have exactly the same problem
with my husband, i'm just about gagging
for it every night while he is too
tired/got a headache etc. If you come
across any ideas please let me know :-)
maybe we just need to tell them outright
how bad it is sounds a bit nasty but there
ain't many options left. Although the
viagra does sound like fun :-) prob not a
good idea though :-)
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mrsjones
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Joined: 30 Jun 2006
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Posted: 07-01-06 05:02am
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I'd try everything I could first. Meet
him at the door when he comes home with
nothing on, new fancy underwear, being
very spontaneous and just being forceful.
There's no way he could say no!
However, if he does, maybe you need a sit
down and a nice loooong talk as to why?
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Spook
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Joined: 16 Jul 2006
Posts: 7
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Posted: 07-16-06 15:30pm
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That sounds like a bit of a problem. I
suggest spending the day together. Drop
the kids off round an aunts or something
for the weekend and taking a nice relaxing
day with just the two of you. Spend it
doing what you two want to do as a couple,
romantic sounds ideal. Perhaps without
the added stress of the children he;ll be
more up for it, literally :)
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hemostatic_electricity
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Joined: 20 Feb 2006
Posts: 40
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Posted: 07-17-06 10:50am
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I don't care how tired a man is, if you
grab his penis and put in your mouth he
won't say no.
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hjones
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Joined: 25 Aug 2006
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Location: Fruita, Co
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Posted: 08-26-06 11:03am
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I have the same problem with my husband, I
could have sex everyday multiple times a
day but he is satisfied with once every
two weeks. He tells me that it helps if
i'm not interested so that he has to work
for it a little bit. I can sometimes get
him in the mood if I scratch/massage his
inner thighs or start giving him a blow
job.
Good luck
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jeannine_29
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jul 2006
Posts: 117
Location: Granite Bay, CA
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Sex
Posted: 08-26-06 12:02pm
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I am in the same boat as well!! I have
been with my fiance for 5 1/2 years.
When we first started having sex it was
like rabbits! Now we are down to 1 time
every 2 weeks! It really, really sucks!
I am always in the mood and he is never
in the mood. He says its because the
kids are always around, but even when they
are asleep I try and he basically refuses.
Ive tried everything too! I feel for
all of you, I really do! Good luck.
Jeannine
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Vosdos
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Sep 2006
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Posted: 09-02-06 06:12am
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May be he has problems with sex health and
tries to hide it. He needs your help,
caress and endearment. Don't be
assertive. Increasing desire drugs are
helpful in your situation: think about
extagen or smth like that. It has highly
helped to restore sex relations in our
family.
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singledad
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 19 Aug 2006
Posts: 86
Location: New Mexico
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Posted: 09-03-06 10:52am
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True, trying too hard, or high
expectations can cause performance anxiety
in men - have you tried reverse
psychology?
Dress provocatively, then tell him he
can't have it. He may just have a low
libido, it happens, and working a lot
really does leave you tired and less horny
- sex is mostly in the head.
Help him change gears after work, let him
relax a while, take a shower, shed some
stress, don't bring up sex for a while,
you can masturbate to relieve your own
frustration.
Also, have him try zinc supplements.
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