Joined: 22 May 2006 Posts: 22 Location: hoffman estates
I Got a Real Problem On My Hands!!! Posted: 05-24-06 14:43pm
Well im 16 and im about to be 17 aug 25
and well I lost my virginity on march 3rd
of 2006 and this is where I need your help
and your opinons well me and the person I
lost my virginity to didnt work out! And
the process I find someone and I had sex
with them!!! Its turns out that was all
they wanted!!! So me and that person is
no longer speaking! Now im with a long
time friend that i've always liked and had
the biggest crush on! We mad it offical
about 3 weeks ago!!! The sad part is I
cheated on him with one of my first love
friends!!! And well the condom broke!
When I was this guy!!! I dont want to be
with the other guys that had sex with but!
I do want to be with the guy im with now!
But he always says to me I hope your not
cheating on me which might be the reason
why I did it! But im afraid I cant hold
the secret in for long! Im on birth
control i've been takeing it for two
months now! And im down to my last week
and my 2nd month pack!!! Is there a
chance I could be pregant because the
condom did break when I cheated on my
boyfriend!!! And whats really brothering
me is I wouldnt really be 100% who the
baby daddy could be!!! What to do!!!
Please I really need someone to talk to
and to give me their best advice!
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rinsha
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2006 Posts: 305 Location: Alabama
Posted: 05-24-06 15:20pm
How about take a pregnancy test or go to
the doctor. Usually if you are on the
pill you won't get pregnant. But, are you
on any medications like antibitotics or
anything? Depends on what type of condom
it was? If it was a spermicide condom
then you should be okay. If not then I
don't know. If your on birthcontrol why
are you so worried? Just get a pregnancy
test or go to the doctor or local clinic.
Its confidential either way. If you care
about the guy why would you cheat on him
to begin with? He maybe questioning you
because you are probably acting
suspicious.
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Carifairy
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2005 Posts: 2610 Location: Charlotte n.c.
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Posted: 05-24-06 15:23pm
If you are on birth control then you are
quite reasonably protected against
pregnancy, std's are what you gotta watch
out for.
The main advice I can give you is to make
sure you are making good sexual decisions,
because men do tend to want sex at that
age..And honestly, many do not care who it
is with..
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PRETTYBABY07
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 May 2006 Posts: 22 Location: hoffman estates
Posted: 05-24-06 15:25pm
rinsha
wrote:
how about take a pregnancy
test or go to the doctor. Usually if you
are on the pill you won't get pregnant.
But, are you on any medications like
antibitotics or anything? Depends on
what type of condom it was? If it was a
spermicide condom then you should be okay.
If not then I don't know. If your on
birthcontrol why are you so worried?
Just get a pregnancy test or go to the
doctor or local clinic. Its confidential
either way. If you care about the guy
why would you cheat on him to begin with?
He maybe questioning you because you are
probably acting
suspicious.
I understand! But
things happen and these are one of the
things! That I need advice on! Not to be
judge! But thanks for your advice though!
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rinsha
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 May 2006 Posts: 305 Location: Alabama
Posted: 05-24-06 15:38pm
I wasn't trying to judge you hun, I was
asking you some questions sorry if I made
you feel that way.Like I said if your on
birthcontrol you probably don't have
anything to worry about. And do you know
what type of condom did he use or do you
know? Because if it was a spermicide
condom a burst then it should have killed
the sperm. Was just trying to help sorry
:(
you can also take a hpt or go to the
doctor or local clinic to get tested and
its confidential.
