Ok so heres the deal...This august will be
three years for my boyfriend and i. We
got off to a great start and it was the
best. Lately he has been sayin that he
isnt sure if he loves me or not. The
thing is he has talked to this guy who
said that he went with this girl for 4
years and then found out he didnt love her
which I believe he had to if he stayed
with her for that long but anyways last
night he said he wasnt happy and that if
things didnt change that it was going to
be over. I really think we have a future
together and I want to work on it. We
dont fight that much its just over little
things. He said what bother his the most
is that I bother him and that I agg stuff
on. I know I could work on these and im
willing to but what should I do. What do
I need to tell him? I really love him and
thats why im willing to work through this
and I just hope he feels the same way. He
talked about it last night but when I
brought it up today it was like he didnt
want to hear about it and he says he isnt
happy but all day today he was really
happy when he was with me. Its like hes
saying one thing but acting something
different! Please help me!
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advicegirl2005
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 May 2006 Posts: 33 Location: England
Posted: 05-24-06 17:40pm
Hey.
It sounds to me that your boyfriend has
issuses. I think you should talk to him
about how you feel and ask him how he
feels and work it out. I would ask him
too what bothers him and what he wants out
of the future. Ask him can he see you and
him together in the future, having kids,
getting married etc. If he says no then I
think it would be over for you, im sorry
but if he cant see you two together in the
future then theres not a lot of hope. Im
sorry to say but that's how I see it. But
you really need to talk to each other and
get everything out in the open and talk
about everything. I wish you luck and
tell me how it goes. I hope you both work
it out. How old are you btw?
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Sarah89
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Jun 2005 Posts: 106 Location: florida
Posted: 05-24-06 19:31pm
Im 22 and he says he wants it to work out
and that he can see us together in the
future if somethings change. Im just so
worried that I might lose him and I dont
want to. I just really need to try to get
my mind off of it and stay occupied.
