I have been with this guy for five months
now and he never calls me or comes over
unless I call him and he is not there and
the only way I see him is if I go over to
his job and at that I have to ask first...
He said that he would never cheat and if
he wanted to not be with me he would tell
me and we would call it off... But the
thing is that because I feel like I am
loosing him is it really gonna happen???
He previously told me that if I keep
feeling like this it will push him away, I
dont want this to happen but I cant help
to feel the way I feel!!!
I am only 17 an need major help!!!
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Kittykatus
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Oct 2005 Posts: 89 Location: United Kingdom
Posted: 05-26-06 10:47am
*hugs*
oh hunni, to be honest if you do feel
this, you mentally let it drive you then
it rubs off on other people, mores to the
point, your boyfriend. It is hard to
erase worries, but it's best to just chill
the thought and talk casually to your b/f
about it. If he didn't listen and
shrugged it off, he's not worth it.
Sometimes, the opposing partner don't see
the other's thoughts and feelings they way
you do. It's individualism (if that's a
word!! Hee hee!)
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beautiful
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2006 Posts: 146 Location: stockton
Posted: 05-26-06 11:57am
Thank you and I talk to him about it and
he tells me not to worry about it and that
he aint gonna leave me and them just
forgets about it, at that time I forget it
to but the thought is always there. I
know I should not worry about it but it
(the thought) is always there with me...
Any idea
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beautiful
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2006 Posts: 146 Location: stockton
Posted: 05-26-06 11:59am
Thank you and I talk to him about it and
he tells me not to worry about it and that
he aint gonna leave me and them just
forgets about it, at that time I forget it
to but the thought is always there. I
know I should not worry about it but it
(the thought) is always there with me...
Any idea
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Kittykatus
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Oct 2005 Posts: 89 Location: United Kingdom
the Wonder of Thought Posted: 05-26-06 17:51pm
I guess your so conscious of it so much
that it is ruling you. I can't say
'forget it' when it has implanted in
you.
Find something to occupy you, though.
Somethign that relaxes you. And make it
seem that you aren't bothered much
anymore, so that he runs after you. You
have you life and yourself to think about
hun.
Xx
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beautiful
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2006 Posts: 146 Location: stockton
Posted: 05-26-06 23:42pm
Thank you so much
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stacydoll5
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Jul 2006 Posts: 2 Location: az
Re: Am I Loosing Him??? Posted: 07-23-06 22:16pm
beautiful
wrote:
i have been with this guy
for five months now and he never calls me
or comes over unless I call him and he is
not there and the only way I see him is if
I go over to his job and at that I have to
ask first... He said that he would never
cheat and if he wanted to not be with me
he would tell me and we would call it
off... But the thing is that because I
feel like I am loosing him is it really
gonna happen??? He previously told me
that if I keep feeling like this it will
push him away, I dont want this to happen
but I cant help to feel the way I feel!!!
I am only 17 an need major
help!!!
hey hang in thier sometimes guys just want
a little space to think about things dont
push him. Dont let the I am loosing him
cloud your head if he is a good guy and he
sounds like one he wont hurt you or cheat
or cheat on you he probley is stressed
about work or something else is bothing he
well come and talk to you when the time is
right hang in thier .
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beautiful
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2006 Posts: 146 Location: stockton
Posted: 07-26-06 20:49pm
Thank you everybody I have now gotton over
that and am now almost three months prego
with his baby.
And everything could not have gotten
better
