arcadia
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Posted: 05-26-06 03:57am
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So .I don't really know where to start. I
told my older cousin tonite that .I was
pregnant. She's the closest thing .I've
got to an older sister, &she had a son
when she was 22.. I suspected she might
be a little upset, but she nailed me to a
cross &lit it on fire. I don't know
what to think. For the first time since
.I found out .I was pregnant, .I'm
terrified. I am so scared. What if she's
right? What if .I'm not ready?
What if .I can't do this? I don't know
what to do, you guys. I'm freaking out.
I thought .I wanted this more than
anything.. Arrrrggghhhh. I don't know
what to do. I can't sleep, &.I have a
job interview tomorrow at noon, &it's
4am.
I feel so alone &confused.
:(
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snowygirl
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Hi Arcadia
Posted: 05-26-06 04:27am
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Aww dont worry its normal to be scared. I
felt kind of the same way when I first
found out I was preggy. Im sure u will be
a good mother :) have confidence in urself
that u can do it and im sure u will be
fine. Do u have support of family and
friends or ur bf? I hope ur interview
goes well tomorrow!
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-26-06 07:42am
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Forget about what she said,its what you want
not what she thinks.Just remember how you
felt before you talked to her and how you
were so happy to be a mother to be.You
will be fine and you will work through
it.Its not all bad,wait until you see
thaat baby smile at you and you'll know it
was all worth it!
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Lalee
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Posted: 05-26-06 09:22am
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Seriously, when I found out I was
pregnant, I bawled in the hallway for a
good 20 minutes. Not because I didn't
want the baby, but because I was
terrified. I'm still terrified, lol, but
i'm handling it a lot better and i'm more
excited than anything.
If you're happy (and you deserve to be),
then be happy. She doesn't have any right
to steal those good feelings away from
you, and what exactly does she hope to
accomplish by saying all those things to
you? It's stupid. Don't let people scare
you; millions of women have gone through
this before you, and millions will go
through it after you - and a lot of them
will be more ill-equipped to raise a
child, but they'll do it anyway. And do
it well. You seem like a very caring
person, and I have faith in you.
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 05-26-06 09:47am
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Ya, I think it's a normal reaction to be
scared no matter how much trying and
planning (or no trying an dno
planning-lol) go into making the baby. I
wanted one so bad but freaked out when I
found out I wasn preggers. It is
overwhelming at first and so are the first
few months of parenthood, but you adjust
along with everyone else. Don't worry and
best of luck!!
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-26-06 11:28am
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Good luck hun im sure you'll do great :)
just keep your head up, she'll change her
mind too.
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arcadia
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Posted: 05-26-06 12:02pm
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Thanks, guys. Seriously.
I'm feeling better. A little.
I'm just upset. She has so little faith
in me. She said "you're not going to be
able to do it." oh, well thanks! That
gives me hope for my future!
*sigh*
.My interview got moved to 2:30, &its
12:10, so .I've got to finish getting
ready.
I think morning sickness is going to kick
in, soon. I've been feeling nauseous on
&off since yesterday afternoon.
Love ya, ladies.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-26-06 12:09pm
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I think u need to sit her down and talk to
her about why she said all those things,
what she said was completely uncalled for.
And the talk is bound to make you two
feel better about the situation.
Good luck at your interview :) hope you
get to feeling better.
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arcadia
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Posted: 05-26-06 12:32pm
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L.O.L. Sandra!
I should've! But .I didn't. I just got
mad. Then sad. Then cried. Lol.
She told me all .I have is a cluster of
cells right now &to go take the
medical abortion pill.
what.
Baaahhh. I don't know why .I'm letting
her get to me like this.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-26-06 12:38pm
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| arcadia
wrote: | l.O.L. Sandra!
I should've! But .I didn't. I just got
mad. Then sad. Then cried. Lol.
She told me all .I have is a cluster of
cells right now &to go take the
medical abortion pill.
what.
Baaahhh. I don't know why .I'm letting
her get to me like
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you should have said "oh yeah b*tch,well
that cluster is my baby you cow" I don't
know,i'm a dork,lol
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arcadia
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Posted: 05-26-06 17:16pm
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*giggles*
.Sandra .I bet we were soulmates in a
juvenille deliquincy center in a past
life.
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arcadia
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Posted: 05-26-06 21:17pm
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Hell yeah! I am so down. Peoria is only
about an hour &a half drive from here.
Supa' easy.
Chris just took me out for dinner at a
chinese buffet. It was great until
towards the end.. Men really don't
say the right things sometimes. Oy. Lol.
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arcadia
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Posted: 05-26-06 21:50pm
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When we broke up the last time [last
.November] it was because .I broke up with
him because .I knew .I was being an
absolute terror. I was an awful
girlfriend. So I broke up with him
because .I knew .I didn't deserve him the
way .I was acting. Like, seriously, .I
used to be the biggest b-tch in the world.
He knows it, &.I know it. He
knows .I suffered for it, too. A lot.
I hated myself. Well at dinner,
we were talking, &he brought up about
how all his friends used to hate me
because .I was so awful. I said ".I
know. I'm sorry.." .So he replies
with, "well.. Yeah. For some things
in the past you really should be sorry."
&.Just stared at me. Maybe it's the
hormones but that didn't seem like a very
nice to thing to say when we were out on a
nice dinner date &he knows that .I
regret everything in the past &that .I
really suffered for it. I donno. He
just keeps bringing up all my past
mistakes &faults. It's kind of a
downer. It just makes me sad or
something. My hormones are raging!
:p
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-26-06 22:30pm
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Oh my freaking god I would have sat right
there and started crying! Lol that sounds
horrible =(
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arcadia
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Posted: 05-26-06 22:48pm
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Lol, .I know! I just sat there
&looked at him blankly &then .I
was like "yeah.... Can we leave, please?"
.I was pretty upset. *grumbles* stupid
hormones.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 05-26-06 23:05pm
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Lol well maybe it was hormones too but I
think it was rude to say something like
that! But I hope you had a great rest of
the night.
Is he excited about the baby coming? I'm
sure he is
i just don't know your "story" other than
the whole text messaging thing lol
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arcadia
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Posted: 05-26-06 23:16pm
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What about text messaging? Lol.
Yeah he's excited about it.
But really scared.
So am .I the more .I think about it.
I'm on the verge of internal panicking
right now.
But .I'm just sitting here calmly watching
.Jay .Leno.
Bah.
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arcadia
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Posted: 05-26-06 23:29pm
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I wanted to tell him off so bad. But .I
was way too exhausted.
That's exactly what .I wanted to say.
Like, yeah, hello? I know .I messed up.
That's the past. I've changed. You know
that.
So stop talking about before.
Sheesh.
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arcadia
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Posted: 05-26-06 23:36pm
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I don't think he means to do it.
He never means to say hurtful things.
He's not good with words. At all. Lol.
I'm going to talk to him about it when we
get into bed.
He's too wonderful for me to be getting
mad about things he says.
I'm trying to train him to word his
thoughts better.
But it's a tough job. Hahaha.
If any of you guys are on msn,
gimme a holllla'!
Thirteen_percent@hotmail.Com
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 05-30-06 09:47am
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Wow,how messed up was that?I would have
been like "ok,i thought we were past that.
. .You took me back which means you
forgave me so you have no right to say
anything about it.Can we please move on
now?"just what I would have said
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